Thats was an incrediblky bad programme
I found it pretty depressing overall..... what a collection of half wits and fucked up people they found
Terrible!
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lincskate
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
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Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Maybe the other site has a closer balance of single males and females
Horby blonde.... its not a swinging site of any sort whatsoever! Its just a music sharing system...... nothing in my or any of the ladies profiles i've met even hints at any sexy activities - thats the strange thing!
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Lissa,
if its measurements then I guess its very easy to list waht the measuremnts SHOULD be..... and then list what they actually are........ then its clear to see and no-one can have any dispute.
I guess there will be a tolerance of some sort, but its clear that if they are beyond a certain figure then they are wrong plain and simple....... so you are totally right to reject.
The solution i guess is to stay calm, don't get mad, and just calmly reject thos that are made to wrong sizes.
if its measurements then I guess its very easy to list waht the measuremnts SHOULD be..... and then list what they actually are........ then its clear to see and no-one can have any dispute.
I guess there will be a tolerance of some sort, but its clear that if they are beyond a certain figure then they are wrong plain and simple....... so you are totally right to reject.
The solution i guess is to stay calm, don't get mad, and just calmly reject thos that are made to wrong sizes.
northwest-cpl wrote:
Morals.
A word that gets bandied about so often in this sort of thread in an apparently self justifying way. According to society at large, none of us has morals, yet we are all ready to be outraged by tabloid reports of swinging activities, justifying our activities as moral. Are the continual attacks on married singles whistling in the dark? Their morals are worse than ours, so we must be ok?
This thread asked for help with a PC problem. The marital status of the poster had no bearing on the thread except as a reason for why the question was being asked. Why is there any need to criticise her situation, especially from a position of total ignorance? If you don't agree with her lifestyle ignore the thread. She wasn't asking for opinions on married swinging but how to clear history.
How quick is everyone to jump on the occasional evangelist that comes in here denouncing swingers as moralless perverts, telling them to take their personal views of morals and stick them. However some of these same people continually feel the need to criticise others whose moral standpoint is not quite the same as their's.
By all means have your own set of morals and stick to them. Just don't keep telling other people that their morals are wrong just because they are different to yours.
Theres really nothing else to say on this except northwests comments which i think are 100% correct.
This site will attract people who are seeking sex, some married, some not, some with permission, some not...... Myself, I believe that as long as folks are truthful early on about their situation then all parties can make their choice...... the problem surely is when people say they are something they aren't!
I think its a great shame when, especially on a site like this, people start trying to impose their own morals on others........ it can only ever degenerate into bad feeling.......
Personally i wish a mod would lock this one now.... i hate to see folks slagging each other off about having sex......... I hate bad feeling....... :shock:
I just finished building myself a new shed, to add to the one I built for 'er indoors as an art studio last year. The studio isabout 14feet x 8 feet.
The new shed is about 14 foot x 8 feet, all built in shiplap with 2"x2" framework so its very very solid. Shingles on the roof, and all finished in cream paint.
Building your own is the way to go if you are able to....... you get a far better quality at half the price you would pay otherwise.... and of course you can make it exactly the size you want!
The new shed is about 14 foot x 8 feet, all built in shiplap with 2"x2" framework so its very very solid. Shingles on the roof, and all finished in cream paint.
Building your own is the way to go if you are able to....... you get a far better quality at half the price you would pay otherwise.... and of course you can make it exactly the size you want!
I took my girlfriend to Blidworth - 3pm on Monday afternoon....... it was our first time dogging and although she was very keen to try... we thought 3pm on a Monday afternoon there may be just 1-2 folks around to put on a show for.
Anyway, we drove in to the car park, and there was just one other car at the other end. We started kissing (eager) and literally within 10 minutes (quite weird how it happened) there were at leat TEN cars there..... some kept moving aroun to get a better look.
The suddenness of it kind of spooked my girlfriend, and she found it exxtremely intimidating the way the guys were just staring at us intently and moving around the car park.
For a first time this was way too intimidating for her... she was just looking to show a little, possibly give a blow job through the window, but all these guys spooked her (and me if truth be known) so we waited in the car for nearly an hour to see if any would leave. During this time, we were just sat in the car chatting.... one guys got out his car and walked over just staring in teh car as we chatted... othere drove and parked alongside and stared..... My girlfiend was very uncomfortable, so we left.
Now this unfrotuantely bad experience for aour first time has raised a few questions which we would appreciate some feedback on!
1- Is this normal numbers there on an afternoon?
2 - How many couples actually go there on an evening?
3 - For a first time dogging, would we be better to look at a quiter venue?
4 - For a first time would it be better to actually place an ad and arrange to meet someone?
5 - did we just make a bad choice of venue?
Any other guidance would help.
My girlfriend is really keen to experince, but only really wants to play for 1-3 people - and preferably another couple or girl as well for company. we want to give it another go, but would just like to know whether this was just bad luck or bad choice of venue......
Any other comments / feedback appreciated either here or by PM....
Cheers
Anyway, we drove in to the car park, and there was just one other car at the other end. We started kissing (eager) and literally within 10 minutes (quite weird how it happened) there were at leat TEN cars there..... some kept moving aroun to get a better look.
The suddenness of it kind of spooked my girlfriend, and she found it exxtremely intimidating the way the guys were just staring at us intently and moving around the car park.
For a first time this was way too intimidating for her... she was just looking to show a little, possibly give a blow job through the window, but all these guys spooked her (and me if truth be known) so we waited in the car for nearly an hour to see if any would leave. During this time, we were just sat in the car chatting.... one guys got out his car and walked over just staring in teh car as we chatted... othere drove and parked alongside and stared..... My girlfiend was very uncomfortable, so we left.
Now this unfrotuantely bad experience for aour first time has raised a few questions which we would appreciate some feedback on!
1- Is this normal numbers there on an afternoon?
2 - How many couples actually go there on an evening?
3 - For a first time dogging, would we be better to look at a quiter venue?
4 - For a first time would it be better to actually place an ad and arrange to meet someone?
5 - did we just make a bad choice of venue?
Any other guidance would help.
My girlfriend is really keen to experince, but only really wants to play for 1-3 people - and preferably another couple or girl as well for company. we want to give it another go, but would just like to know whether this was just bad luck or bad choice of venue......
Any other comments / feedback appreciated either here or by PM....
Cheers
