BTW - for top comedy, maybe I'm old fashioned, but I still have retro chuckle at:
The Fall & Rise of Reginald Perrin
Fawlty Towers
Mind Your Language
Anything with Ronnie Barker (RIP)
Keeping Up Appearances (A friend of mine is the real life Hiacynth!)
'Allo, 'Allo
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Casanova
Quote by onlyme1981
Love the League of Gentlemen.
I used to have them all on DVD but money got a bit tight and I sold them....mind you, I didn't get to watch most of them as I didn't have a DVD player!
I quite recently watched some of them and they are so funny.... love them!
You can download them all again if you have e-mule installed on your computer
Casanova
I'm lucky. I swing as both...
I'm maritally single, and free to do as I please, so yes I do swing as a single...
...but whilst doing so, I met a single swinging (bi) female, and one thing has led to another and we now swiing together too. (oh and she is free to swing on her own too if she wants)
I suppose that it's wrong for us to be described as a "couple" as she does have a "regular" partner, and I suppose I'm just her "bit on the side", so I prefer to think of us as a "Mixed Doubles Team". Swinging to us is more of a sport than a lifestyle, so maybe we don't approach it as seriously as some do, but when we go out to play, we do so with gusto. I enjoy seeing her having fun and she likes to see me having fun and we have great fun together too.
One thing that I do find amazing though, is how on a Friday at a club, some couples treat me (on my own) as if I were something stuck to the bottom of their shoes, whereas when they see me with my friend on a Saturday, they want to be our best friends. The two faced bastards get a piece of my mind for it too.
I'm maritally single, and free to do as I please, so yes I do swing as a single...
...but whilst doing so, I met a single swinging (bi) female, and one thing has led to another and we now swiing together too. (oh and she is free to swing on her own too if she wants)
I suppose that it's wrong for us to be described as a "couple" as she does have a "regular" partner, and I suppose I'm just her "bit on the side", so I prefer to think of us as a "Mixed Doubles Team". Swinging to us is more of a sport than a lifestyle, so maybe we don't approach it as seriously as some do, but when we go out to play, we do so with gusto. I enjoy seeing her having fun and she likes to see me having fun and we have great fun together too.
One thing that I do find amazing though, is how on a Friday at a club, some couples treat me (on my own) as if I were something stuck to the bottom of their shoes, whereas when they see me with my friend on a Saturday, they want to be our best friends. The two faced bastards get a piece of my mind for it too.
Casanova
Quote by naughtynymphos1
come round to mine i'll pop some porm on the telly
Well company would be most welcome! I am up on wednesday afternoon and would be up for watching some telly, particularly after reading partymans cinema review!
yeah partyman you seem to know a lot about this subject
I know enough about it to avoid going to the porny cinema clubs any more.
That said there is an absolutely fantastic one in Munich that I always go to when I am over there for Oktobeerfest. It's the only swingers club I know of based on a Cinema theme. I've seen them on a Sauna theme and I've seen them on a Nightclub theme in lots of places, but this is the only Cinema themed swingers club I know of anywhere.
:P
Casanova
Quote by naughtynymphos1
come round to mine i'll pop some porm on the telly
Was that directed at anyone in particular??? :shock:
:lol: nope just had a new bigger telly offers open to all :lol2:
Sounds tempting. NN's micro horny porny cinema mmmm
If the offer's still open when I return from my birthday bash in Spain, I might just enquire about admission prices, opening times etc :lol: :lol: :lol:
Casanova
Quote by my life
you are scaring people off i know because you have done it to my wife and me
Sorry if that's the effect that this thread has had, but I would have thought that a unanimous demonstation that the matter is considered important and unacceptable by all and that the matter is being discussed honestly and responsibly is better than hushing it all up and hiding tha truth from people.
If anything, people who read this thread may just now see that the matter can't be let to fester when they are back out in the car parks and that they might do some little bit to stop the cameraphone thing from becoming a problem.
Casanova
Quote by nawtyboy
If people dont mind being filmed or whatever then that is fine but it should be up to them alone.
I think that if people wanted to be filmed, they would be in a bedroom or hotel room, with proper equipment. I really don't think anyone has it in their heads that when they go to a car park in the dead of night that they will become the subject of other peoples photos and videos.
