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mrbusyhands
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 39
Bi-curious Female, 38
0 miles · City of Edinburgh
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My experiance from being a complete post whore on other forums is that sometimes people post to get their post count up but also people sometimes post as they use the forum as more of a chat room. To combat the latter I could suggest another forum named "chitchat" or something which is used for just general banter.
As post count is often used as a status symbol there is also a method employed by some forums where you can read a persons profile and vote for them if you think they're good/helpful/benifical to the forum, that way people are ranked by their usefulness and someone with 100 very good posts will be higher ranked and thus higher regarded than someone with 500 posts gained over a few weeks of post whoring.
-Him.x
Another idea is to allow forum users to add a comment (and only one comment) to someones profile so people have reviews (the person in question could always turn off the review feature). Not sure if any forum does this but I know of at least one forum which does the voting thing
As post count is often used as a status symbol there is also a method employed by some forums where you can read a persons profile and vote for them if you think they're good/helpful/benifical to the forum, that way people are ranked by their usefulness and someone with 100 very good posts will be higher ranked and thus higher regarded than someone with 500 posts gained over a few weeks of post whoring.
-Him.x
Another idea is to allow forum users to add a comment (and only one comment) to someones profile so people have reviews (the person in question could always turn off the review feature). Not sure if any forum does this but I know of at least one forum which does the voting thing
Be strong.
There are other things than sex, and sex is an area that you can work on. Start talking to him in bed and agree that you guys will stop having sex for say a month. Also agree that every day or two you both must do something sexual to ther other person (not sex though). Try and agree that you'll try new things (perhaps say each time it has to be something different). Experiment with mutual masterbation, oral, light bondage , the first two in different circumstances e.g. in public places whatever.
Try and make sex a more fun and relaxed thing.
After a few weeks or a month start incorperating new things like begin to almost have sex and tease each other with your pussy and him teasing you with his dick but don't penetrate. Then move slowly onto full sex with alot of foreplay first. Even if the sex isn't great you might find that you really enjoy the foreplay. Also as you slow things down you might be able to control the sex better and do things how you like it.
You might not be able to make the sex the best ever BUT you can easily turn the experiance into the best ever.
Alittle story told to me by a friend. She didn't want to lose her virginity, so they didn't have sex but she didn't want to lose him (he was a bit of a player) so she gave him lots of oral everywhere and anywhere and got him to do the same to her. She also sent him movies of her playing with herself and videod her giving him oral and vice versa.
Now she admitted that doing all these things for him without him asking turned her on tons and when he did things to her it was exciting because it wasn't the normal plain old shag. I don't talk to her much now but last I heard they were having sex and had a good relationship (this was after a year without sex).
What i'm trying to convey is just the idea of experimenting (with each other) and not putting so much emphasis on sex, try making foreplay a much bigger part.
Sorry if I've rambled missus hasn't been around for a while (am busy with work) to make sure I'm sensible -Him.x
There are other things than sex, and sex is an area that you can work on. Start talking to him in bed and agree that you guys will stop having sex for say a month. Also agree that every day or two you both must do something sexual to ther other person (not sex though). Try and agree that you'll try new things (perhaps say each time it has to be something different). Experiment with mutual masterbation, oral, light bondage , the first two in different circumstances e.g. in public places whatever.
Try and make sex a more fun and relaxed thing.
After a few weeks or a month start incorperating new things like begin to almost have sex and tease each other with your pussy and him teasing you with his dick but don't penetrate. Then move slowly onto full sex with alot of foreplay first. Even if the sex isn't great you might find that you really enjoy the foreplay. Also as you slow things down you might be able to control the sex better and do things how you like it.
You might not be able to make the sex the best ever BUT you can easily turn the experiance into the best ever.
Alittle story told to me by a friend. She didn't want to lose her virginity, so they didn't have sex but she didn't want to lose him (he was a bit of a player) so she gave him lots of oral everywhere and anywhere and got him to do the same to her. She also sent him movies of her playing with herself and videod her giving him oral and vice versa.
Now she admitted that doing all these things for him without him asking turned her on tons and when he did things to her it was exciting because it wasn't the normal plain old shag. I don't talk to her much now but last I heard they were having sex and had a good relationship (this was after a year without sex).
