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lalibela
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 81

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Cherry - You are soo right!
In general though most folk are just folk .. with different senses of sexuality. Thank goodness we are not all the same. Part of the fun is meeting and sharing reminiscences etc.. Of course some are "newbies" and introducing themselves. Most embarrassed or awkward are "bi -curious" guys. Even though they want to share masturbation etc.. most are insistent that they are not wrongly "labelled". It does not matter if you enjoy sharing - It does not need a definition or justification .
Women (I have found) tend to be less concernd about all this. .. and happily enjoy watching guys playing with each other or sharing..etc..
Quote by Cherrytree
Dont be worried.
Ive been on here ages and not met any axe murderers yet lol
Also, you will be amazed at how different some people can be from their forum/chat room persona.
I've seen people who on here are full of bravado, have self-esteem to the point of cockiness, sound like they have "been there/done that" so much so that you might feel apprehensive about being in their company in case you aren't "with it" enough - and then when you do meet them they are the shyest, self effacing quiet person you've ever met.
So - don't go by how the minority sometimes sound on here. Yes there are idiots, like in all walks of life. But there's also loads of great people. :thumbup:
Cherry x
If you just visit the coasts of Canary Islands then the resorts are commercially for the majority of island visitors. If you visit by flight only and take "gua-guas" (local buses )to interior small villages and stay B&B in these with a bit of Spanish then you will find a quite different Tenerife!
The small farmers and agric. workers in the little local bars in these villages are a different world from the commecial coast. Food is of "papas bonitas" served as "papas arregudas" - these are potatoes of local varieties grown above 6000 feet. Hard to find the dishes based on this on the costas (I have seen and ordered but found they used "papas blancas" standard Euro varieties not at all the same!)
Local festivals - ege San Andre November 30th is a wildn noise fest of locals in the village of that name.
Needless to say accom and food and drink is much cheaper than in concrete and glass package deals on the costas.
tmann - has it about right. .. and as others mention there is an artificiality about imposing definitions -hetero, bi, homosexual etc... We are all sexual and by experiences and/or inclination we are all able to enjoy sexual contact. Like tmann I don't want kissing or anal with a man but do enjoy mutual masturbation and have found women enjoy seeing feeling men playing with each other or watching guys masturbating together - I suppose like men like to see lesbian porn etc..?
"Bi-curious" seems to be the "get out" (get in?) clause men use when wanting to be with a couple? It indicates a lack of phobia about male> male contact - inevitable ina real 3some with a woman. - Some guys are so concerned that they can only "take turns" or watch to avoid any contact all!
However there are some situations where the man uses his female partner as a bait to attract contact with a man rather than sharing with his woman?
I cannot see a problem..? Frequent masturbation to relieve tension is quite nomal. Lucky to have frequent enough erections to need relief. As suggested - why not share on the chat room?
Re Edinburgh area.. Had fun with couples there. Be careful though. . usual care/discretion. .. etc. .
Bes t way of verifying is to use telephone. A mobile number is useful. Phone after initial chat - on MSN or adult site.
(Why can I not type in conversation in rooms etc..?) Is it my PC (works every other site!). No "box" or place for dialogue yet I see other typing conversatrion i happily!