From that point of view, I adopt the approach that people WILL mind unless they invite people to do otherwise, rather than thinking that they won't mind and that it's OK to carry on until told to stop.
If a couple want to be filmed then they can ask if anyone has a cameraphone, in exactly the same way that they will give a sign or an invitation to say that it's OK to touch and play. I don't think its the job of a dogger to rap on the window, make a pest of themselves by interrupting what is going on, to ask to film or for the window to be wound down or whatever. The initiative should always be with the couple in my mind, and the job of behaiving themselves lies with the doggers.
But that's just my take on the situation.
Casanova
Birmingham has 3 horney porney cinemas:
1) - the one you saw close to the Bull Ring
2) Amsterdam Experience - Hurst Street by the Birmingham Hippodrome
3) Adult World - middle of nowhere really.
What are you looking to get out of your visit? These places are great if you are gay...lots of gay geezers are in there. If you like a sleezy strip show, then Adult World has strippers every hour. If you are hoping for a couple to watch or play with, well you might just have beginers luck on your side. But that's the only advantage you will have. Don't hold your breath.
Oh, and don't wear your best shoes in any of them, and remember to wipe your feet on your way out to keep the rest of the city clean.
1) - the one you saw close to the Bull Ring
2) Amsterdam Experience - Hurst Street by the Birmingham Hippodrome
3) Adult World - middle of nowhere really.
What are you looking to get out of your visit? These places are great if you are gay...lots of gay geezers are in there. If you like a sleezy strip show, then Adult World has strippers every hour. If you are hoping for a couple to watch or play with, well you might just have beginers luck on your side. But that's the only advantage you will have. Don't hold your breath.
Oh, and don't wear your best shoes in any of them, and remember to wipe your feet on your way out to keep the rest of the city clean.
Casanova
I went several years ago. Thought it was far to big for what it was, there was never any intimacy or atmosphere, and then clubs started opening in the Midlands so I stopped going.
Having spoken to others from The Manc area, it seems that what started badly, went on to hit rock bottom, and when it got there it started digging deeper. You have to say that there must be something about the Manc clubs scene if couples from the Manc area are now heading to the Midlands for their club action?
Years ago Manc was the only place around to have swingers clubs, but now despite the fact that they have even more, some Manc/Lancs/Cheshire locals travel 80+ miles down the M6 for their fun. Are the clubs up in Manc so poor or so "same-ish" that they are driven to drive so far?
Having spoken to others from The Manc area, it seems that what started badly, went on to hit rock bottom, and when it got there it started digging deeper. You have to say that there must be something about the Manc clubs scene if couples from the Manc area are now heading to the Midlands for their club action?
Years ago Manc was the only place around to have swingers clubs, but now despite the fact that they have even more, some Manc/Lancs/Cheshire locals travel 80+ miles down the M6 for their fun. Are the clubs up in Manc so poor or so "same-ish" that they are driven to drive so far?
Casanova
Usually a -12 person here, but at weekends, the local swingers clubs kick-out at 3am so sometimes there is some VERY late fun to be had, with those looking for some "afters" Good job that the kebab shop on the way home is open til 4am as well, as a snack is often needed to "refuel" at that time in the morning :P
Good job that the kebab shop on the way home is open til 4am as well, as a snack is often needed to "refuel" at that time in the morning :P Casanova
Quote by dannyessex
Hi all,
I am pritty new to all of this and I only know about 2 places in essex were i can go dogging.
Can anyone advise me of any better or different places?
thanks
danny
Some people would be happy to have 2 locations close to them. You might be best off sticking to what you have found and slowly earning yourself a good reputation there. Then once you are trusted, you'll soon catch on to any grapevine news about other places.
