hhmmm... I assume shes know's you're on this forum...... if not then yep - its a problem!
If she does know then surely a threesome's the answer if her attraction is purely physical? If not then looks like the beginning of the end of the relationship i guess?
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Quote by tallnhairy
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Firstly, lots of forums, bad idea, poor mods have more places to look. Also the cafe is the cafe because it covers such a wide range of topics. Having said that a place to move the clutter would not hurt. Yes people would moan, but hey the conversation can still carry on in there unlike a locked thread. I would call it the 'Out There...' forum. Not offensive, not off topic, just really, well, out thereIf a topic is offensive then lock it and move it 'Out There' to save us all reading it.
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... Not necessarily.... I used to moderate a board (different subject matter!!) which had i think about 10,000 members at the time...... we had about 10 different areas, and a team of 8 moderators, who basically had their own specific areas to concentrate on, and then they just randomly surfed the rest...... system worked quite well for us
Quote by BigScotsBloke
There are a massive number of members and posters yet only three areas of the forum! I've made the suggestion before but in view of the recent posts and strength of feeling coming out maybe now would be a good time to expand the forums to creat a forum for 'swing related talk' specifially, funnies etc specifically, and finally the 'Off Topic' i.e. nowt to do with swinging area? Perhaps then at least the people who want to post funnies etc, wildly off topic questions / observations can go there?
Well good idea if Mark can spare the bandwidth and storage space then sure a few more forums would make life easier :
here's my thoughts
1) Lets Meet Up
2) Dogging
3) Swinging
4) Munches
5) Humour
6) Off Topic , say wot ya like
As I said above all depends on whether Mark feels that the site can spare the bandwidth and the storage space , as well as needing a few more Moderators to check out the new forums.
Davie
Good Choices Davie!
doh .... off we go again...... as said above - this is now a very long post - and some good suggestions have been made.
I once got hung drawn and quartered for speaking out of turn and criticising - and yes - in some ways if you don't like it - then don't come in!
But I would like to make one point for consideration;
There are a massive number of members and posters yet only three areas of the forum! I've made the suggestion before but in view of the recent posts and strength of feeling coming out maybe now would be a good time to expand the forums to creat a forum for 'swing related talk' specifially, funnies etc specifically, and finally the 'Off Topic' i.e. nowt to do with swinging area? Perhaps then at least the people who want to post funnies etc, wildly off topic questions / observations can go there?
In reality currently we have an area for dogging , a meeting up area and then an anything goes area which in its very title and subeading - which clearly says general discussion and chit chat - where it seems that if people post too much chit caht then they get locked - which i guess is a bit of a contradiction?
It seems clear that with over 24000 members we would benefit from more than three forums?
It bothers me that a forum that should be friendly will evolve into a messy place where people are just sniping at each other - which naturally cannot be described as a fun place to be!
I just hope that we can rid ourselves of the ill feeling and go forward with some of the positive suggestions!
There......
KEEP SMILING
I once got hung drawn and quartered for speaking out of turn and criticising - and yes - in some ways if you don't like it - then don't come in!
But I would like to make one point for consideration;
There are a massive number of members and posters yet only three areas of the forum! I've made the suggestion before but in view of the recent posts and strength of feeling coming out maybe now would be a good time to expand the forums to creat a forum for 'swing related talk' specifially, funnies etc specifically, and finally the 'Off Topic' i.e. nowt to do with swinging area? Perhaps then at least the people who want to post funnies etc, wildly off topic questions / observations can go there?
In reality currently we have an area for dogging , a meeting up area and then an anything goes area which in its very title and subeading - which clearly says general discussion and chit chat - where it seems that if people post too much chit caht then they get locked - which i guess is a bit of a contradiction?
It seems clear that with over 24000 members we would benefit from more than three forums?
It bothers me that a forum that should be friendly will evolve into a messy place where people are just sniping at each other - which naturally cannot be described as a fun place to be!
I just hope that we can rid ourselves of the ill feeling and go forward with some of the positive suggestions!
There......
