Yes! We have been taking note and reading your replies
Sadly some of you took offence to our blunt remarks, to which we are truly sorry. But under the circumstances, it was the only way to get to the truth we were looking for.
Yes! like many of you out there, we understand the meaning of responsibility, security but most importantly respect and the truth.
For the record: Although we are newbies to your site we followed your rules by joining in as much as feasably as possible... replying to threads ...new topics etc as commitments would allow.
We understand that some of you are just content with sitting behind a computer to get your kicks... thats fine
Some of you, like us, want to get out and meet other like minded people to socialise and when some sort of trust has bonded, then go wherever the mutual mood takes us (this is not our first time in that department) so we do understand
However, when we did kindly ask to attend your socials and meets... we either got no replies or told we were too new... despite learning tonight that single males get invited in far less time (a week!)
When we asked if anyone wanted to meet us.. Yes!, people initially replied to which we were greatful and excited but unfortunately when we responded back in turn... no one wanted to know anymore.
A further attempt was made to arrange a social meet... but again no one replied or explained why we were given the cold shoulder.
dosnt this count as making an effort? Althogh 37 replies wasnt enough... we are restricted as "newbies" we loose either way
we are not a pushy couple as when we get no replies... we respect that and so we dont continue to pester, we just want an honest answer
Yes we know that we have only been on this site for a short while, and must wait until we are vetted and trusted by everyone before we are allowed to meet. but when we here of single males being trusted in far less time than a harmless "family" couple like us, you cant blame us for feeling a bit let down and disapointed?
Think about it! anyone can hide behind a computer screen and call themselfs what they want and say what they like! I and no one would be any of the wiser! All WE tried to do is let everyone see exactly what we were really like... Honesty comes before Trust.
Disappointingly, our last thread reavealed just how many of you were quick to jump down on us, take the piss and tell us where to go. Admittingly although we wernt excited about many of your comments.. But it did at least explain how you REALLY felt about us, and it did explain why we were being ignored when it came to following up with those intended meets.
If your asking us to prove ourselfs behind a computer screen, then sorry we cannot. As we could lie to you as much as possible, and vise versa.
Now the truth is out! there is no more bad feelings from us with the fact, that you do not wish to know us.... just wish you were more honest with us in the first place.
Obviously, as a result of tonights revelations we will not be visiting the site anymore. Caz is too upset by this all and I have always backed her 500%. So if anyone knows who is responsible for removing our details from your list could you please either pass on this message or delete them for us, as i cant seem to able to do this myself
The best of luck to you all in what you do to be happy
Thanks
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Quote by blonde
Hi SCCouple, I will say welcome to the site, as I have never noticed your posts before.
You are very wrong about the meets which take place from the site, just look at all the munches presently being organised in the Lets Meet Up Section and ask anyone who has been to a munch, just how many other meets they have had as a result of the munch.
You only get out of the site what you put in. You have only done 37 posts in the few weeks you have been a member, so you have not exactly done a lot to get yourself known. I know that someone people find it easy to join in and others are a little more shy, but please dont criticise what is an excellent and obviously successful site without at least giving it a fair go.
Complaining is not necessarily the best way to get invites as people just start to think you are miserable so and so's/ Ok so they might be wrong, but as you have not done that many posts, its hard to determin exactly what you are really like!
As I said earlier, you only get out of the site what you put in, and perhaps you need to try joining in a little bit more! (not a dig in any way, just a general observation and genuine advice)
I'm sorry if 37 posts arnt good enough for you... we cant afford to spend all the time on the internet. if it so requires us to spend so much more time trying to convince everyone that we are serious before we are allowed to try and organise something just as simle as a social... then sadly we are on the wrong site
People answered your post in LMU .......... then u didnt do anything about it ????
You should have posted a date and then organised a meet for all !!! thats how it normally works !!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sorry but we did try to contact people but they didnt reply... We did give a date but it was only ignored... but as you can see we did get two requests to leave. so thats what we are now going to do
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hi SCCouple, I will say welcome to the site, as I have never noticed your posts before.
You are very wrong about the meets which take place from the site, just look at all the munches presently being organised in the Lets Meet Up Section and ask anyone who has been to a munch, just how many other meets they have had as a result of the munch.
You only get out of the site what you put in. You have only done 37 posts in the few weeks you have been a member, so you have not exactly done a lot to get yourself known. I know that someone people find it easy to join in and others are a little more shy, but please dont criticise what is an excellent and obviously successful site without at least giving it a fair go.
Complaining is not necessarily the best way to get invites as people just start to think you are miserable so and so's/ Ok so they might be wrong, but as you have not done that many posts, its hard to determin exactly what you are really like!
