Hi,
I've been wanting to go to a club for a while, but not sure where to go. I live in Croydon, just South of London, so would like somewhere easily accessible or easy to drive to (although may need a drink for courage so should perhaps stick to public transport!).
I am a little worried that it'll be very scary! Can anyone tell me, as a single female, are these places generally very intimidating?
Thanks,
L x
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Caliwen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 42
UK
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Warming the Bed
I've never flirted with a woman. I am bi curious but I'd never have the guts to flirt with one! But I would say flirting would be different with a man then a woman.
And it also depends on what I'm looking to get out of it. Generally, I'd say when flirting mith a man, it's all about body language. Talk a load of crap but as long as you're giving out the right physical signals you're okay. In the past I've been told a couple of times that what I do with my eyes really does the trick!
I'm just stating the obvious really, aren't I? Sorry I'm no much help.
But, don't worry if you think you're hopeless. I used to not be able to look at someone I fancied without making a fool out of myself, now I'd say I'm a pretty good flirt!
And it also depends on what I'm looking to get out of it. Generally, I'd say when flirting mith a man, it's all about body language. Talk a load of crap but as long as you're giving out the right physical signals you're okay. In the past I've been told a couple of times that what I do with my eyes really does the trick!
I'm just stating the obvious really, aren't I? Sorry I'm no much help.
But, don't worry if you think you're hopeless. I used to not be able to look at someone I fancied without making a fool out of myself, now I'd say I'm a pretty good flirt!
