When starting out on this journey going alone was not an opinion, but we have met a couple of guys now and one we have built up a great trust friendship and totally understanding with. We have met him four times now. Hubby trusts this guy and they have both built up joint respect of each other A few weeks ago Hubby suggested that this guy and I could go alone and we did it is something that occasionally have found we all enjoy as hubby can trust us both 100% as our relationship is totally on a sexual level.
There is only one man I will ever love and that is my husband we have been together since teenage.
Would it be something you would consider doing?
Have you ever done this?
I would like hear others views on this subject, I know after asking a few couples this isn’t for everybody.
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Would you let your partner go on a meet alone?
Sex God
It may be alright with the right person, but it's a bit of a judgement call.
Sex God
Quote by bbw_lover
It may be alright with the right person, but it's a bit of a judgement call.
Isn't everything in this game, whether on your own or as a couple?
Sex God
Yes, no problems, as long as I knew where and who with.
Ive thought about this one... i wouldnt mind if it was just sex.. and i got to hear about it all in graphic details after......... but if i felt there was some kind of connection then i wouldnt like it...
i wouldnt go alone, as i enjoy the couple experience and i like to know that the other person is there with me ..... if im honest , i wouldnt really like it.. i think i would get jealous.. there .. thats what i think! lol..
i wouldnt go alone, as i enjoy the couple experience and i like to know that the other person is there with me ..... if im honest , i wouldnt really like it.. i think i would get jealous.. there .. thats what i think! lol..
Sex God
Absolutely. When we met (through this site, as it happens) we always thought that we would swing both together and separately. My work schedule means that we spend a lot of time apart so we have always agreed that we should each take advantage of whatever opportunities come along.
Will
PS - Inbox is always open!! :rascal:
Will
PS - Inbox is always open!! :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
Yes, no problems, as long as I knew where and who with.
That is how it works for us :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by Sarah
Yes, no problems, as long as I knew where and who with.
Same here :thumbup:
I think if its agreed between you and your open, honest and upfront with everything it can work for you :smile:
Out of curiosity can I ask those who do meet alone a Q?
If one of you doesn't like or get on with the person you want to meet, what happens then? Or is it not relevant whether or not your partner likes the person?
Out of curiosity can I ask those who do meet alone a Q?
If one of you doesn't like or get on with the person you want to meet, what happens then? Or is it not relevant whether or not your partner likes the person?
Quote by anais
I think if its agreed between you and your open, honest and upfront with everything it can work for you :smile:
Out of curiosity can I ask those who do meet alone a Q?
If one of you doesn't like or get on with the person you want to meet, what happens then? Or is it not relevant whether or not your partner likes the person?
I myself think it is very important that we both get on with the person we are going to meet. I would say any doubts by either party should be discussed,then we both decide if we are going to meet or not. I would never meet anyone that I didnt connect with.
Sex God
Quote by anais
I think if its agreed between you and your open, honest and upfront with everything it can work for you :smile:
Out of curiosity can I ask those who do meet alone a Q?
If one of you doesn't like or get on with the person you want to meet, what happens then? Or is it not relevant whether or not your partner likes the person?
Then the meet doesn't happen.....
I have to be happy with Shireen's planned meets and she with mine :-)
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
When starting out on this journey going alone was not an opinion, but we have met a couple of guys now and one we have built up a great trust friendship and totally understanding with. We have met him four times now. Hubby trusts this guy and they have both built up joint respect of each other A few weeks ago Hubby suggested that this guy and I could go alone and we did it is something that occasionally have found we all enjoy as hubby can trust us both 100% as our relationship is totally on a sexual level.
There is only one man I will ever love and that is my husband we have been together since teenage.
Would it be something you would consider doing?
Have you ever done this?
I would like hear others views on this subject, I know after asking a few couples this isn’t for everybody.
would we do it simple answer NO we are 'a ' couple not two singles.
wrats
xxs
Quote by anais
I think if its agreed between you and your open, honest and upfront with everything it can work for you :smile:
Out of curiosity can I ask those who do meet alone a Q?
If one of you doesn't like or get on with the person you want to meet, what happens then? Or is it not relevant whether or not your partner likes the person?
We are a couple, but I meet alone.
If Mr W didn't like the look of someone, the meet wouldn't happen. There's been an occasion when I had a long term "friends with benefits" situation which he became uncomfortable with, so I finished it. Went out with a bang though :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
We are a couple, but I meet alone.
If Mr W didn't like the look of someone, the meet wouldn't happen. There's been an occasion when I had a long term "friends with benefits" situation which he became uncomfortable with, so I finished it. Went out with a bang though :rascal:
It shows a healthy respect when you decline a meet with someone you really want to meet because your partner has some issues or has a feeling about that person...
Shows you both have each others interests at heart...
i quote sarah, if i knew how to. but im gonna word it diferently. as long as i am being told the truth it sits fine with me. swinging for me is about honesty as long as your partner knows whats happenin and has no problem with it. its totally fine. swinging isnt about lies but truth for us lot who have a bit of extra kick in our sex life. and is happy about it. is that right sarah? help me i have no confidence in what i type. keeping thinking it doesnt make sense.
P.s can i kiss your butterfly?!
Chief moo xxxxxxxxxx
P.s can i kiss your butterfly?!
Chief moo xxxxxxxxxx
Casanova
I don't swing alone but Richard does and he has said he would have no problem if I wanted to go off with another cpl for a 3 some, the only rule I have for him is that he can't swing with a single fem, cpls only.
Sex God
Never no-way ever in a million years would I want J to swing alone or myself for that matter. We swing as a couple, sex too me is a very personal sharing experience with my wife, one that its important to have as 'Lost'together even though we may enjoy others participating.
In my mind swinging as singles would be tantamount to adultery even though there is permission and knowledge. It is some thing I could not accept.
In my mind swinging as singles would be tantamount to adultery even though there is permission and knowledge. It is some thing I could not accept.
Sex God
The only way we get to indulge ourselves is to go seperately due to the lack of childminders...
I do enjoy being told all about it when she gets home though :rascal:
I do enjoy being told all about it when she gets home though :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by Steve
The only way we get to indulge ourselves is to go seperately due to the lack of childminders...
I do enjoy being told all about it when she gets home though :rascal:
Same here and the fact he works away if we only met together we would never really get meets some happen so quick that its only possible to tell dek after the event but he always gets told and he enjoyes being told about it afterwards to, builds up to another play
Having said that though we have always had an open relationship from the beginning there was never another option for me/him
Quote by TanKinky
The only way we get to indulge ourselves is to go seperately due to the lack of childminders...
I do enjoy being told all about it when she gets home though :rascal:
Same here and the fact he works away if we only met together we would never really get meets some happen so quick that its only possible to tell dek after the event but he always gets told and he enjoyes being told about it afterwards to, builds up to another play
Having said that though we have always had an open relationship from the beginning there was never another option for me/him
now thats a point is open relationship same as couples swinging seperately????
Quote by Chief moo
Thank u winch wench,
Its been along time and its sooooo different here i remember u, did u used to talk to little miss 2hot2handle in chat?
You're very welcome....
Never used chat that often TBH, but I did go through a phase of going in there when I first joined, so it's possible (any mentions of lucozade bottles will be met with pain)
Hope you don't have too much trouble settling back in