As I said earlier, you only get out of the site what you put in, and perhaps you need to try joining in a little bit more! (not a dig in any way, just a general observation and genuine advice)
I'm sorry if 37 posts arnt good enough for you... we cant afford to spend all the time on the internet. if it so requires us to spend so much more time trying to convince everyone that we are serious before we are allowed to try and organise something just as simle as a social... then sadly we are on the wrong site
Quote by Angel Chat
Evidently you have seen the lets meet up forum... this is a post of yours putting feelers out for a meet (and moaning about the fact you aren't allowed to call it a munch)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/62782.html
Plenty of people have replied saying they'd be interested but you haven't followed it up. It does take some effort on your part you know :doh:
As a matter of fact we had followed up but no decent replies... one of them was even moaning at us!
Quote by Shireen_Mids
You are currently posting in The Cafe and this is primarily for general chat..... For meets etc you would need the Lets Meet Up forum....
Oh and as has been said before.... You would hardly go into Asda and ask if they can recommend another supermarket would you??
Shireen
No! this message wasnt asking for a meet, just wanted to express feelings and know of any good alternative sites. As for the Asda comment, I would have thought that visitors to this site visited other sites too and were not just employees of asda so to speak!
Here's one for you!
Why does it seem more popular to discus: how to build a model aircraft, playing games on the internet and non-sex related issues, than it does to get anything happening as far as any socials, meets or qualilifing for a munch.
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Both myself and caz joined this site with the aim of actually meeting other like minded people... but so far very little and very disapointed... As no-one is willing to meet, socialise or party!!!
Are we on the wrong site. if so can anyone suggest any other sites
Sadly yours :cry:
Steven and Caz
Why does it seem more popular to discus: how to build a model aircraft, playing games on the internet and non-sex related issues, than it does to get anything happening as far as any socials, meets or qualilifing for a munch.
: Both myself and caz joined this site with the aim of actually meeting other like minded people... but so far very little and very disapointed... As no-one is willing to meet, socialise or party!!!
Are we on the wrong site. if so can anyone suggest any other sites
Sadly yours :cry:
Steven and Caz
Just been told off. 
we "cant" call this a munch! As we understood things thought a munch was a non-preasured social gathering for a few of us who shared similar interests!
Although we would like to call this what we want. :censored: :we must be "politically correct" or else we could find ourselves thrown off the site. :jagsatwork: "similar to everyone who once used the Alresford layby" So here we goes again...
Who in the hampshire area would like to meet together with other likemindeds. just putting out feelers for a possible "socal" :happy: :rose: :beer: :boo: :evil2: :taz: :karaoke: somewhere local.
interested? then reply or send us an email or PM
Steven and Caz
xxxx
we "cant" call this a munch! As we understood things thought a munch was a non-preasured social gathering for a few of us who shared similar interests!Although we would like to call this what we want. :censored:
:we must be "politically correct" or else we could find ourselves thrown off the site. :jagsatwork: "similar to everyone who once used the Alresford layby" So here we goes again... Who in the hampshire area would like to meet together with other likemindeds. just putting out feelers for a possible "socal" :happy: :rose: :beer: :boo: :evil2: :taz: :karaoke: somewhere local.
interested? then reply or send us an email or PM
Steven and Caz
xxxx
Quote by Sexysteph
:giggle: yer a bit late he wanted someone in the next hour - it was posted this morning.
I think he thinks its a quick shag site
You never know your luck steph, maybe he's been driving all day and is near the Leicester area by now, you may still catch him if your quick!!!! :grin: :grin: :grin:
sorry steph couldnt resist that one
Quote by scooter_maxi
am sure you could have found it as easily as me but here you are anyway hope it helps
just made a call to cupids and found out its a night out at this club will cost me £50 plus a "get your clothes off dress code"... Maybe ok for some but for me i would have prefered to keep my clothes whilst I meet with strangers.
Any suggestions of other places, who would welcome a single male, who would at least let him keep his clothes on for introductions????
and maybe not charged as much!
Quote by Sexysteph
omg, what a brill thread, you guys have me laughing here!
Half of the thread sounded like a rude game of Twiste r I once had, oh the memories of that! :twisted:
BTW, when I was in my Maths lession as a kid, 3 into 1 definately didnt go! :giggle:
oh shit! I was being serious ....shall i tell her its not possible ....maybe she could consider just a simple gang bang or something ...would that be easier?
It does go hunni I have personally witnessed it in both the scenarios I have portrayed - it just takes a lot of care
and agility.Steph
ok thanks for the advice
just given you some hugs to say thanks
steve and also on behalf and the benefit of caz
xxx
Quote by GenHertsCpl
omg, what a brill thread, you guys have me laughing here!