Casanova
I'd like to think that what I did:
a) prevented photos being taken by pushiing / shoving the hoodie with the cameraphone away from the car and out of range
b) maintained the show for the others
c) avoided upsetting the couple and instilling a sense of paranoia in them that would stop them from coming again. (background: they looked like newbies and hadn't been seen before by any of the lads, so could easilly have been sppoked for life)
d) "disincentivesed" a repeat attempt at trying to take pictures again - although only unity and pro-action on the part of all doggers will ensure that.
a) prevented photos being taken by pushiing / shoving the hoodie with the cameraphone away from the car and out of range
b) maintained the show for the others
c) avoided upsetting the couple and instilling a sense of paranoia in them that would stop them from coming again. (background: they looked like newbies and hadn't been seen before by any of the lads, so could easilly have been sppoked for life)
d) "disincentivesed" a repeat attempt at trying to take pictures again - although only unity and pro-action on the part of all doggers will ensure that.
Casanova
Quote by 34fun
there was that place on watchdog the other week, cannot recall where it was now but full of american swingers.
That'll probably be either Hedonism (one of the 3 Hedonism's that is) in Jamaica or a resort in Cancun in Mexico.
However I created a web site for some friends of mine in Spain who run their Villa as a naturists and swingers holiday destination. I'm off there on Thursday for a weekend long birthday party.
Food for thought, my return flight from Birmingham to Malaga cost me less than the train fare to Blackpool the wekend before last. Don't think Mods will be too impressed of I gave out the Web site address on here, but if anyone wants to PM me, feel free.
Casanova
Quote by DomBedsMale
So even if I believed he was intruding, I'd ask myself how effectively he was doing it.
The problem is that if you let these guys getaway with it once, they will show off to their mates, who will then all start to get at it and try to get even better pics to show themselves up as being "the man" (look at how "happy slapping" has evelved) ...then where will the dogging scene be?
Quote by DomBedsMale
Sure, if I was in that situation, my most likely reaction is to make enough of a fuss that everyone was alerted,
er well almost along the lines of "a show of force short of a fight" that I opted for
Quote by DomBedsMale
But generally I tend to favour the "hard words, softly spoken" approach.
Nice theory - but these hoodies aren't the kind that listen to words....they have "attitude", as it is with the yoof of today. As you will see, they ignored words three times.
Quote by DomBedsMale
I would certainly want to alert the "performers"
There in lies the doggers connundrum...disturb the show and risk the couple upping sticks and going home, with you becoming "Mr Spoilsport" to the rest of the guys who were enjoying it.
No such thing as simple answers I suspect?
Casanova
Are you looking for sometning in the UK, or abroad?
What do you mean by "Holiday Camp"? Like an adults-only Hi-di-hi thing? A role-play swingers boot camp for newbie wife swappers by any chance? (can just visualise it now..."by the right, shagging by numbers...BEGIN!")
Or are you looking for holiday resorts for swingers to get together in?
The former leaves me at a loss, and the latter, I can help out if you fancy the idea of cheapo flights to Spain...which is probably cheaper than train fares to the coast in the UK anyway...
What do you mean by "Holiday Camp"? Like an adults-only Hi-di-hi thing? A role-play swingers boot camp for newbie wife swappers by any chance? (can just visualise it now..."by the right, shagging by numbers...BEGIN!")
Or are you looking for holiday resorts for swingers to get together in?
The former leaves me at a loss, and the latter, I can help out if you fancy the idea of cheapo flights to Spain...which is probably cheaper than train fares to the coast in the UK anyway...
Casanova
Quote by glasgow_girl_30
hi just had this email may b of intrest to some of you lot
Euphoria Blackpool has recently finished a new extention, new facilities include hot tub, sauna, steam room, toilets and showers. Other facilities include a well equipped dungeon, two porno cinemas, three playrooms, licensed bar, large dancefloor, top DJ's. We have 22 bedrooms all ensuite and spotless clean. We have free parking for 12 veihcles, and operate directly next door to a approved secure car park facility that offers a discount to euphoria customers. The bedrooms are our next project, bringing them to a more acceptable warm standard of decor, with new bedding and curtains and carpets, all this will be started and complete bye next year. As from December, excluding xmas and new year we will operate a new payment system SAVING YOU POUNDS. Couples can attend resident with your own ensuite room for only £20 pppn. Single guys can have the same for only £50. Annual membership for couples is £10, and £50 for single guys. THIS TRIAL PERIOD IS ONLY FOR DECEMBER 2005 AND JANUARY 2006. Entry on the door is for members only. PLEASE REMEMBER WE ARE LICSENSED TO RESIDENTS ONLY, WE CAN ONLY SERVE ALCOHOL TO RESIDENTS AND THEIR BONAFIDE GUESTS
if not sorry :0(
I saw that e-mail too...and it was so well done that everyone on their mailing list, was in the "To" field, so now everyone on the mailing list has everyone elses e-mail address...so much for personal privacy.
