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Chaotic_Spirit
Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 39
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Orgasminator
I don't get the whole theory behind big men or toys and women wanting them, but i think i'm missing the latest craze or something, are bruised kidneys all the range now days?
Orgasminator
I first came across the scene through an ex-girlfriend who was already on the scene, well before we had even met and i think her tactic and my curosity is the only reason i'm here.
She brought it into a conversation whilst at the pub with our friends (open minded friends at that, wouldn't suggest thats a wise move in most cases), and all she did was simply ask,
'Hey have you heard about dogging?'
It then turned into a deep discussion, but it was a good way to see if it sparked an interest in me. It did and before long i was apart of a couple's free membership on here all those years ago.
Just dropping it into the conversation is a good way of finding out if its a wise move to even ask her. Just say something subtle, like
'One of the guys from work was on about swinging today, apparently him and his wife are soft swingers, but i havent a clue what he was on about do you?'
She brought it into a conversation whilst at the pub with our friends (open minded friends at that, wouldn't suggest thats a wise move in most cases), and all she did was simply ask,
'Hey have you heard about dogging?'
It then turned into a deep discussion, but it was a good way to see if it sparked an interest in me. It did and before long i was apart of a couple's free membership on here all those years ago.
Just dropping it into the conversation is a good way of finding out if its a wise move to even ask her. Just say something subtle, like
'One of the guys from work was on about swinging today, apparently him and his wife are soft swingers, but i havent a clue what he was on about do you?'
Orgasminator
Quote by Bear69
It is however not cheap!!!!!!! BUT IT IS VERY CHEERFUL!!!!
When i mentioned cheap, i didn't mean tacky so i thought it best to point that out. As far as i'm aware it is the cheapest club to gain enterance too.
xstasia is cheaper
8-) 8-)Is it? Shows you when i last went to Xtasia. Last time i went it was £10 to get in there as a single female, and £5 or more often then not, free at chams.
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Quote by midsprincess
It is however not cheap!!!!!!! BUT IT IS VERY CHEERFUL!!!!
When i mentioned cheap, i didn't mean tacky so i thought it best to point that out. As far as i'm aware it is the cheapest club to gain enterance too.
Orgasminator
Well i've only heard things in person, and i havent seen anything in the forums apart from this, so i'm guessing you mean the chatrooms which i don't really use anymore.
I wouldn't worry about it Annie, the SH chatrooms has always been full of idle gossip. It will soon past and it'll be another club or person.
The scene has always been a bitchy place but no one really takes note, i would of thought you'd of known this.
I wouldn't worry about it Annie, the SH chatrooms has always been full of idle gossip. It will soon past and it'll be another club or person.
The scene has always been a bitchy place but no one really takes note, i would of thought you'd of known this.
Orgasminator
quite poss, but i heard this particular rumour from someone on the pay roll at chams!
Suppose you can't believe everything that is said though, its a case of just waiting and seeing what happens really.
Suppose you can't believe everything that is said though, its a case of just waiting and seeing what happens really.
Orgasminator
Not heard these rumours, but i have heard that it's going to be put on market at some point. Is this true?
Orgasminator
Quote by Si_19704
Not sure the person posting above really knows what they're talking about when it comes to the jacuzzi's....They are tested 2 hourly so to ensure the chemical levels are correct to ensure cleanliness and so that no irritation is caused to anyones skin.
They are also cleaned thoroughly nightly.
Maybe you overlooked these standards as it has been well over a year since you last went and maybe you forgot this.
Sorry, you've got my goat so i have to reply! Nothing personal but i am aware of what i'm talking about, it's just my standards are perhaps a little higher then most and that isn't intended to sound as an insult.
The chemicals are unbareable, If the tub is cleaned nightly the chemical levels would be subtle and not stinging your eyes. I know this because i work within a company that deal with spas, hot tubs and saunas. I also know that if a hot tub for one reason or another can not be cleaned each time after use, they can up the chemical levels, but they is a point when this effects the health and safety of the users. (Read the manuals!)
Also if the hot tub is checked every two hours, how come on my last visit (which was only a few weeks ago, if your eyes weren't clouded by the chemicals you might of noticed that i do visit once a month!), then why was a condom floating about in the second tub, and was still floating about 4 hours later til one of the guests i was with decided to remove it!
I do like chams, its cheap and cheerful. It does have it good points, and like all other clubs, it has it's bad points too.
Right, say over.
