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tc
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
0 miles · Stockton-on-Tees
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Warming the Bed
Just adaware should do the trick.. (use the link given by JQL : ), however if you're getting popups / adverts saying you've got spyware with just the option to click "ok" then thats a different problem. To get rid of those errors you can disable your messenger service this is a little bit tricky and it depends on your version of windows but try this :
1 Go to Start, then Run and type in Click Ok
2. Scroll to Messenger, select it, right click it and choose Properties.
3. Under startup choose "Disabled", then choose Stop.
4. When stopped, click Ok.
If your PC is disconnecting and reconnecting to the internet the situation could be real bad and you could have a virus.. adaware will probably not detect this.. do you have any virus protection on your PC? If not try running an online virus scan by this link :
(and follow the links for "scan my pc")
Hope this helps. TC x
1 Go to Start, then Run and type in Click Ok
2. Scroll to Messenger, select it, right click it and choose Properties.
3. Under startup choose "Disabled", then choose Stop.
4. When stopped, click Ok.
If your PC is disconnecting and reconnecting to the internet the situation could be real bad and you could have a virus.. adaware will probably not detect this.. do you have any virus protection on your PC? If not try running an online virus scan by this link :
(and follow the links for "scan my pc")
Hope this helps. TC x
Warming the Bed
Hello all,
Somethings been bugging me and I just wanted to get it off my chest and get some advice. Firstly I'm new to all this and although I've been member for a few months now, posted the odd message and enjoyed all the general banter and craic between you all, I've never had any swinging type experiences. I'm a single bloke but having just come out of a long marriage I was in no rush to dip my toe in (so to speak ).
Anyway after much deliberation I responded to a "Couples seeking men" ad up here in the NE. Attached a face pic and got a immediate response from the couple. We exchanged a few emails, clarified what we were both looking for and everything seemed to be going well.
I then asked for a photo of themselves which they sent back. It was at this point I had second thoughts as the lady in question (although attractive) wasnt really my type. I politely explained this to them but was immediately accused of being a time waster and picture collector, which was completely wrong. I was made to feel as though I'd done something very wrong by changing my mind, and to be honest I felt like I was being accused of being just a sad old perv.
The question here is did I do the wrong thing? :confused: I don't think the couple in question would have wanted me to meet up with them and spend the evening even though there was no
chemistry involved and it was just a case of going through the actions or am I wrong? (in fact don't think I could do that). I notice now they've changed their ad so that they will only send a photo once a meet has been definitely arranged.. but sad about it all to be honest ..guess I'm just looking for some advice...
TC x
Somethings been bugging me and I just wanted to get it off my chest and get some advice. Firstly I'm new to all this and although I've been member for a few months now, posted the odd message and enjoyed all the general banter and craic between you all, I've never had any swinging type experiences. I'm a single bloke but having just come out of a long marriage I was in no rush to dip my toe in (so to speak ).
Anyway after much deliberation I responded to a "Couples seeking men" ad up here in the NE. Attached a face pic and got a immediate response from the couple. We exchanged a few emails, clarified what we were both looking for and everything seemed to be going well.
I then asked for a photo of themselves which they sent back. It was at this point I had second thoughts as the lady in question (although attractive) wasnt really my type. I politely explained this to them but was immediately accused of being a time waster and picture collector, which was completely wrong. I was made to feel as though I'd done something very wrong by changing my mind, and to be honest I felt like I was being accused of being just a sad old perv. The question here is did I do the wrong thing? :confused: I don't think the couple in question would have wanted me to meet up with them and spend the evening even though there was no
chemistry involved and it was just a case of going through the actions or am I wrong? (in fact don't think I could do that). I notice now they've changed their ad so that they will only send a photo once a meet has been definitely arranged.. but sad about it all to be honest
..guess I'm just looking for some advice...TC x
Warming the Bed
Hi Eddy, I live very near to one of the dogging venues listed on this site (the A66 stockton-darlington one) and can safely say that I pass it several times every day and theres always at least 3-4 single guys parked up there.. Have never seen anything ever happening there (always keep my eyes open :shock: ) but my logic is that dogging must be going on there as theres ALWAYS guys parked up waiting.. either that or they've visited this site and are being forever optimistic 
... not sure if that helps or not?
... not sure if that helps or not? Warming the Bed
A few years ago I met an ex partner of mine at work and had numerous exciting encounters.. the two times that stick in my memory are when we arranged to get into the office very early before anyone else, she was wearing a short black skirt and she just lifted it up, slipped her thong to one side and just slid onto me at my desk.. wow.. the other was when she brought her vibrator into work for some lunch time fun and it fell out of her bag at her desk! You should have seen her face... 
! lol...
! lol... Warming the Bed
Its never easy Patrick...
But I would use the tried and tested sandwich approach...
Top Layer.... Say something good about them
Second Layer... Another good thing about them or the relationship.
The Limitation, the MEAT of the sandwich. You say, I have decided this relationship is over and I am getting out of it so we can both "move on".
Fourth Layer.... Another thing you liked about them or the relationship.
The Fifth and Bottom Layer ...... I have gained a lot from the relationship and I hope we can always remain good friends.
Good luck mate!!
But I would use the tried and tested sandwich approach...
Top Layer.... Say something good about them
Second Layer... Another good thing about them or the relationship.
The Limitation, the MEAT of the sandwich. You say, I have decided this relationship is over and I am getting out of it so we can both "move on".
Fourth Layer.... Another thing you liked about them or the relationship.
The Fifth and Bottom Layer ...... I have gained a lot from the relationship and I hope we can always remain good friends.
Good luck mate!!
Warming the Bed
Totally agree Judy... if I can quote the great man Izaak Walton himself "You will find angling to be like the virtue of humility, which has a calmness of spirit and a world of other blessings attending upon it."... that aside if it was 8 hours of fishing vs the same in the sack with a beautiful blonde fair maiden I know which one I'd be choosing (although it would still be a tough decision.. 
)
) Warming the Bed
Well I think football appeals to both sexes... strangely enough most of the women (and some of the blokes :shock: ) down the pub last night enjoyed the close up of david beckhams bum when he was on all fours after he fallen over (for the umpteenth time.. must be a new promotional deal hes struck).
:cheers:
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