Next, a couple, friends of mine, went 3 weeks ago. They told me that the party was all in-house, with no involvement of Passions. In fact it was so in-house that all the doors were locked and couldn't be opened after the owners had gone to bed, until the owners woke up again. :shock:
Good job that there wasn't a fire in the place while the owners were sleeping. (as was pointed out by several guests to the owners the next day)
Casanova
We were all newbies once, and we've all crashed and burned! Hopefully some will crash burn and learn, others are opening themselves up as candidates for Tosser awards.
But yeah, I do have every sympathy for couples who are facing the trendy dogging generation, with that attitude of a god-given right to a shag. Reminds me of a time a "tosser" on this site put up a post saying it was party night at my local car park, and lo-and-behold the liquorice all-sorts arrived. I even had one BMW full of Asian yoofs pull up besides me (and others, all in turn, parked up minding their own business) asking "where's all the action, where are all the women looking for some boom-boom". They didn't care a toss who might have got upset at what they were alluding to. They weren't goiing to be there the next day to pick up the pieces of a scene that they had ruined. And as for the other mindless tossers with their cameraphones - well see the other thread.
But yeah, I do have every sympathy for couples who are facing the trendy dogging generation, with that attitude of a god-given right to a shag. Reminds me of a time a "tosser" on this site put up a post saying it was party night at my local car park, and lo-and-behold the liquorice all-sorts arrived. I even had one BMW full of Asian yoofs pull up besides me (and others, all in turn, parked up minding their own business) asking "where's all the action, where are all the women looking for some boom-boom". They didn't care a toss who might have got upset at what they were alluding to. They weren't goiing to be there the next day to pick up the pieces of a scene that they had ruined. And as for the other mindless tossers with their cameraphones - well see the other thread.
Casanova
Quote by Osmosis
erm..trying to think of ones that the Porn Industry hasn't beaten us to already (Jane Bond, Whore of the Worlds and all that)...how about...
Full Rubber Jacket?
The Blue Movies Brothers?
Reservoir Dogging?
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Bollocks?
Pulp Affliction?
Damienne - Oh'Men! 2
erm...this is no good, gonna have to have a think about it and come up with some good ones...catch you later in the thread...
Err, guys.... it's a thread about porn parodies of mainstream movies, but they involve usernames of people on this site.
Oops, sorry, that detail didn't click with me.
Oh well, I'll abstain then...I don't parody or take the mickey out of people (or their nicknames) if I don't know them well enough to do so.
Casanova
Quote by DomBedsMale
No pyjama fighter... merely a contributor, and far from Shaolin standard.
The issue I am addressing is that anyone taking option 4- "Stop it no matter what the cost" is putting themselves at risk. I am entirely in favour of etiquette and would not dream of doing what these.... people.... did.
OK, so that's what you wouldn't do. But going back to the role-play bit again (see my post earlier in the thread), what WOULD you do if in your heart you wanted to be fair to a couple who were oblivious to what was happening outside the car, had the interior light on and were going at it hammer and tongues.
You want your car park to remain couple and dogger friendly and not be an attraction to every kiddie and hoodie with a cameraphone who would ruin the patch for you.
So again, DomBedsMale, (sounds like you're a "Dom" type - well used to taking command of a situation) what WOULD you do?
Oh and as for the legal situation, I suspect that if laws were drafted well enough for the situation to be clear cut, lawyers wouldn't earn so much arguing the toss over the technicalities of them. And here's another example where the barristers for the defence and the prosecution can each earn a tidy packet on the detail, iintention and fine print of an Act of Parliament that has not been fully stretched in court yet.