Orgasminator
Primark or Peacocks, they have a good range and i find they fit better then the ones i have brought from Le Zenza and Ann Summers in the past.
Orgasminator
Oh i hate thongs, i think they look awful on most women. Unless you have the body of a porn star then i think they should be banned. Something disappearing up your crack and stuck up there all day does not appeal to me.
I love boy shorts for my casual every day. and Half french knickers for when i'm feel saucy.
BIG KNICKERS RULE!
I love boy shorts for my casual every day. and Half french knickers for when i'm feel saucy.
BIG KNICKERS RULE!
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Quote by splendid_
ummm as for fully bi or not.
I know a few gay men that classify themselves as gay and don't 'do' anal.
The sexual acts themselves don't define ones sexuality.
Just thought that I would mention that.
awe you posted first and said it way better then me lol
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Quote by Dave__Notts
To weed out those that were only applying to get to the female, he wrote that at the beginning of the night he will shag their arse before the female joins in. I bet that put a few off
Dave_Notts
especially the Bi guys that dont do anal, because we all know dont we that you dont have to 'do anal receiving or giving to be Bi ..
im guessing the above couple Dave mentions had asked for guys that were happy to recieve anal and not just bisexual..
I thought it was as the OP mentions in the opening post, full bi. To me that means the lot and not just orally-bi.
I know there is a range of what people would or wouldn't do but when people advertise full bi then I thought that would mean everything.......unless I have missed something or are way off track
Dave_Notts
Not to spin you guys out or anything, but did you know a lot of GAY MEN don't even do Anal, It's just an activity after-all and if you participate in that activity or not doesn't actually change your sexual preference.
Orgasminator
Ok the sprout is back, and this time I’m sprouting on about the thick idiots out there that complain about people not putting much information on their profiles, yet don’t seem to bloody read them anyways. It’s getting beyond ridiculous really, and I’m fed up of sending mail back correcting the dumb gits for fear of being titled as ignorant if I just ignore them!
It’s the not looking before you leap syndrome, I’m afraid. Where people are spotting the picture and ignoring the details and rushing to get in touch, though I don’t understand why, it’s not like the world is going to end in the two minutes it takes to read a profile.
I don’t even get it, they is not even much to read on my profile, yet some people (well-known members as well as new) are just not bothering.
Basically the problem is single males, heterosexual couples and bisexual couples that only play as a couple send the same sort of shit day in and day out.
“Hi, I’ve read your profile and would really like to talk further regarding meeting…blah blah blah!â€
Well if you did read my profile you would realise one big problem with your mail that suggests your nothing but lying sods eager to get your hands on anything without any care for the individual at all. I’m fucking GAY!!! Which means I don’t sleep with males or find them sexually exciting at all!
Please can everyone take into consideration that profiles are there for a reason, and completely ignoring them can cause annoyance to others and does make you look a complete prat!
Thank you, rant over…
It’s the not looking before you leap syndrome, I’m afraid. Where people are spotting the picture and ignoring the details and rushing to get in touch, though I don’t understand why, it’s not like the world is going to end in the two minutes it takes to read a profile.
I don’t even get it, they is not even much to read on my profile, yet some people (well-known members as well as new) are just not bothering.
Basically the problem is single males, heterosexual couples and bisexual couples that only play as a couple send the same sort of shit day in and day out.
“Hi, I’ve read your profile and would really like to talk further regarding meeting…blah blah blah!â€
Well if you did read my profile you would realise one big problem with your mail that suggests your nothing but lying sods eager to get your hands on anything without any care for the individual at all. I’m fucking GAY!!! Which means I don’t sleep with males or find them sexually exciting at all!
Please can everyone take into consideration that profiles are there for a reason, and completely ignoring them can cause annoyance to others and does make you look a complete prat!
Thank you, rant over…
Orgasminator
I once kicked a police officer in the shin when i was 8. It was a school trip and he was telling me if i wasn't a good girl i would end up in one of the cells. So i kicked him really hard! Some how being locked up appealed to me... It still does! :twisted:
Orgasminator
You'll find Chams busy as it's cheap and easy to get to, i've been a fair few times though i find its standards on cleaniness quite poor compare to other clubs. Its a bit dirty and as long as you don't mind a hot tub that is only cleaned out once a week then you'll enjoy it.
Its a winner with most SH users, you just have to be able to over look the cleaniness of the place.
Its a winner with most SH users, you just have to be able to over look the cleaniness of the place.
Orgasminator
Quote by earthchild
fook me! i thought you'd fallen off the face of the earth.
