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Aalisha
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 43
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In my opinion (and I accept that others disagree) the mother is making a bigger deal out of this than it warrants. Taking it to the national papers is going to rule out any self respecting girl who might actually decide she likes Otto.
And while being a virgin at 21 is unusual but not unheard of - why is this a crisis that she needs to appeal for help with? Just give him time and a little bit of privacy.
On a side note, there are some prostitutes/escorts who do work with disabled clients who could give him a good experience if it is only about the sex (which is appears from this article). If it is about love, then telling a newspaper that your son is desperate for a shag is not the way to go about it.
I am actually getting a bit angry with this now as Downs is an issue close to my heart so I am going to stop.
I guess it is positive that articles like this get people talking about disabilities...
And while being a virgin at 21 is unusual but not unheard of - why is this a crisis that she needs to appeal for help with? Just give him time and a little bit of privacy.
On a side note, there are some prostitutes/escorts who do work with disabled clients who could give him a good experience if it is only about the sex (which is appears from this article). If it is about love, then telling a newspaper that your son is desperate for a shag is not the way to go about it.
I am actually getting a bit angry with this now as Downs is an issue close to my heart so I am going to stop.
I guess it is positive that articles like this get people talking about disabilities...
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This is an interesting thread!
I come and go, it's a hobby for me and like most of my hobbies is all consuming for a while, then forgotten about when the new one comes along (did I mention I have a short attention span...?)
I prefer swinging as a single girl, so tend not to get involved here with I'm with someone. I guess on a simple level, when I'm not with a partner, this is a great way to fufil my sexual needs. That said, I do believe that when/if I do settle down with someone, I would like us to explore swinging together at some stage as I think (mainly from people I've met on here) that it can enhance an already strong relationship.
I come and go, it's a hobby for me and like most of my hobbies is all consuming for a while, then forgotten about when the new one comes along (did I mention I have a short attention span...?)
I prefer swinging as a single girl, so tend not to get involved here with I'm with someone. I guess on a simple level, when I'm not with a partner, this is a great way to fufil my sexual needs. That said, I do believe that when/if I do settle down with someone, I would like us to explore swinging together at some stage as I think (mainly from people I've met on here) that it can enhance an already strong relationship.
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I still think of my first love, fairly often. Particularly when a relationship ends, I look back to that one through rose tinted glasses. Actually, I don't think it was perfect, but I don't think I'll ever be able to love someone that intensely - with that belief that it will last forever - again which is quite sad.
We are actually in touch now, after a break of a few years, debating whether to meet up, but I suspect it might end in tears. The sex will be amazing though...
We are actually in touch now, after a break of a few years, debating whether to meet up, but I suspect it might end in tears. The sex will be amazing though...
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Quote by Ukwineman
err well hello ladies im on a swinging site talking about dating isnt that what you both said you cant findred sorry you are a bit far up north
alashi you are a bit closer athough one bit say warwick (profile) forum bit says scotland :silly:
Yeah, I have tried to change my location and add an avatar but I can't get the changes to save... I'll try again another day!
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Working with kids means I have overheard some brilliant insults...all said with a sweet smile of innocence masking the cheeky little sods' real intentions.
"Are you a boy? Your boobies are very little." (not to me, funnily enough)
"Why does he have teeth like a rabbit?" (said within earshot or said boy)
"Do you have spots because you're a teenager?" (No, I'm 24. I just have spots...just you wait for puberty!!)
etc etc...
However,the best one, and it was said to me by a parent, "When are you due?". When I looked bewildered she clarified with, "The baby, when are you expecting." Groan. I don't know who was more embarrassed. I was a bloody size twelve by the way, just a bit bloated!
"Are you a boy? Your boobies are very little." (not to me, funnily enough)
"Why does he have teeth like a rabbit?" (said within earshot or said boy)
"Do you have spots because you're a teenager?" (No, I'm 24. I just have spots...just you wait for puberty!!)
etc etc...
However,the best one, and it was said to me by a parent, "When are you due?". When I looked bewildered she clarified with, "The baby, when are you expecting." Groan. I don't know who was more embarrassed. I was a bloody size twelve by the way, just a bit bloated!
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I agree RedAngel, I'd like a relationship too, but have yet to find a guy who has been able to accept my sexual wants. On vanilla sites I find guys who can't accept that side of me, and on here guys who'd love that part of me, but who aren't after a relationship. Woe is me!!! 
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This maybe a bit controversial but maybe men have more luck/choice on vanilla dating sites because women (huge generalisation coming up so please don't all shout at me at once) prefer sex along with love and relationships and men prefer it to be without strings - hence the reason why there are so many men on here, and why women members can be far more choosy.
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Hello and good evening.
I will be visiting Leeds (Beeston area) this weekend. Have plans for the actually weekend but will be arriving on the Friday evening and thought I might be able to have some fun that night!
Please have a look at my profile and, if you think you fit, please get in touch.
I'm thinking dinner, drinks and who knows what else...I'd prefer to meet someone who can accomodate.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE read my profile and only get in touch if it fits as I won't be responding to randoms.
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My stories (all two of them!) are based on events that couldhave happened if only I'd had the balls!
They are rooted in fact, but, really, are just my fantasy of what might have been...if only i had the courage to do more than smile and run away when these situations arise!
