Maybe you should have look on this site for couples based In Devon & arrange a meet somewhere not so busy. I know "Leicester Square" and "Picadilly Circus" quite well and they are intimidating locations if your new to the scene....
Alternatively - try a different night! Sat nights are the busiest of all!
(OK, my fave locations have new names....in honour of the amount of traffic they generate).
Some time ago I approached my doctor on this very issue. My doctor being a large motherly women of about 55 and I was 30 (ish), I'd noticed a bit of blood in my cum & remember being quite perturbed! I had a a jolly good feel round the old testicles and mentioned the odd colour to my doctor. She examined me and while I had my trousers down slipped on a rubber glove and carried ot a prostrate examination!!! Wow. Pleased to say she stated all apeared well and that occassionally one may get a bit of blood mixed in with the fluid...especially if the testicles have had a rough time of it (which I hasten to add...mine hadn't).
Didn't feel embarrassed in the least, a great doctor, one of the best...
Thanks for all the replies...Being a little shy it's not in my nature to give out loads of personal details without some confidence that the other party is genuinely interested. I've also just read "Roger's Basic Advice for Single Men". What excellent advice! I'm just going to have fun and hopefully make some new friends...if anything more happens great...if not I wont be disappointed.
What an excellent and friendly site you have here - and free!
Anyone going out tonight?
If the police are *really not* interested in doggers then perhaps we can have a forum for us and the Police to use for communicating...
In my experience the Police have never bothered me while Dogging. But I know that many places frequented by Doggers are also visited by others. Some of the trouble around where I live in the South West is caused by people being indiscreet during the daytime - mostly gay men who "let it all hang out" when families and children are around. Indiscrete activities by anyone will result in greater police activity and understandably so when children may be around.
Other problems are caused by the "boy racer" fraternity and in that respect I know Doggers that have seen off young lads out causing a menace. We need to stand together when problems arise in the car parks and beauty spots we frequently visit.
Many Gay communities have local Police liasion officers who communicate with Gay groups in order to prevent trouble and avoid iincidents, whether violent attacks on Gays or indiscrete behaviour by some of the Gay community.. If the Police would use a forum to let us Doggers know of any issues that arise from our activities then that can only be to the benefit of all.
regards...
A Dogger