I came and sat back on Earth's face again
Been low key, thats all :P Nice to see you Earthy! Orgasminator
sounds like someone is trapped in the closet and is struggling to come to terms with it lol.
But the answer to your question is yes, i have seen that attitude before. I think men tend to be worse then women, but i also think that has something to do with the world's general view which differs between gay women and gay men.
But the answer to your question is yes, i have seen that attitude before. I think men tend to be worse then women, but i also think that has something to do with the world's general view which differs between gay women and gay men.
Orgasminator
Quote by TheAnalogKid
2) The position a woman sometimes sits in (usually on the floor, back to wall), her knees up to her chest and ankles a little apart (so there's a glimpse of her panties just below her pussy)
Omg, this is one of mine that instantly turns me on. If i catch a glimpse of the gusset of a girl's knickers i have an uncontrollable urge to be naughty. Esp if they are white panties.
anyways now i'm thinking about that i'm off to play with myself. Cheers Analog!
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Quote by bigDewi69
I like to stick with boobs if I'm not playing around, keeps it more PG if you're on the tube and wanna tell that certain someone you love their boobs.
It's better then to use tits for the bedroom i.e. "I love your tits"
Cock is probably the best one to use for men. 'Thing' is impersonal and 'Dick' can get very confusing
Ok, slow moment. How can Dick get confusing??? I believe they is an amusing story behind this lol.
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Quote by
I couldn't careless what word people use, as long as i understand it.
On a strange note i often say boobs when talking about other people, but when making reference to myself i say chest. I'm just a strange i suppose.
No not strange, but those slate blue eyes.
You'e made me paranoid now, whats wrong with then ?? lolThey just send me into chaos.....I wish
pmsl, anyways my eyes are hijacking this thread! I have one for you,
Is it ...
cock, penis, thing, or it.
Personally, and i am going back to my days when i did sleep with men.I couldn't say anything but it, and if a man or woman spoke a dirty fantasy to me, i'd automatically be turned off if they used cock.
It's also the same for a woman's tulip! I get shivers and feel turned off if someone said Fanny, Pussy or VirginaCruel, saying that mid-fantasy.
Best thing about a fantasy is anything goes!
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Quote by __random_orbit__
tulip?
in that case, mine would be leak
lp
I spat my drink all over my laptop then!
How do i explain that if i need to claim on my insurance now lol
Orgasminator
Quote by
I couldn't careless what word people use, as long as i understand it.
On a strange note i often say boobs when talking about other people, but when making reference to myself i say chest. I'm just a strange i suppose.
No not strange, but those slate blue eyes.
You'e made me paranoid now, whats wrong with then ?? lolThey just send me into chaos.....I wish
pmsl, anyways my eyes are hijacking this thread! I have one for you,
Is it ...
cock, penis, thing, or it.
Personally, and i am going back to my days when i did sleep with men. I couldn't say anything but it, and if a man or woman spoke a dirty fantasy to me, i'd automatically be turned off if they used cock.
It's also the same for a woman's tulip! I get shivers and feel turned off if someone said Fanny, Pussy or Virgina
Orgasminator
Quote by meat2pleaseu
I couldn't careless what word people use, as long as i understand it.
On a strange note i often say boobs when talking about other people, but when making reference to myself i say chest. I'm just a strange i suppose.
No not strange, but those slate blue eyes.
You'e made me paranoid now, whats wrong with then ?? lol
Nothing wrong with them at all Chaos, although they could be improved by changing the viewing angle...maybe if i was looking up at them with you straddled across me and us both naked......yep, that would definitley make em look better :rascal:
ops: :oops: :oops: :oops: I'm actually lost for words!
Orgasminator
Quote by
OK now
fuck, shag, make love, sex or intercourse?
Intercourse seems to only be done by two line drawings in a tech book. Sex is just to...to anything. Shags seems to be just too free and easy. Fuck is a word with some lust and determination behind it. It sounds like someone is going to go for something.
...and making love seems to need more than another body. It needs a real contact on more than a physical level.
I don't use any of those words... I just replace it with play.
ie.
'Do you want to play with me??'
or
'I'm in a really naughty mood, lets go upstairs and play!'
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Quote by
I couldn't careless what word people use, as long as i understand it.
On a strange note i often say boobs when talking about other people, but when making reference to myself i say chest. I'm just a strange i suppose.
No not strange, but those slate blue eyes.
You'e made me paranoid now, whats wrong with then ?? lol
