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5 Jun 2004

Quote by billybofh
Long hair on men, definitely sexy, but only if it's CLEAN.....(of course, same for women too)....

I think it should be compulsory for everyone with long hair to get spend at least 1/3rd of their income in :)
Must... resist.... lush shopping cart..... must ....... resist......... biggrin

I LOVE Lush....mmm...your hair must smell nice!! :D

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5 Jun 2004

On the coach, sitting at the very back. Needless to say, the coach wasn't very full! Once my partner brought me to orgasm with his fingers while we were in the park, loads of people around. No one could see anything, but it was a VERY difficult to be quiet. Touching each other in public places is a big turn on (and wanting someone to see!).
Going lingerie shopping with another woman and getting naughty in the changing room is a big fantasy of mine biggrin

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5 Jun 2004

Long hair on men, definitely sexy, but only if it's CLEAN.....(of course, same for women too).... smile

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5 Jun 2004

Well, I'm part of a couple that doesn't have a webcam!! But, we've found chatting on msn to be quite revealing, and we also have a phone chat at least between the two women to be make sure. Then there's always the meet for drinks first option. But then, we aren't in a major rush, so find that it pays off to take the time to do this first.
And intuition -- most definitely. There's a balance though between being careful and being rude/hostile. Anyone that comes across as being closed and suspicious rather than simply careful, isn't high on my list anyway!
Just my two cents worth ---oops, pence I mean...

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4 Jun 2004

Thank you, Steve!!! kiss

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4 Jun 2004

Sorry if there are already detailed instructions elsewhere on this site....but I've been trying to upload pics on our ad and no matter what I do, the pic size is still to large. Any tips would be MOST appreciated. sad

lovely_lips xx

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31 May 2004

What about a blowjob when someone's had something hot to drink....hot water, herbal tea...makes the mouth much warmer than usual.

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31 May 2004

Quote by Mister_Discreet
I'm guessing Big Brother - Kitten is a sort of Lesbian Jarvis Cocker impersonator with an attitude problem

Thanks Mister Discreet -- confused

My lack of telly awareness is clearly showing...lol

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31 May 2004

Am i the only one that doesn't understand this? Waiting for enlightenment..... confused

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31 May 2004

A relatively new book -- 'The Bride Stripped Bare', interesting read, lots of sex, written by a woman. My partner who also read it, kept stopping to ask me, do women really think like this??....lol....
I also love shorter stories, sexual fantasies, etc...and this is old stuff but Nancy Friday has published several collections of real women's fantasy...for 'research purposes'...lol, research is definitely not the reason so many copies have sold!! biggrin

I love to read, and yes, particularly like sexy escapist reads, so do let me know if any others have books to suggest as well.

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31 May 2004

Was definitely a fingers gal until my partner used a toy on me for the first time...omg...now i'm a believer....lol....i do find it more exciting playing with toys together, like when he uses the vibrator or the erm...how shall i put this?....clit stimulator, on me. Toys have been a very happy discovery. My partner also REALLY likes to watch me use them and help out.... biggrin

And this definitely doesn't take away from my wanting his cock, quite the opposite!
p.s. Marya, I think that frequency/dependency is a myth....lol

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31 May 2004

Or a poll on favorite places.....coach, bus, call box, park, lol....

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30 May 2004

American: ride = lift
I got into trouble with this one here...lol
And the word knew.....is very, very odd!

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30 May 2004

Quote by KitKat
Tony,
Ask your wife what her sexual fantasies are. It will give you a chance to explore each others sexual fantasies.
If her fantasies are the same as yours, then you will probably move forward quite quickly.
However, if her fantasy is to watch while you get fucked by another bloke - then you have to decide just how far you are willing to go to explore each others fantasies.
lhk
Kat

I love Kat's response....so true. This is a two way street, so if you decide to explore fantasies openly, be prepared for some surprises. Other than that, I can only whole-heartedly agree with Heather -- it has to be about her. Good luck, Tony.

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29 May 2004

Thank you everyone!! biggrin

I'm warmed by the welcomes!

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29 May 2004

I started waxing a couple of years ago and haven't looked back! Shaving always made me feel really itchy and sore. And although waxing can be painful, particularly the first time, I've found a couple of minutes pain worth the smooth feeling and it does get easier and hair comes back much softer. And, I notice a difference in the way my partner is able to perform oral, as well as how it feels on the receiving end...definitely increased sensation, particularly around the outer lips..... redface

. Plus, as other ladies have mentioned the increase in wetness.....simply means I tend to walk around in a state of constant arousal -- not a bad thing! biggrin

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29 May 2004

I've been reading through posts and ads on this site (with keen interest!...lol) for a while, but am now looking forward to joining the conversations and wanted to introduce myself.
I'm a bi fem in my early 30s, based in London. I would love to get to know other bi fems on the site. I'm relatively new to London, so am especially interested in making some friends to enjoy all this city has to offer, and the warm weather! Picnics in the parks, cinema, plays, or good conversation and 2 hour coffees! Apart from this, my partner (male) and I are also dipping our toes into (soft) swinging at our own, rather slow, but very enjoyable pace.
I posted on the 'meets' forum earlier today to see if there would be interest in a social bi fem meet in London, but understand that as a new 'poster' on the site, you all may want to get to know me better first! (Thanks Sappho for some good and kind advice! ) So, here I am, hope to get to know you all and make some friends. Also, if the idea for a bi-fem social meet does take off, I'd love any advice from others who have organised similar events.

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29 May 2004

Thanks Sappho! Will take your advice, and will post on cafe as well. I'm looking forward to getting to know people socially. So far, have been mainly reading other people's posts, but now ready to join in the conversations! biggrin

Can I pm you to ask a little more about organising such an event?

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29 May 2004

Hi everyone, (but particularly the bi fems on this site!), I was wondering if there would be any interest in a social meet in London for bi-fems to chat and get to know each other over a few drinks?
I'd be happy to arrange if there is a good response. I was thinking of sometime in mid or late June. Could those who would be interested to attend, let me know? And also if anyone would like to help with making arrangements?
Look forward to hearing from you! smile

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