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Over 90 days ago
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This question provokes in me feelings of loneliness and isolation (note that i am drunk!).....Despite having met and had sex with many people over my years as a swinger I do very much desire to meet my soulmate...the one person that would conduct the flow of sensual energy experienced in the act of making love.....the person I should be with for eternity.....
Just one night of passion with them would be worth a million nights of just emotionless sex with the most beautiful women (or men) in the world...
On the other hand.....practically speaking if I knew I had just one night of sexual acivity left in my life I wouldn't hesitate to find the dirtiest slut (and her /his friends) and indulge in the most hedonistic orgy the planet has ever or will ever see....
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Quote by Devon1
Well I can't wait to meet all you folks.
Its Tomorrow biggrin
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:beer: :beer: :beer:
:cheers: :cheers: :cheers:
:happy: :happy: :happy:

........do you think we'll all fit in the pub? the list of attendees seemed quite large
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empty 2l coke bottle, old slr camera, 1/2 pkt wriglleys gum, 2 haynes auto manuals, one allan key,empty box matches, rizlas, ciggy filters, tobbac, tape measure (gotta be sure i measure up smile calculator, several lighters, assorted till receipts, cd-r 50 pack, old model russian spacecraft, electric toothbrush, digital camera, pepper grinder, model tank remote control, several map, sun cream, toothpaste, hard disk drive, asssorted music cd's (approx eight) Nytol herbal sleep aid pills, screwdriver, 13A pllug, empty volvic bottle (500ml), cd eraser pen, tv remote control, fan, dect phone, old mobile, new mobile, 35mm filters, assorted bills (all paid), letter, scissors.....do i have to list everyything? sorry - i give up....
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Quote by drexx
Just wondered if any doggers had recently been stopped by police and what kind of feedback they had. I am from Warrington and the 2 spots in our area now seem well marshalled. The spot near to Wigan and Leigh also seems well covered.
The police who stopped me were very friendly, and asked me if I was aware that the area was used for subversive sexual activity! I made my excuses (stopped to make a business call bla bla) and they played the game, just suggesting i didn't go there again.
Has anyone else had any run-ins, and with the police being so vigilant, are people coming up with other spots that aren't known??
If anyone knows areas close to me that are secluded but used by couples, i would love to hear from you.

I had no idea that Dogging was a subversive activity! Do people meeting in remote car parks for mutual fun pose a real threat to the well being of our Nation State or undermine our economic system?
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Quote by Marcuso
Right folks
I've been given the go-ahead from Devon1 to organise the lunchtime drinks, as myself and one of the ladies will be in Plymouth a couple of hours earlier than him.
So, any newbies or munch virgins, or just anyone wishing to meet up with a few of us die-hard party animals (mentioning no names Vix and Reese..lol) who are maybe a little nervous about attending their first munch and would rather meet some of us first to say hello and see that we're all just "normal" people. Drop me a PM and I'll send you some details of time and place etc. It'll probably be between 12 and 1pm start, but if you can't get for that time feel free to drop in anytime between then and around 3-4pm (maybe even later if we all get along well.)
Nothing to worry about, it'll just be a no-pressure drink or two, in a bar as a prelude to the munch. No-one need feel nervous or apprehensive at all.
Let's give the SW munch a kick-start and have a great weekend.
Looking forward to meeting you all.
Marcuso
xx xx