KEEP SMILING
Yes - I Gotta agree Cadwell is technically challenging - I decked it on several occasions at the gooseneck trying to get that adverse camber thing sorted........ The full circuit through the trees is very tricky - especially in bad weather !
I guess I'd probably place it first, but then again my absolute fave tracks to race at were Three Sisters (Wigan) and Knockhill in Scotland - I always did well there (i.e never threw it down tha track) - but ho hum my racing days are over now...........
Sex is way more fun though!
I guess I'd probably place it first, but then again my absolute fave tracks to race at were Three Sisters (Wigan) and Knockhill in Scotland - I always did well there (i.e never threw it down tha track) - but ho hum my racing days are over now...........
Sex is way more fun though!
)Dawn - your 'friend' should get hubby to take her to London,
see a show - anything they can get a ticket for..........
take her shopping for a suitably revealing outfit........
wander around Soho and get some new toys - the expanding vibrating butt plug is definitely the best and most versatile ........
take her to a VERY expensive restaurant and wine and dine her
........ back to a hotel.......
breakfast brought up to your room.........
Maybe Ian could do the same for you??? (
:? :? ) I could suggest it
Hee hee
see a show - anything they can get a ticket for..........
take her shopping for a suitably revealing outfit........
wander around Soho and get some new toys - the expanding vibrating butt plug is definitely the best and most versatile ........
take her to a VERY expensive restaurant and wine and dine her
........ back to a hotel.......
breakfast brought up to your room.........
Maybe Ian could do the same for you??? (
:? :? ) I could suggest itHee hee
Yes - I have to agree - just go to London, - you'll get a ticket for something or other from one of the west end box offices, stay the night, doa nice restaurant, have a look around soho for some new toys, have breakfast in bed in your room (!) ...... happy anniversary!
Go for it man......
Go for it man......
:roll:
:wink: :wink:i dont think there is much to shoose between MK and castleford - i usually go aevery couple of months to either one of them ( both about the same distance for me!) I have found that MK usually has a few more rails and toys for us boarders.......
Cheap it ain't but its good to just get back on the board after the snow season ends.....
Thought #1 - maybe we should get a SH session together at one of them. Meet in the bar, a couple of dricks, get changed in the (largeish) lockers.....hhmmmm.... could take a while..... on the slopes....... back to the bar...... sounds good? I'd be up for organising something if there are enough takers.... let me know!
Thought 2# - ah yes a swingers week or weekend in the Alps - cheap flights out there... yes like the idea of that - apres ski fun! Any takers on that one too?
Cheap it ain't but its good to just get back on the board after the snow season ends.....
Thought #1 - maybe we should get a SH session together at one of them. Meet in the bar, a couple of dricks, get changed in the (largeish) lockers.....hhmmmm.... could take a while..... on the slopes....... back to the bar...... sounds good? I'd be up for organising something if there are enough takers.... let me know!
Thought 2# - ah yes a swingers week or weekend in the Alps - cheap flights out there... yes like the idea of that - apres ski fun! Any takers on that one too?
It was amazing weekend - my first time there so I was a Glasto Virgin but i'm soooo hooked on it - can't wait for 2007!
It's undescribeable really the sense of calm, and spititually its so uplifting. I still fell on a high now (without any substance help!!)
Lost Vagueness is mad - but so many cool people - anything and everything goes !
Fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
It's undescribeable really the sense of calm, and spititually its so uplifting. I still fell on a high now (without any substance help!!)
Lost Vagueness is mad - but so many cool people - anything and everything goes !
Fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: wifey only played for the first time 9 months ago - i was initially nervous and a little jealous, but she kept eye contact with ME all the time as she was playing with another guy - that helped a lot as i knew she was focusing as much on watching me have pleasure as her own.... and everything has worked out fine. J was nearly two years plucking up the courage for the fifrst time in taking it from fantasy to reality. A couple of experiences have been better than others, and we have some clearly defined rules!
so in all - like above posts you REALLY have to BOTh be sure!
so in all - like above posts you REALLY have to BOTh be sure!