What i'm trying to convey is just the idea of experimenting (with each other) and not putting so much emphasis on sex, try making foreplay a much bigger part.
Sorry if I've rambled missus hasn't been around for a while (am busy with work) to make sure I'm sensible -Him.x
I've just been looking at some of the pictures I've taken with my digital camera and they give information like what model of camera was used. I'm abit worried that other information will be in it like computer id number whatever. How can I change my pictures properties so that no-one can find any information such as type of camera.
Further more is there a way to change the data on the picture to whatever date you want easily?
Further more is there a way to change the data on the picture to whatever date you want easily?
You need to think to yourself how much you use the net now and how much you want to use the net. If all you do is use it for checking emails and posting on the forum and perhaps wanting to go on the chatroom it might not be worth upgrading. Especially if you're using pay-as you surf and it costs £10 every 3 months.
How ever good broadband packages can be gotten for £15 or less a month and in the case of telewest you get free cable tv (though the most basic package which is better than freeview).
Broadband and the net can be made to save you money, by being able to shop around (with dial-up it can be difficult to quickly surf a few retailers websites for a product) and buy things alot cheaper online as well as having a much bigger selection. Nike for example will personalise your trainers for more or less the same price as a non-personilised pair.
Also if you want to look at porn the then broadband is essentially a must, you'll find a whole host of adult website offering a huge amount of selection for often less than the price of a dvd from a sex shop.
How ever good broadband packages can be gotten for £15 or less a month and in the case of telewest you get free cable tv (though the most basic package which is better than freeview).
Broadband and the net can be made to save you money, by being able to shop around (with dial-up it can be difficult to quickly surf a few retailers websites for a product) and buy things alot cheaper online as well as having a much bigger selection. Nike for example will personalise your trainers for more or less the same price as a non-personilised pair.
Also if you want to look at porn the then broadband is essentially a must, you'll find a whole host of adult website offering a huge amount of selection for often less than the price of a dvd from a sex shop.
Quote by elektoi
Would it be possible to include an option that stated on their profile that they were indeed chatting, and on which server, and in which room, or would the costs of that particular feature be prohibitve?
If you wanted to be able to chat to someone when you are online can't you just send them a pm if you see they're online and ask where they are?
My opinion (and thats what it is MY opinion) is that he probably wants to be involved and perhaps would feel left out if you started playing away, i'm not saying he'll be jealous but I think he'll be a little jealous of not being involved. I mean with my gf I told her she can play with other girls alone as long as she tells me every thing that happens and I get to be involved a little (i.e helping her choose her clothes getting ready taking sexy photos to send to other girls).
Perhaps make him feel less left out may help, tell him what you want to do and then tell him he better be ready to Fuck you when you get back and you will tell him all about it. You could also get the other girl to either film/take photos of you two or perhaps get her to take some pictures of you. You could always get her to tie you up and get her to phone him and put the phone next to your head so you could tell him exactly whats happening while it happens.
Generally make him feel he's not missing out but gaining (abeit in a different way) something.
Perhaps make him feel less left out may help, tell him what you want to do and then tell him he better be ready to Fuck you when you get back and you will tell him all about it. You could also get the other girl to either film/take photos of you two or perhaps get her to take some pictures of you. You could always get her to tie you up and get her to phone him and put the phone next to your head so you could tell him exactly whats happening while it happens.
Generally make him feel he's not missing out but gaining (abeit in a different way) something.
lol <thinks we should move onto the assumptions thread and discuss> when we first joined I was joining to post so wasn't going to say we were a couple (nervous) but then when we had to pay we were like fuck it lets just say who we are (we'd already registered the nick mrbusyhands). Just cos we have no pics up... they are coming soon. Stop berating me for asking lots of questions if you don't want to answer I've learned some helpful stuff asking questions here and expect theres a lot more to learn. Yes I doubt people will share their movies with the world. Let me give you an example of what I mean we were looking for.
Donny: "Hey mrbusyhands theres this great movie called Amatuar tapes by Hugh Jass Productions you should check it out theres a mix of different types of stuff and it's really good."