They are rooted in fact, but, really, are just my fantasy of what might have been...if only i had the courage to do more than smile and run away when these situations arise!
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Just thought I'd throw my tuppence, as a single girl, in here...
I get quite a lot of emails on a regular basis, and if I place an advert it multiplies extraordinarily. In the beginning I did try responding to everyone, just a wee one liner even. It became clear though that many people hadn't even read my profile/ad. It's amazing the number of emails I get from guys telling me they are shaved, when I've clearly stated my tastes are otherwise.
So, I stopped replying to most of them - if people haven't bothered to see what I want or can only lift a finger to send a wink then I'm not going to waste my time replying.
I tend to meet people from chat tbh, and do always try to respond to emails that have had a bit of thought put into them.
My advice to single guys would be, be patient, be curteous, try and be original and comment on something that person has specified in their profile, and if possible, arrange to meet in chat. For me, personality is important and in terms of my safety, if guy appears to pushy or desperate from his emails/chat/phonecalls then I'll pull the plug straight away.
I know I'm lucky to be in the minority position (single girl, although not the elusive bi fem!) and appreciate that I am able to be choosy, and would like to take this opportunity to anyone whose emails I have not responded to! :shock:
I get quite a lot of emails on a regular basis, and if I place an advert it multiplies extraordinarily. In the beginning I did try responding to everyone, just a wee one liner even. It became clear though that many people hadn't even read my profile/ad. It's amazing the number of emails I get from guys telling me they are shaved, when I've clearly stated my tastes are otherwise.
So, I stopped replying to most of them - if people haven't bothered to see what I want or can only lift a finger to send a wink then I'm not going to waste my time replying.
I tend to meet people from chat tbh, and do always try to respond to emails that have had a bit of thought put into them.
My advice to single guys would be, be patient, be curteous, try and be original and comment on something that person has specified in their profile, and if possible, arrange to meet in chat. For me, personality is important and in terms of my safety, if guy appears to pushy or desperate from his emails/chat/phonecalls then I'll pull the plug straight away.
I know I'm lucky to be in the minority position (single girl, although not the elusive bi fem!) and appreciate that I am able to be choosy, and would like to take this opportunity to anyone whose emails I have not responded to! :shock:
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hello...
Well that's me just back from Cyprus so I am definitely in the mood for summer and BBQs now!
I've already put my name down but also wnated to add my friends. He's on the site as DickyGB but won't have internt access for the next few days so I thought I'd ask on his behalf.
Hope this is okay, but do let me know if there's a problem.
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Well that's me just back from Cyprus so I am definitely in the mood for summer and BBQs now!
I've already put my name down but also wnated to add my friends. He's on the site as DickyGB but won't have internt access for the next few days so I thought I'd ask on his behalf.
Hope this is okay, but do let me know if there's a problem.
x
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I think this is interesting, particularly because I don't really mind making mistakes, as long as I learn from them.
For me, I like to think that I won't judge someone if they've done something I don't like once. For example, if someone cheated on a previous partner, but it only happened once, I wouldn't let that put me off. If they cheated more than once, or with more than one partner, it would put me off because I would find it hard to trust them.
I reckon we are all going to make mistakes, we should only be judged by the reparations we make.
For me, I like to think that I won't judge someone if they've done something I don't like once. For example, if someone cheated on a previous partner, but it only happened once, I wouldn't let that put me off. If they cheated more than once, or with more than one partner, it would put me off because I would find it hard to trust them.
I reckon we are all going to make mistakes, we should only be judged by the reparations we make.
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Thanks for your help everyone, I have put a general support ticket in and will see what comes of it.
Just fyi, I didn't post because I doubted the integrity of SH staff, but because I thought if someone was staff they shouldn't have spoken to me in the way that they did (actually, I wouldn't accept anyone speaking to me in the manner he did!). I was pretty shaken up last night when I posted my question but feel a lot happier this morning.
Just fyi, I didn't post because I doubted the integrity of SH staff, but because I thought if someone was staff they shouldn't have spoken to me in the way that they did (actually, I wouldn't accept anyone speaking to me in the manner he did!). I was pretty shaken up last night when I posted my question but feel a lot happier this morning.
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hello,
I was just wondering if there is a way of checking which members also work for SH? I can appreciate that you may want your privacy, but wondered if it did come up on profiles anywhere if people are admin etc?
Also, wanted to check, the support tickets (general, not technical) do they get answered by one person or will more than one person see it?
I was a bit shaken up by something said to me tonight by someone claiming to be SH admin and have sent a support ticket, but am now paranoid that if this guy does work for SH (although I sincerely hope he was just bluffing) he might be the one who receives my complaint!
Thank you.
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I was just wondering if there is a way of checking which members also work for SH? I can appreciate that you may want your privacy, but wondered if it did come up on profiles anywhere if people are admin etc?
Also, wanted to check, the support tickets (general, not technical) do they get answered by one person or will more than one person see it?
I was a bit shaken up by something said to me tonight by someone claiming to be SH admin and have sent a support ticket, but am now paranoid that if this guy does work for SH (although I sincerely hope he was just bluffing) he might be the one who receives my complaint!
Thank you.
x
