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The missus also wants to know why she hasn't had any pm's lol she's jealous. (I think it's a bad idea to post that though).
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mrbusyhands
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 39
Bi-curious Female, 38
0 miles · City of Edinburgh
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Quote by jessicerr:shock: :shock: :shock: My dog always smelled rotten even after a shower!!!
The smell of a lassie out the shower
:lol:lol I actually thought someone would take the mickey out the buses thing...
oh another thing that really gets my juices flowing is hearing a "lady" sing.
Thanks guys, and thank you Redhot I think you are kinda right. I think that we'll probably wait a while but I'd like to still keep chatting to people and perhaps make some friends (well as friendly as possible while still keeping alittle anonimity) so that when we do come to do it (if we don't change our minds) we're not at the same place but more informed etc etc. I think we'll still look for a female for her as she's quite adiment about that and is a lot less nervous about it too, but we'll probably wait a little while for that also.
Thanks guys for all your help and understanding, Thanks especially to Redhot and Kiss_me. Looking forward to chatting to y'all ;-)
Thanks guys for all your help and understanding, Thanks especially to Redhot and Kiss_me. Looking forward to chatting to y'all ;-)
Do you think theres ever a problem with meeting up socially first i.e. you don't click, have nothing in common. Would that be a big problem?
We're both quite young and seeing theres a lot of members 30+ we'd be worried that socially we might get on friendly enough but over that it might be awkward (we don't have enough in common whatever)
We're both quite young and seeing theres a lot of members 30+ we'd be worried that socially we might get on friendly enough but over that it might be awkward (we don't have enough in common whatever)
Ahhhh ok, I admit both of us are worried about letting down another couple but my gf's experiance was true and she is very worried that things might be really awkward. (especially since she only wants me to play with her and for some of her fantasies she wants to be tied up and helpless).
The biggest thing we are worried about (in letting the other couple/girl down) is if we change our mind last minute and decide not to play at all or get real uncomfortable during playing and want to stop (especially true for another male with her).
Thanks for your opinion though and any advice/help whatever is apprieciated.
...Sends a barrage of thanks instead...
The biggest thing we are worried about (in letting the other couple/girl down) is if we change our mind last minute and decide not to play at all or get real uncomfortable during playing and want to stop (especially true for another male with her).
Thanks for your opinion though and any advice/help whatever is apprieciated.
...Sends a barrage of thanks instead...
"If God was a woman she would have made sperm taste like chocolate." - ???
"Look, Dave, I can see you're really upset about this" - HAL, 2001: space odessy (sp)
"Oh, but you can't expect to wield supreme executive power just because some watery tart threw a sword at you." - Monty python
"Look, Dave, I can see you're really upset about this" - HAL, 2001: space odessy (sp)
"Oh, but you can't expect to wield supreme executive power just because some watery tart threw a sword at you." - Monty python
I was just asking a question that my gf was worried about... she'd had a 3sum b4 where one guy couldn't keep it up and walked out so she and the other guy just awkwardly stopped. She was worried about something like that happening again. Am shifting through the old threads now... some good stuff (some very funny stuff too)
I might be wrong but, Could you not wipe the whole computer clean ( ) backing up important files first. Then reinstalling everything apart from Norton which a lot of people really don't like and I too think is crap. There are loads of free antivirus software out there like Avast ( ) . And firewalls too Zonealaram is the most popuar (free) ( ) do a google search and i'm sure you find other alternatives and advice.
Well what do you do if you invite some guy over for a threesome with you and your gf and that happens I mean kinda defeats the porpose no?
The question perhaps should be, ever meet up with someone who was very disappointing (male/female)? What happened? what did you do after it happened?
The question perhaps should be, ever meet up with someone who was very disappointing (male/female)? What happened? what did you do after it happened?