In my experience a couple of drinks at lunchtime can often turn into a very alcohol fuelled afternoon.....but we could always go for a dip in the recently renovated lido on Plymouth Hoe to sober up lol
I may be interested in coming down early......I don't have far to travel but don't know for sure whether I'm driving alone or car sharing (prob on my own :cry: )
..........can't wait......the suspense........wondering who i've met before in darker places....will i recognise anyone? will they recognise me?? hope so!!!
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I am sure to be feeling very nervous by next saturday.....but I am looking forward to meeting all you good people.....
If anyone is travelling down from Exeter & needs transport (or is willing to offer a lift) do send a pm. (I enjoy driving but it's much more fun if there's company). I was down that way last weekend and had a wonderful time at a small music festival just across Plymouth Sound up on Rame head - even met a couple of swingers...
.....just a week & a day away hurray!!
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Last time I cried it was while watching "Grave of the Fireflies", so did everyone else in the room. A very weepy film and the only time a piece of Anime or a cartoon has brought tears to my eyes. The children were in full on crying mode by the end of it...
I cried at my Mothers funeral - one of the hymns really moved me and I just let go. A very emotional experience and one I'll never forget.
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Prob applies to lots of other dogging locations as well...
Visited our local hot spot late last night on the way home. Please will people take more care and not drive so fast they can't stop if a deer or other animal runs out in front of them!
There was a baby deer in road, it's mother ran away as I approched & pulled over to move it (even a baby deer is quite large and a traffic hazard). It was well and truly splattered and dead but the blood was very fresh and the stench was intense! There had been another dead deer on the verge 1/4 mile back up the road so I guess that its the time of year when the roe are born.
Please folks remember there babys are about and slow down if your out! These deer can appear out of the undergrowth without warning...
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I have no problem with having only SH members present and if it is policy I certainly will not bring them to the Munch. They only have to go to the right places and their sure to meet couples who only want couples - after all I meet enough without even trying... rolleyes
I've suggested the two4two night if they want to meet indoors.
BTW How many people are listed as attending the SW Munch?
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So is it allowable to bring a couple who do not have internet access and can not access SH?
I know of such a couple and I'd like to drag them along...
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What an amazing experience, did anyone else go to this wonderful celebration of sun, light and laughter? I have been to Stonehenge before many years ago but on Monday night the place came to life. It was rather like travelling back in time to another era. A very Pagan, tribal time that existed before Christianity narrowed ones experience and brought in a very puritanical approach to life.
It was a celebration of life, sensuousnous and spirituallity - a stark contrast with the surrounding area on Salsbury Plain, home to many military establishments. It was an expression of ones individuality and desire for freedom. A positive joy to behold, free from the ever increasing regulation and interference of our nanny state.
I have come away with a more spiritual and less hedonistic attitude to life that can only help me to be a more considerate and less selfish person. A big thank you to my friends that encouraged me to take time off work and make the trip!
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When I stayed at my parental home for a few weeks following a move from London I found all my old softcore porn magazines stuffed in the same old hidy hole - up the (disused) chimney!
Probably still there and one day I'll smuggle them out - but unless anyones in the market for a collection of material from the mid seventies they'll end up in the recycling bin!
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Does anyone know what all the police action was about around midnight on saturday? Helicopter out, spotlights,etc? They didn't seem to be stopping anyone so it didn't seem to be an action against the doggers & gays who frequent the location.
Sure set the cat amongst the pigeons......i thought traffic from the m5 had been diverted there were so many cars driving around....
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I went to a rave party at a local doggin site.....it was rather good.....i never sussed out who called out the Old Bill - could it have been a pissed off dogger? Would the people who frequent this website call the OB if a bunch of ravers took over their fave haunt for a night? (Would a bunch of ravers call the OB if they saw someone indulging in a sexual act?)
Doggers and ravers are sharing one thing in common - they both indulge in activities that border on the edge of those that "society" tolerates. Raves may not be strictly illegal, nor is dogging but as other posts on this web site have shown, the police do take doggers to court just as they have taken rave party organisers to court.
Live and let live....if we all had a little more tolerance for people different to ourselves this country would be a much better place for us all..
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Quote by darkstranger
The problem is that a lot of drug deallers use dogging spots and along with the drug deallers come there addicts and to finance there habits they mug innocent people who happen to be there. Most police are after these people and not out to hassle doggers however you will always get one cocky officer on a power trip.

i've never seen that sort of activity taking place....boy racers yes but drug dealers - no.
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Quote by bluexxx
lol .... Spoilt, eh!
Well, all three outfits combined have cost me less than £30 (excluding shoes) cos I get bargains from eBay and markets...... last of the big spenders me you know :lol: :lol: :lol:

I've got exactly one week to "camp it up" for a fancy dress party!!! Ever seen "The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert"?
I want Ostrich feathers, tight pink latex/pvc/leather trousers and a fur coat! (and a volunteer to apply the make up sat night).
clothes donations welcome (too late for ebay)
l8r peeps wink
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I've had some great times at the places you mention and certainly met some very interesting people.
There's plenty of other locations in Devon - we have the most extensive road network of any county! We are really spoilt for choice of suitable sites; maybe it would be a good idea to use some of them?
have fun peeps!!!! :twisted:
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I cast my vote for the petticoat skirt & fishnet top! Bluexxx! You are spoilt to have such a fine choice of clothing available! Fancy lending me some of the ones you don't need lol
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Quote by musketeer
You know I think I've been under a misapprehension for some time. When I've been sitting quietly and see the MBB driving round, I always thought they were gay guys looking to see the age/attraction/freshness level of the occupants of other vehicles.
Not so long ago I was up on "the" hill near Exeter and the same cars would come and do circuits and bumps and drive out again every half hour or so, I assumed they were on a circuit looking for lurve.

