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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 50
UK
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oh its the old nature versus nurture debate lol
Im not sure about being born evil but i think being evil is something thats within you, i personally dont think its your up bringing, some kids have terrible childhoods but still make decent human being and the other way round, the vast majority of killer are from normal house holds with good partents and whos siblings lead perfectly normal lifes, maybe a traumer in child hood could trigger off what ever makes people do these things but it has to be there to start with other wise every child who'd had a bad upbringing would be killing and
only my opinion tho lol
Im not sure about being born evil but i think being evil is something thats within you, i personally dont think its your up bringing, some kids have terrible childhoods but still make decent human being and the other way round, the vast majority of killer are from normal house holds with good partents and whos siblings lead perfectly normal lifes, maybe a traumer in child hood could trigger off what ever makes people do these things but it has to be there to start with other wise every child who'd had a bad upbringing would be killing and
only my opinion tho lol
Quote by northwest-cpl
I know what you mean about it not being a true swingers club Mr Powers, but maybe theyre just trying to ensure the single guys go home happy, and maybe it stops some of them pestering the ladies that do go there. Thats what I hated about Chams the once I went, it was like a herd of single guys going round in packs .
Of the 30 or so clubs we've been to the only ones where we've had real problems with single guys have been the ones with working girls. The guys seem to expect that, because some of the women are paid to be up for it with anyone, any woman there has to be.
se now ive always found it the other way round, i go to many clubs alone some with paid girls most without, if a club has paid women in there i tend to find the guys dont pester me so much because basically they dont have to, they have sex on tap so have no reason to follow the likes of me about, where as clubs without working girls there, well i feel like the sodding Pied Piper at times, only need a flute lmao
Quote by wild rose and the stag
what do people really think of R3TRO?
ive never been but i have a friend that has so anything i say is only what i have been told and not me saying its fact
By all accounts they have paid women there, which to me isnt a problem, that does not bother me, what did kinda put me off is the fact that all the women are like under 21, attractive and a size 8, now i have to be honest with myself as a older woman whos nothing special and never going to be a size 8 is there really any point in me going if thats what i have to compeat against?
so everyone wants a size 8, 19 year old then do they?? i dont think so..lol.. staggy , prefers a size 12, 41 year old thanks..
no im not saying everyone likes size 8 19 year olds
but if thats the kind of women they have there im assuming the men that go like that type thats why they going, hence why i said would there really be any point in me going
Quote by domino_2
what do people really think of R3TRO?
ive never been but i have a friend that has so anything i say is only what i have been told and not me saying its fact
By all accounts they have paid women there, which to me isnt a problem, that does not bother me, what did kinda put me off is the fact that all the women are like under 21, attractive and a size 8, now i have to be honest with myself as a older woman whos nothing special and never going to be a size 8 is there really any point in me going if thats what i have to compeat against?
Quote by noladreams
Now, educate me here...
I suppose I've always imagined that penetrative vaginal sex feels good from the male perspective partly as a result of the friction.
(I mean it's one of the reasons I do my flippin' pelvic floor exercises... the other being a morbid fear of future incontinence!)
So, if a woman has been fisted before the sex takes place with the express purpose of stretching her, what added bonus is that for the man?
I'm not being awkward... just curious!
Nola x
i have to admit i've also wondered this as well. i mean if a womans just hand someones hand up there is she really going to feel a cock after and wouldnt it be like throwing a pencil down a tunnel for the guy
cant see the difference myself, its all a matter of what you like, i personally think things are just more acceptable for women than men, not my opinion but thats just how it is, like bi females, you can go into any club any night and see girl on girl and thats fine but for guys to play with each other you have to go on special nights designed for them! why is that? if its ok to go into a club on a friday night and women to play with each other why not men? i also knew a women thro swinging that wouldnt allow her husband to try another man even tho she was bi herself, i think its just not really acceptable for men to have things up their bum, play with other guys etc, sad really in this day and age and even more so in swinging clubs where people are supposed to be open!!!
i can only speak for myself but it don't annoy me if people only go to watch and be watched, what i don't like are the poser couples that only go to walk round looking good, you can do that anywhere why go to a sex club to do it? at the end of the day we all go for our own reasons, i go to play but that does not mean i'll play with anyone, i have the rights to say no as do you for whatever your reason 
Quote by Hooters
What about the new club thats opened in Walsall - has anybody any views on that one ? Im sure that some were going a couple of weeks ago.
i've been to so! club, its really early days so hard to make an opinion, was very quiet when i went and that was on a night when there was a meet on lol died off really early, club was ok could have donw with a lick of paint or two in places which you don't really expect from a new club, what i did'nt like was there was no open rooms all of the rooms had locks on which ment that if the rooms was taken there was nowhere for people to go, and some of the rooms was quite big for a lockable room if one couple went in there and locked the door i felt it was a waste of bed space as someone else could have used the other side of the bed, just my opinion but i feel they could do with taking the lock off the biggest room so theres always one room thats open for people to go in
ive been to both clubs, i personally prefure chameleons, in my opinion Xtasia just seems to be a meet up place for people who go onto hotels or arrange later times to play, where as chameleons seems to have much more playing on the night, suppose it depends what your after, xtasia is more a dress up and dance night club, where as chameleons is a more relaxed sauna based club where most wear towels or underwear, i also have always found the people at chameleons more friendly and sociable.
Quote by BIoke
Who's hand is that?? :shock:
That reminds of a story I must tell you next time I see you.
Just as a matter of interest is a straight guy sucking cock the same as a gay guy licking pussy?
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Ooops.... only just saw this... er... yes, I guess.. maybe.. maybe not.... help, I'm confused
:shock: 
maybe hes the same straight guys whos desparately looking for that lesbian couple for a 3sum ;)
Quote by brucie
im satrting to doubt it... no not really, but i do think the risk is overdone.
i have been havng unprotected sex with straight white non drug user females for over 15 years. girls i know from work, meet in bars, swinging clubs (very rarely do women/couples even suggest a condom, let alone insist!), saunas etc. probably over 200.
i had a full medical recently including HIV test. negative.
even the doc said you would have had to have been very very unlucky even with your history...
so why do some people get so hung up about safe sex?
sorry but i have to say that is the most outrageous post i have ever read on here lmao firstly i do not believe for one minuit that your doctor would say you'd have to be unlucky to catch HIV when he knows you sleep around, theres no way in this day and age that any doctor would not push for safe sex, i, however, have no doubt that you have slept with 200+ women and not got HIV but mate thats just luck, of course straight men can catch HIV only a fool would think other wise, but just remember one think.......sometimes peoples luck runs out ;)