Quote by RedHot
If you're new to the scene, I'm not entirely sure asking for people's bad experiences is going to help you gain confidence. You may end up hearing some really awful tales that may put you of the whole thing altogether
Tracy-Jayne
I just like to know everything, knowing the wost that can happen makes me feel safer. But I see your point, was hoping perhaps hearing peoples bad experiances might help us know alittle what to do etiquette wise at least, if something went wrong, plus then I'd know we weren't the only people to have this happen to.
Has anyone experianced a bad performance when swinging with another male/ couple? for example he busts his nut in like 5 mintues... what happened? Anyone had any bad performances with Females?
Tell your stories, how you felt, what happened, was it a big deal, where you able to continue, was it really akward?
Interested in knowing peoples experiances and thoughts on the subject.
What would you do if someone (either individually or in a couple) didn't perform?
Tell your stories, how you felt, what happened, was it a big deal, where you able to continue, was it really akward?
Interested in knowing peoples experiances and thoughts on the subject.
What would you do if someone (either individually or in a couple) didn't perform?
Quote by Jas-Tim
Do you want friendship with those you play with, or is it anonymity you are looking for?
I'm sorry if it doesn't sound ever so positive but you really need to be in your comfort zone for it to be a great experience.
Jas
XXX
We're looking for anonymity (we're hoping to play far away from were we stay, travelling isn't a big deal) but if we made friends with a nice couple who could talk to us give advice etra and perhaps play with us would be nice.
Lol I'm thankful it's not that positive at least this way my nerves are justified :-)
As for the bondage, she's not into really hard stuff, we were thinking more along the lines of being tied spread eagled and blindfolded and being teased and played with. I was thinking that would be a good way to start so we don't sit around like we're clueless. And she likes being tied up too.
AmI right in saying that for a gangbang it's best to invite individuals (ie none of the participants know each other?)
Thanks Sheddy :-) Very Much appreciated. May I ask some questions?
How acceptable is it to have your own way? I mean how simpathetic are people if you change your mind extra? If you lose your bottle the first time are you very unlikely to meet again?
Also are there many females/couples that are happy to play with a my gf while I watch and possibly join in (only to play with my gf mind you i'd keep my hands off the other party.)?
One last thing, are hotel meets a good idea? (We'd pay for the room)
How acceptable is it to have your own way? I mean how simpathetic are people if you change your mind extra? If you lose your bottle the first time are you very unlikely to meet again?
Also are there many females/couples that are happy to play with a my gf while I watch and possibly join in (only to play with my gf mind you i'd keep my hands off the other party.)?
One last thing, are hotel meets a good idea? (We'd pay for the room)
Hopefully won't put you off if I ramble.
Girlfriend is very bi-curious and has never been with another girl. Her fantasies are: being tied up/blindfolded and fucked by a girl, me and a girl, 2 men, 6+ men and a mix of men and women. She'd also like to do these fantasies untied/unblindfolded.
Trouble is we're both very shy and inexperianced. and i'm a bit more nervous than her.
What I want to know is whether it would be better having her tied up and blindfolded the first time (she's happy with this and i'd feel alittle less nervous this way too) or to be unrestricted.
And also whats the best way to organise such things... She says just to find people of a dating site but i'm worried they'll be too many guys just up for a quick shag. I'd feel more comfortable with a couple perferably married the first time. And for the guys to be experianced when it comes to it.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Girlfriend is very bi-curious and has never been with another girl. Her fantasies are: being tied up/blindfolded and fucked by a girl, me and a girl, 2 men, 6+ men and a mix of men and women. She'd also like to do these fantasies untied/unblindfolded.
Trouble is we're both very shy and inexperianced. and i'm a bit more nervous than her.
What I want to know is whether it would be better having her tied up and blindfolded the first time (she's happy with this and i'd feel alittle less nervous this way too) or to be unrestricted.
And also whats the best way to organise such things... She says just to find people of a dating site but i'm worried they'll be too many guys just up for a quick shag. I'd feel more comfortable with a couple perferably married the first time. And for the guys to be experianced when it comes to it.
Any advice would be appreciated.