Half of the thread sounded like a rude game of Twiste r I once had, oh the memories of that! :twisted:
BTW, when I was in my Maths lession as a kid, 3 into 1 definately didnt go! :giggle:
oh shit! I was being serious ....shall i tell her its not possible ....maybe she could consider just a simple gang bang or something ...would that be easier?
Quote by chris86
NN DP does not only mean one up front one up rear entry hun it can be both vaginally or anally.
It's one of those preference things again. Like double fisting which is very possible in same way.
Steph
:lol: believe it or not i do know that you don;t have to use your arse to do dp
honest i really did :lol: just 3 willys in one hole.....did nobody else find that odd was i the only one that was thinking bum here? ok i'll gte my coat lolNah your not the only one, it would make for easier dp if it was done in two seperate holes. Three in one looks like it could be a tricky situation
Yes i know ...thats why i was asking for advice!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
stick one in her gob bingo triple penetration :grin:
Best line i've heard for a while i have to say!
well i like the simple life me, why fart about trying to fit 2 into 1 when i have a perfectly good mouth going spare :lol:
was that a request or were you just boasting?
well it has been known
always happy to give you a demo if you can find me 3 men :rascal:
I dont believe it! now you want three men too. You women are a greedy lot arnt you? :shock: :lol:
however if you do manage to perform a demo, send me the mpeg and clear instructions
thanks
Quote by naughtynymphos1
and by the way caz want three of us in her, as one of you politely put it her front hole. she doesnt like anal
WTF are you taking the piss?
in your first post you put she loved dp then your asking about 3 cocks in her and now your seriously saying she don't like anal?
ok i really have a head ache now lol
no! not taking the piss. she insists on using the right hole.... her choice!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
stick one in her gob bingo triple penetration :grin:
Best line i've heard for a while i have to say!
well i like the simple life me, why fart about trying to fit 2 into 1 when i have a perfectly good mouth going spare :lol:
was that a request or were you just boasting?
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One lays on bed towards edge of the bed and he takes her rectally she lays flat on him Male 2 stands between legs and penetrates vaginally third male lays missionary legs supported by male 2 if necessary and also penetrates vaginally - tho if he is athletic enough he should be able to straddle her.
Enjoy
yes err!!! im trying to visualise this one here. Regardless if your speaking from experience or not, i dont quite get the phrases "bucket" or "PMSL"???
and by the way caz want three of us in her, as one of you politely put it her front hole. she doesnt like anal
Quote by Sexysteph
Caz (my partner) really enjoys being double penetrated by both my mate and myself. We have done it quite a few times now, now she is dreaming of three men in her at a time... Is this physically posible???
I think it has been done by a woman called Anabelle Chong but im not sure
theres not much room left with the two of us in her... is she being too greedy for the impossible????
Can anyone out there shed some light on this one???
Think about it if we women can give birth to a baby we can cope with it
Hi steph
yes i get your point and she does have the room inside to accommodate, but im wondering how three bloke are going to find the room outside!
Caz (my partner) really enjoys being double penetrated by both my mate and myself. We have done it quite a few times now, now she is dreaming of three men in her at a time... Is this physically posible???
I think it has been done by a woman called Anabelle Chong but im not sure
theres not much room left with the two of us in her... is she being too greedy for the impossible????
Can anyone out there shed some light on this one???
I think it has been done by a woman called Anabelle Chong but im not sure
theres not much room left with the two of us in her... is she being too greedy for the impossible????
Can anyone out there shed some light on this one???
couldnt agree more only do something when your absolutely sure or else you will not enjoy it. Caz would agree that i,m very shy, so much so that in about almost a year later ive only been involved in a threesome with partner and mate.
One day i will bottle enough guts to take it further.
It will just take time.... Your time!
all the best
if you need any other advice drop us a line
steve and Caz
xxx
One day i will bottle enough guts to take it further.
It will just take time.... Your time!
all the best
if you need any other advice drop us a line
steve and Caz
xxx
thanks for the web link and info everyone, but i dont know how to get to a place called swinton (thought they sold car insurance or something) will find out and go tomorrow.
Im away from partner at the moment for a few days, but shes playing about with our mate at the moment to pass the time. so its my turn to play too. do they accept single males too?
Im away from partner at the moment for a few days, but shes playing about with our mate at the moment to pass the time. so its my turn to play too. do they accept single males too?
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Working away from home, all alone in a hotel and to cap it all I think I've started with Flu!
None of my mates on msn to chat to (specially one :cry: ) and it's throwing it down outside.
OK - now most know me - I'm not one for the sympathy threads - but I just want something to take my mind of this sore throat and headache.
I've had me tea, the free biccies and 3 glasses of wine.
So please - tell me a joke and make me laugh (not too much though - it hurts my throat!).
(and another thing - no one loves me - cos no-one noticed I'd passed 4000 the other day - boo hoo! j/k)
shame about the flu, are you far from home???