Their not looking for lurve, the way they carry on their looking for a huge repair bill for their suspension! Or with luck they may come a cropper in one of those ditches!
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Quote by Perforated_cat
>Yet to be decided. come on people, what do we want? a camping w'emd starting fri >through till sunday, a shorter w'end or a meet in a pub/other venue?
Camping friday to sunday gets my vote, especially in this weather! If we camp near a pub then that allows for everyone to be happy. Sure a few hotels will rear the heads too.
>I know of a campsite in somerset that advertises specifically for "members of certain > Adult Groups". If there's enough interest I'm happy to visit and check it out
Mmm, not sure one that advertises for certain members is the best to go for? For one thing I thought a munch was mainly a meeting that didn't descend into an orgy, so any campsite would be ok. Besides, a poll a while back (I found that in at the same time I found this thread) suggests that the most popular place for a SW munch was Devon with 31% of the vote.
Guess your just born lucky mate!
As to the organising, what say we cut through the crap and organise it ourselves then get a beautiful local girl to front the munch so we at least attract one other person than ourselves? But even with three of us, at least we tried and partially suceeded... what do you think? Personally I think you should keep it all in public (the info not the munch), these PMs keep things secret and fill up your inbox and stops everyone seeing that the idea is still hot. Besides that, if the host drops out or their email access goes down, then the whole thing grinds to a halt.
That way you can have it the first w/e of September, which gets my vote too.

OK..How many vote for the first w/e sept.....and i agree..lets keep it public!
I'll check this thread when i get back!
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>Is this SW munch going to go ahead, are any dates being pushed around at present, is it in >Bristol or the Southwest.......
Yet to be decided. come on people, what do we want? a camping w'emd starting fri through till sunday, a shorter w'end or a meet in a pub/other venue?
I know of a campsite in somerset that advertises specifically for "members of certain Adult Groups". If there's enough interest I'm happy to visit and check it out.
PM's requested from interested parties!...lets get the munch munching!
(BTW: My preference is end august/early sept)
And I am out of the country for ten days from tommorow so replies/p.m's received after this evening will not be answered till I get back...
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What is a munch? I don't know I've never been to one - perhaps some experienced member of SH would care to enlighten me as well.....
But I suspect it is whatever we make it. At the very least I would expect food, drink and good company (in increasing order of importance) - a chance to meet each other socially and see how we all get on?
Maybe we can thrash out some dates? What about the weekends of 28th/29th august or 4th/5th sept?
Location? Either Somerset or North Cornwall? I'd have to enquire regarding the camsite availability....
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Hi Jay,
Welcome to SH! Enjoy!
I used to live in Essex, had a great time there when I was at Uni.....in fact it was such a good a time that I neglected my studies and flunked out after the first year (Ooops)
regrets...i had a few........but that wasn't one of them :twisted:
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Anyone else taking on the organisation of this? Is there still any interest? I know a camp site in Somerset that may be a good place for a meet - and another in Cornwall...
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The town I live in is really making it easier to recycle domestic waste, plastics, cans and paper,cardboard, clothes can all be put into green plastic bins and will be recycled. I wouldn't fancy the job of sorting it all out - plastics have a funny little symbol on that indicate its composition and hence method of recycling. Even some bottle tops have the mark!
One of my contribution to the environment is cutting up the plastic wraps that hold four packs of beer together......call me soft but I heard that little animals have been known to get caught up and trapped by these items when discared......and they dont bear a recycling mark so they end up in landfill!!! (anyone else do this?)
Oh - my other contribution - he he, now I'm a single man the heating is off more often than on! Unless I'm entertaining of course smile
(OK....I admit the last is really because summers finally here!)
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Just can't get over how dumb Bush is made to look.....can he really be so stupid? One interesting fact mentioned is that all ex presidents are entitled to receives securiity bulletins from the CIA - but Bush senior's the only one to ever take this up. Whose in charge? This film really does make the current president of the USA look like a puppet.
(me being utterly cynical of the motives of 99% politicians - power corrupts does it not?)
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I adore oral sex and receiving is great but I must agree that I get more satisfaction out of giving. But, being out of practise I need to get a little oral exercise in b4 indulging again so can anyone recommend some oral exercises to improve my technique?
BTW: How many men have given themselves a blow job? I used to be able to - ohh about 20 years ago, but no longer....
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.........please complete the above sentence in less than 200 words.
I'll allow you more if it's especially erotic smile
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Quote by CarrieAnn
Hi,
I'm brand new to this site and this is my first posting! Hi everyone wave
What a subject to start with!!!!!!
I must admit that I am a squirter although I did wonder what the hell was happening the first time :embarrased2: (and no, I'm not a porn star!!!)- what a feeling!
All you ladies out there just let go, feel the pleasure and enjoy. You will never experience another feeling like in in your life - honest.

:welcome:
All this talk of squirting reminds me of the first time I ever came....long long ago...I still remember it well.........what an amazing discovery *that* was.....
..........has there ever been a "the first time i orgasm'd...." thread???
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Quote by bluexxx
You'd better get snapping..... only 8 hours to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The winner will be announced this evening lol :lol: :lol:

b4 i make myself look silly by attempting one handed photography using a camera phone.....can we please have confirmation of what the prize is to be?