If you’ve read this entire article and really taken note of all of the advice provided then you’ve vastly improved your chances of breaking past the barriers and being the single guy who makes it into the exciting swinging scene. Not only have I offered you advice to get you there but I have even given you valuable advice on what to do to get to stay in the scene as long as you want. Now I’ll offer you a few final tips and send you off on your way to finding women and couples to swing with. Some of these tips are ones that I’ve already given you in a previous chapter but feel the need to reiterate because remembering them and using them will have just that much of an impact on your success as a single guy who swings. Other’s may seem like no-brainers, but when the blood is rushing out of your head and down below your belt as you try to navigate your way through the world of swinging, you just may forget if not reminded!
Take these tips and prosper, my single, swinging friend!
- Whether you’re making your approach online or in person, be sure to word your introduction nicely so that you come across as being tempting and not repulsive.
- When using adult dating sites to find swingers, be honest and feel free to mention that your goal is to have sex, but long descriptions of the prodigious size of your cock may be off-putting until later when perhaps you’re asked about it, so refrain.
- Always emphasize how discreet you will be, what a gentleman you can be, how cleanliness is important to you, and that you believe in using rubbers, unless you’re specifically instructed for a “bareback” experience which means no condoms. These things will all work in your favor when making your first impression.
- While I can’t make you use a condom, I will advise you again to seriously reconsider any invitation to have sex bareback. This is your health and your life and you need to do your best to protect it.
- Follow all the rules of swinging and by all I mean those laid out by any clubs or events you attend, or those agreed upon by the people you play with. Breaking them will only ruin your chances of getting what you want.
- Don’t focus only on swinging with couples. Make sure you have a couple of single female playmates who like to swing so you can be sure to get in on the fun and increase your chances of making contacts that will invite you into their groups.
- Please, oh please make sure you bathe before heading to an event or to meet other swingers!!
- Don’t let yourself fall for someone’s partner! If you start to feel something beyond lust and friendship then you need to get out before you complicate things.
- Keep your eyes open because swingers are all around!
- Prove them all wrong and show them that you are a single guy that is worthy of a spot in the lifestyle!