I know there are amatuar movies (theres always these amatuer submitted tape things on the adult channel when we watch and looking at the amatuer section of the dvd shop on the side of this site brings up a few. We're looking for sugesstions. If we wanted to ask for private movies (whether we'd get them or not) we post something asking or perhaps offer movie swaps (our homemade movies for yours) we might do that in the future with a couple we know but at the moment we don't want that.
:roll: -Him.x
This is funny
One thing that has become the norm during the run up to major football tournaments are the George Cross flags. I've only ever bought one, which flew proudly from the Galaxy's window for about two miles before we generated enough drag for the thing to pull free of the car. Wouldn't have been so bad but the goddamn thing took the rear window with it. It could have been worse: a £2,500 fine or three penalty points is an option for drivers flying flags incorrectly as under the Road Traffic Act of 1998, for drivers who obscure the windows of their vehicles can get done. More serious charges could be brought if flags that stick out of the side of a vehicle injure pedestrians and cyclists (wouldn't that be a shame...)
Motorists are being urged to check that their clip-on window flags are properly attached before driving anywhere. I however, advise you to check the window too. The Po-lice however are more concerned with your flag's effect of their horses though...
(see link below)
One thing that has become the norm during the run up to major football tournaments are the George Cross flags. I've only ever bought one, which flew proudly from the Galaxy's window for about two miles before we generated enough drag for the thing to pull free of the car. Wouldn't have been so bad but the goddamn thing took the rear window with it. It could have been worse: a £2,500 fine or three penalty points is an option for drivers flying flags incorrectly as under the Road Traffic Act of 1998, for drivers who obscure the windows of their vehicles can get done. More serious charges could be brought if flags that stick out of the side of a vehicle injure pedestrians and cyclists (wouldn't that be a shame...)
Motorists are being urged to check that their clip-on window flags are properly attached before driving anywhere. I however, advise you to check the window too. The Po-lice however are more concerned with your flag's effect of their horses though...
(see link below)
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Pardon me for being un-PC but what is wrong with those patriotic folk who want to support our national team and display our national flag? Is it suggested that we do not support our team in this tournament?
Perhaps this thread was started by a scot?
But I woulda thought England would get the royal treatment being the only British team in the finals? If I shouldn't be asking this please delete the thread. If it's ok then i'd love your advice.
We're trying to find dvd's/websites etc. That contain films of swinger action. We've got lots of american movies but would like some more realistic more british movies that would get a more realistic view of what happens at meets (mmff,m+f).
Have searched movie sites but aren't sure which ones are good and are constantly let down (movies are good but not the thing we're looking for) and at the price of say £20 a movie would love to hear some sugguestions.
Thanks -Him.x
We're trying to find dvd's/websites etc. That contain films of swinger action. We've got lots of american movies but would like some more realistic more british movies that would get a more realistic view of what happens at meets (mmff,m+f).
Have searched movie sites but aren't sure which ones are good and are constantly let down (movies are good but not the thing we're looking for) and at the price of say £20 a movie would love to hear some sugguestions.
Thanks -Him.x
yes please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -her
.... Oh god no... lol she's laughing, not sure she'll probably read a few laugh, get horny, laugh a bit more, get real horny, drag me off the pc satisfy herself then get bored and leave me with the other 79 messages (assuming we get 80). - him
Also asked this on another thread but how do you determine how's posting when as a couple I mean we don't want to get seperate accounts as we want to do this as a couple (and I, him, does most the posting anyhow). Should we like attach something to the ends of what we write or what (as demonstrated)? - him
.... Oh god no... lol she's laughing, not sure she'll probably read a few laugh, get horny, laugh a bit more, get real horny, drag me off the pc satisfy herself then get bored and leave me with the other 79 messages (assuming we get 80). - him
Also asked this on another thread but how do you determine how's posting when as a couple I mean we don't want to get seperate accounts as we want to do this as a couple (and I, him, does most the posting anyhow). Should we like attach something to the ends of what we write or what (as demonstrated)? - him
What I wanted to get at is the value difference between pornographic playing-cards when you're a kid, and pornographic playing-cards when you're older. It's that when you're a kid you use the cards as a substitute for a real experience, and when you're older you use real experience as a substitute for the fantasy.
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