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jivedancer
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 53
0 miles · West Sussex

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Having chaperoned a few friends at clubs and had the fortune to organise a couple of similar situations the following has always formed part of the experience.   1. the scene /experience can absolutely end/stop finish whenever requested, no judgement or barganing. 2. Clarity over safe sex and sexual health including ensuring that atleast one other partner is also checking in on ensuring those rules are followed. 3. Wipes and refreshments aplenty if you think two of you can work up a steam add two more bodies and you'll be parched. 4. More so for the men but be truly comfortable with the presence of and possibly intimacy of another willy. Nothing kills the mood faster than someone launching in shock that a cock touched them. 5. make some sspace for communication and chatting because if all goes well theintensity is amazing but without allowing a cool down and check in it can also be quite a rebound when its all over.   Other than that you look like you have good comms andideas and plans so have fun and play safe and make new friends that smile. 

Speaking as a Bisexual man the movement from curious to bisexual i dont think of as a hard(har har) line. Ive always been extremely comfortable in group scenes and the presence of cock close to me never had me upset. I think it was in my thirties that I became more curious and actively interacted with another man in a group scene which started with a cuddle and as his wife encouraged us to both kiss and from there it wasnt long until I was on my knees feeling  cock inside me and then later in another session topping a guy whod joined the group.  In my fourties I found myself far more relaxed and actively flirted with men I found personally attractive and if they reciporcated id feel no worry about suggesting we make time to find a space and play. That was my own  sexual journey and now I find myself heading into my fifties with at least one or two other male firends whom we share a mutual enjoynent for each other much to some of  their friends delight.   This pandemic though has been a true kick in the balls for progressingthat experience and expression. I hold out hope though. 

What amazed me were the amount of couples and girls I had met at Ceroc and Jive events that appeared at Swingers Clubs. Certainly it was an eye opener for us to meet each other so fully clothed but it certainly allowed the dancing to feel a little more erotic and 'dirty' especially in the after evening conversations which lead to planned meet ups back at the clubs. Yes there are quite a few of us Swing Swingers.
Hello Marie, if theres still space and time then please add my name to the list. thank you
From the experiences Ive enjoyed I would say that whilst , no you dont actually Feel the other guys Cock against your own there is however the proximity of hairy legs and occasional ball slapping that might occur.
Luckily for me however the experiences have all been with bi couples so the guys had a few less hang ups( or downs ) about proximity as such the erotic and intimate experience of feeling as you both slide in and out and watch her writhe in either pleasure or a little pain ( get in too deep and she'lllet you know ! ) and your going to not be too bothered to care.
as for DP together in the pussy . its bloody hard to co-ordinate between , that, the condoms and the rythms.. you end up trying hard just to keep it hard.
If the opportunity ever arises though and all parties are willing then go for it at least you know you will have tried.
Yep im out and about again on a Saturday Evening. This time I am attending an Event at the Radisson at Heathrow and whilst ive not booked a room for the evening Im wondering if theres anything else to get upto in the area ?
Im partying down at Sussex Uni tonight but if things get dull It would be great to have some options. So whilst its last minute I would love to know if anyone is up for a meetup or can suggest a few parties / clubs for me to attend.
one or two comment from the pro - data base conversations here suggest the well run out axiom.
"if you are innocent then you have nothing to fear."
This wonderful sentiment runs well in police states and dictorial governments but goes against the concept of freedom and privacy and democracy.
We have from time to time penalised innocent people and convicted them of crimes and removed from them their personal freedoms only to discover at a later date their innocence.
The point is we shouldnt have to fear.
If it comes in , if DNA or this stuff comes in ,then I am going to do three things.
1. apply for copywrite of my DNA and Fingerprints.
2. Pay for a 23 and me kit and publish my DNA information and data public ally with some appropriate license.
3. Scan in high resolution all my finger and palm prints then publish them
I figure if the Govt wants it then we should just drop it all out there if we all did that the value of the information becomes diluted by its availability. It would undermine and reduce the value and effectiveness of such systems. After al it wouldnt just be you and the govt that could have access to that information so now youve got a interesting alibi.
The Govt and private business is no place to hold anything confidential so you might as well make it public.
im a bit of a rebel really
DNA profiling and assesment of evidence is not as cut and dried as CSI might make you believe.
Let alone the fact that the GOVT can berely manage to keep your private details out of the hands of anyone
I think it should be opt in and with control of the data and meta about the data in the hands of the owners of said not a central database.
If they want a full database on me then I want a refund in tax for the lesser amount of work the police and other authorities are having to tackle.
I actually make a bit of a living training employees and marketing companies to use it professionally beyond poking and drink swapping.
Hi Jamie.
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There is a MSN Mac client as well you can download and install.
The most I wear is a Smile.
I cant sleep if im dressed in anything. Its naked .. or well ... nothing.
I can help PM me with more about whats up Ive been involved with open source and linux since forever.
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But were you energised? Did you end up leaping around like a spring lamb? lol :lol:

