I faked it one time,then they contacted the uni where i said i got my 1st class honours degree and i got Duncan Smith :shock:
I've not faked it myself and I agree that there is no point, it's more fun to either help the other person along with ideas or to take hold of the situation myself, so to speak.
What does kill the mood though is if the other person gets downhearted about not being able to "get you to come". I find that helping them out and/or joining in take away any potential emabrassment/feelings of insecurity.
I reckon I could fake it as I've had a few orgasms without ejaculating and vice versa.
hhhmmmmmmm . . . got me thinking a bit this thread . . .
well i wouldn't know how to fake one, cos usually there's a bit of evidence. not a lot sometimes depending on . . well too much detail, but evidence all the same . . .
for a bloke, making the woman come is a kinda biggie eh? sort of disappointed and a bit of an issue why not etc, but what about if a bloke doesn't come?
sometimes, no matter what i do or she does, it just doesn't happen. so . . . do women feel offended / disappointed by it? usually involves alcohol, and i don't have a problem if i don't cos it ain't all about my orgasm, and usually i've either had one already, or know at some point i will anyways, so i'd never even attempt a fake?
just wondering?
n x x x ;)
OMG Calista get yourself round here im crap at shagging and your the only one who would ever not mind!
I agree with Neilinleed's last post, also referred to above.
Why fake it - I suppose if it's a one-nighter, they might wonder if it's a longer term problem or just down to the pressure/drink/.. Might be reason to want to then. But otherwise, it just means I'd spend more effort trying to do it for them if you get the feeling it's not going to happen for you that time (not that it's happened much, and actually not that I'm a 1-night stand person either, just to add my disclaimer). Never faked it, don't think I would. Don't know if I could realistically anyway, I'm far too honest. Certainly had some memorable times when I've been busy with a partner and it's taken a while or we've conked out before I've let loose. Lengthens the experience, more chance to try out positions and activities - no bad thing in any book I'm sure.
I onced faked that i was wanking and had an orgasm while having phone sex but I dont know if that really counts. I really was not in the mood so I just played along pretending I was actuly doing it. I remember smiling to myself at the time thinking she was probably doing the same thing on the other end of the line lol
I will have to agree with Dawn and Lil Bunny on this one as well.
I was with an ex who was doing a not so good job of pleasuring me, so after she gave up I put my hand down there and fineshed the job myself.
Mike
LOL...I too voted before reading the posting....Will make a mental note to read first and then vote later. Although the question is directed at the men, I will answer anyway, heck yes I have faked in the past but one of my new years resolutions is to stop faking the orgasm and do as several other members suggested, finish the job myself...
Awwwww, thanks Scandal, thats sweet...
a mate of mine has fiaked by taking girl from behind, pulling out and spitting on her back.....
Yep I have once or twice and it's not as easy as you think, not only do you have to get the breathing right the timing of the short thrusts are critical lol
I can honestly say that i have never faked it in my life....... what is the point?
If yr not enjoying it..... say so..... and change something.... position .... technique.... whatever it takes.... but never ever fake it....
equi-princess xxx
Having had some amazing partners, I'm pleased to say that I've never needed to fake....
See another thread on a similar topic:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/32625.html
:rotflmao: Wetting myself here!
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