Casanova
Quote by naughtynymphos1
nope we all off to Marcuso's
Have a nice time. I'll be doing my bit for Queen and Country at Twickenham, shouting for the lads in the match against Australia, and then it's off to Luton Airport to meet and greet a Spanish Senorita, and to spend the rest of the weekend with her. It's a tough job but someone has to do it :lol:
Casanova
erm..trying to think of ones that the Porn Industry hasn't beaten us to already (Jane Bond, Whore of the Worlds and all that)...how about...
Full Rubber Jacket?
The Blue Movies Brothers?
Reservoir Dogging?
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Bollocks?
Pulp Affliction?
Damienne - Oh'Men! 2
erm...this is no good, gonna have to have a think about it and come up with some good ones...catch you later in the thread...
Full Rubber Jacket?
The Blue Movies Brothers?
Reservoir Dogging?
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Bollocks?
Pulp Affliction?
Damienne - Oh'Men! 2
erm...this is no good, gonna have to have a think about it and come up with some good ones...catch you later in the thread...
Casanova
Childish playground prank springs to mind. This person joined on 10 November and within minutes a silly little post that means nothing appears.
"e-mail us for pix" - obviously someone with no idea of this scene, and, oh yeah, we're all gonna queue up to hand him our e-mail addresses...right?
I've heard of school kids doing this. This kid will most probably be in competition with his classmates to see whose prank wins by scoring the most e-mail addresses.
"e-mail us for pix" - obviously someone with no idea of this scene, and, oh yeah, we're all gonna queue up to hand him our e-mail addresses...right?
I've heard of school kids doing this. This kid will most probably be in competition with his classmates to see whose prank wins by scoring the most e-mail addresses.
Casanova
Quote by playful p
After reading all of this thread I have to say that had it been myself in your situation and not that I'm an experienced dogger or anything, but I think I would've been very angry as well but rather than getting out of the car to give him a hiding, I think it would have just been easier to stop what you were doing until they put it away and left then carried on where you left off.. or if they didnt leave and it looked like you weren't getting anywhere with them, maybe just leave and come back later on to finish what you started... no doubt, by then the young 'yoofs' as you put it would've already had their fill and probably gone back home to do their coursework for college the next day...
Sorry to hear that you were upset by it all and hope that it never happens to myself...
We were all out of the cars already when they came along. It all ended up with a lot of shouting pushing and shoving. I'm not so daft as to get into anything heavy with them, not least because I don't know what any of the 3 could be "carrying". I just hope that they got the message that what they did was wrong (it took a long time to sink in to their thick skulls) and I hope that word gets around about them and that they get blacklisted by the others on that patch.
If they get blanked, hopefully they will go away, and the problem will be sorted.
By the way, lickmidick2002, I hope that the Police Van that was up at the next car park up the road didn't spoil the fun. I noticed it as I drove past it on my way home. Was wondering if they were doing all 3 car parks or if something attracted their attention there in particular.
Casanova
Quote by gingerjo-lee
yes thats right he owns passions now
not got a clue whats happening there tho
jo
Basically he's off his box...
...opened up without planniing permission...then started advertising on the local radio ("if you swing, give us a ring")...had a company car with the logo and slogan on it...and the latest is that the council are meeting this week to see about closing him down for that lack of planning permission.
In any case, he's lost a lot of his membership and the respect of all others by that publiity stunt. All because another club - Infusion - opened up and he feared the competition.
Casanova
Quote by Serendipity
(you said there were no others in this scenario?)
Er, not quite, in the first post I alluded to "everyone else" without being specific, and in the last one I mentioned that there were 6 guys there before the 3 hoodies turned up.
So how to do it without appearing selfish towards the other guys is the problem. I didn't think it fair that these hoodies could just waltz in, ignore the respect being shown by the other doggers and get away with it.
Sure as eggs is eggs, any photos or video captured on the phone would be passed around their mates, just like happy slapping videos are, and before you know it, the car park will be flooded by other kids looking to get vids of couples shagging. (whether or not they are on the dogging scene or just in "lovers lane") How long then before the press / police think of this as the public face of dogging?
No, sorry. I'd rather the grapevine was passing around a story that illicit photography or videoing was not being tollerated, than the opposite. I want "my" car parks to continue to be places where couples come and can feel safe from prats who don't understand the dogging game and invade the privacy of couples beyond what the couples agree to.