I was . But mostly in search of something to remove the taste of the bloody meadow ( nice one Lost )
So I was hanging around in the County mall today and saw one of those new revive juice bar franchises. I spotted they did Wheatgrass shots. Being the inquisitive type I thought, hey ho lets give it a go.
If youve not tried it then let me describe what its like.
Its dark green and tastes like swallowing freshly cut grass cuttings. Your mouth ends up tasting like wet fields and you spend the day burping up the taste of grass and wet lawns.
Well I gave it a go but its not for me . bleuch !
Well thats me home in One Piece. And as soon as I check the name tag I will return it.
Whygirl thanks for sorting out the evening it was a pleasure and it was great to puta few faces and ideas to the people I chat with.
Wow !
Okay I had not expected so many sensible responses. Actually I dont know why I had that prejeduice so sorry.
Yep Global Warming and our effect on the world. Hmm well big science ( as sponsored by A.n. Policy Maker ) would like to talk about holes and tides and rain falls and frankly talks an awful lot of "facts" which is wierd since we cant even accurately determine weather over more than a few days.
Then theres the physicists who point out that the if you represented the amount of time man spent on earth as the length of this post it would be no more than a full stop in width. Weve barely been on this planet yet we presume we can have such a huge impact? Oh and lets remind ourselves that the developed world represents less than 30% of humanity on the planet and even that has some pretty broad terms.
So theres plenty if evidence that we probably dont have the big picture in mind.
Does any of that mean we shouldnt be living in a socially responsible way. That we shouldnt be tidying up after ourselves and using resources with responsibility ? no not at all. We shouldnt be bullied or guilted into doing it either though.
just my 10 pence.
For a wide definition of accuracy.
Ahh yes , the ever incongruous Hall Pass. For My Wife and I playing away ( her with Girls , me with Couples ) has been what has helped us both through feast and famine in a very long time together.
We are both by nature natural flirts and enjoy the pleasure of flirting with the another person.
Its worked for us and has sustained us and enabled us to make new and close friends. The rule has always been she doesnt want guys because girls on the side really are what turns her on. I dont want single girls unless they are looking to become close friends and lovers with us in the long term. Playing with couples is easier since im providing the added extra desired and theres no expectation to form new friendships ( most of the times ).
Id love to be able to pull out a signed stamped pass from my partner that shows we are talking and not hurting each other but really how would anyone know its real unless they got to know me and my partner.
That being said I have had some wonderful friends and experiences in the last 17 years so it does work and is possible. and now I am going to bed... ish
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we would all be better off.
I suspect that at least 20p on every cd is for buying the music moguls their daily fix of "columbian marching powder"

Wow never a truer word said in jest. Could it be that destablising the media industry would screw with the drug cartels now theres an interesting Economic incentive.
I live in
Horsham.
Yes Ive had some Indian Call Centre muppet send a letter to
Whoresham
Im sure they were taking the piss.
thats sounds like a solid plan. Beware the net nazis though. They prowl the Tinterwebs in search of stray users and then harang them all evening for their inappropriate use of a past participle.
At least thats the threat of a recent consultation paper that proposes making Internet Service Providers monitor internet connections for people downloading illegal content and files. Effectively providing a 3 strike rule and then your banned from the net.
Apart from the idiocy of attempting to monitor such connections and content there is the ridiculous belief that ISPS want to be made accountable for monitoring their content ( they dont )
More annoying is that yet again we see a Govt willing to support a business whose market and ideas have long since moved on after the Internet genie escaped from its bottle. Why dont they invest time in protecting consumers and investing legislation in protecting rather than restricting our right.
grrr of sussex
Roses are red
Violets are Pluckable
Frankly I find you
Rather Fuckable !
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what happens if no one brought the marmite dunno

Hah thanks for that now I have to wipe the screen.. ( of Toast and marmite of course ! )
My Wife and I were chatting about this topic the other day. Weve been together over 15 years and in that time have swung, argued, made love, had kids and planned disasters and failures together.
In all that time we realise that one of the better release valves for the both of us was an upfront honesty that we are adults and we enjoy flirting and watching horny people around us.
Its amazing how well a little honest understanding releases so much tension and creates so many hot nights.
Regular disconnects on a Wireless connection on Windows is caused by the truly wonderful Wireless Zero Configuration tool. If you search google for Wireless Disconnects XP you'll see its getting to be a pain in the arse ( and not in a good way ) . Theres some real mixed messages as to how to fix it. I gave up ( and I provide IT support for a living ) and just connected a Ethernet cable to the laptop and used the HomePlug ethernet adapters around the house.