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FeistyMinx
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 58
UK

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3 weeks ago my darling mum died of a very nasty cancer called mesothelioma. This is the first time I have written a poem since school!!!!
Mum…
You taught us all so much…
How to ride.. and how to sew,
How to cook!!
How to weed … and how to read …
You never judged and always helped
Wiped tears and mended broken hearts…
Even now you are gone…
I know you are there…
Sitting in your comfy chair...
Today my dad mad me smile, when for the first time since mum passed away 3 weeks ago, he wrote a silly thing on the chores sheet, and laughed.
I made my original will when I lived in Scotland... and just assumed it would last til needed...
Was only by accident that I found out that now I live in England I needed a new one!!!!
lol Dave.... I hope that you hadnt been swearing a lot....
farting and picking your nose biggrin
lately?
Today I have no idea where my head was.... drove to work, parked the car, went into office at ..
My son came to meet me at 1pm.. we walked out to the carpark, with me trying to find my keys in my bag...
My son called out to me that they are in the car!! Not only had I left them in the ignition, the radio was still on and the door wasnt even closed!
I suppose I should be glad that no one thought my poor old car worthy of pinching!! lol
I am in doghouse at moment with my son!!!
It seems that when you not been home since October, your mum isnt allowed to Hug you outside the front door, just as a friend drives past lol
My mum has mesothelioma, and was given 18 months 2 and a half years ago, when she was first diagnosed she wrote out her wishes and has them sealed up. We have talked a lot about what she does and doesnt want.. It was hard at first for me to talk to her about all this, but is now a lot easier.. It is her final wishes, and is my job to see it happens, and to be honest knowing what she wants makes the inevitable easier for me to cope with. She is also making memory boxes for us all.. We have had to promise not to peek... I seem to spend a lot of time getting things from cupboards - but not peeking!!! One day I will fall down the stairs biggrin
I have written out a list of wishes I want... Mainly about the music I want played...
Whitesnake - Here I go again... and Fuck Authority by Pennywise ( but somehow think that the powers that be wouldnt like that ) I want everyone to be wearing colourful clothes and no flowers... All I want is a sprig of rosemary on my coffin... as it is for rememberance... any soppy music and hymns and I shall haunt all the family forever!! :D
what pisses me off is needing to speak to four people on phone to get a home visit from the out of hours doctor!!!
#1 - a man who takes all the details then passes me onto
#2 - a nurse who takes all the details again... tells me I shall be phoned back in a few minutes..
an hour and half passes... phone rings...
#3 - another nurse who asks me all the same things that i have already told the other 2... she then says a doctor shall phone in a few minutes..
another hour and half passes... phone rings...
#4 the doctor - who ... yes you guessed it~~ asks me all same questions again, then says can I take my mum to the hospital to be seen... no I say... the reason I rang over 3 hours ago was that district nurse wanted her seen at home...
so the outcome was that 5 hours after the first call she got seen finally...
I am finally calm about it all. Just glad that all the doctor had to do was adjust mums morphine intake, and it wasnt an actual dire emergancy!!
I give money to 2 charities, 1 is Macmillan Cancer Support, and the other is our local hospice.
I also help with some fundraising for the hospice. They are amazing in all they do to help patients and familes affected by cancer.
I had told everyone that I just wanted Hugs.... I got some pressies as well, But my best pressie was the Hug my 14 year old daughter gave me... She doesnt do Hugs at all usually!!
Could we have the techy bit in non techy language!! i would so like to now check that my son's ps3 (when he is home) and my daughters lappys - which use my wireless thingy cant get to my pics :-?
The silly thing that really pisses me off... is to sit down to watch a programme and find I cant, as daughter no1 has set sky + for a programme as has my father!! so I am now watching some daft cooking programme that I dont like :twisted:
I am not in the mood for a row over who doesnt watch something!!
well I try to keep a stock of wine and gin in so I wouldnt run out...
may I be soppy and say I would walk through a blizzard for hugs....
and the week before last was prepared to walk 3 miles through the snow to get my mums morphine... but managed to get a lift....
I have thousands of novels - some I have had for over 20 years - they are like old friends. I dont think I could replace them with an electronic book... and also dont like the idea of an electronic book in the bath!! at least with a traditional book you can dry it on a rad if you drop it in when you fall asleep lol
Ohhhhh!!! we do the radio times thing as well..lol
and everyone gets to chose one thing they want to watch... biggrin and no rows allowed
Getting ready for Christmas...
The advent calanders are ready....
What is your special treat you buy yourself at Christmas time but never seem to have the rest of the year?
Mine is a bottle of malibu and some pineapple juice in the fridge chilling biggrin
I live in a rural area, and yesterday the high school was open to walking pupils - but the children who live in rural areas - such as ours - were at home as the bus that collects kids from 3 villages has a very steep hill to come down and then go back up - and the slightest bit of ice and it becomes impassable..
I for one am glad that the school has the sense to not risk the safety of our children.
The advent calenders will be up in the morning... if I get off here for a while and get them ready!!! I have homemade ones that I need to tie the sweeties onto..
The rest of decorations shall go up the weekend before Christmas, except for the main tree - which shall be real and will go up on 23rd December.
We had a bit of a thaw this morning - but its snowed quite a bit again and is about 6 inches of snow again!! My car which was totally clear when I went to work is now totally covered again. I have bought a box of work home, and if its very snowy in the morning I am going to work from home!!
I must laugh a bit about of all this - as today my 20 min drive to work took 50 minutes!! And got to office to find my boss - who lives round corner from me had phoned in to say she was going to work from home as the raods were too bad and she was snowed in!!!!!! biggrin
North Lincolnshire here.... No snow - but a report on radio said that it was snowing over the bridge in Hull!!!
I have bought stuff home from work to do if I get snowed in biggrin
Thank you Thank you Thank you for giving us back our lol in chat
but please please please can we have the whistle back now xxx
This is a poem that always moves me.....
In Flanders Fields
by John McCrae, May 1915
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
~~and here is a response that was then written a few years later....
We Shall Keep the Faith
by Moina Michael, November 1918
Oh! you who sleep in Flanders Fields,
Sleep sweet - to rise anew!
We caught the torch you threw
And holding high, we keep the Faith
With All who died.
We cherish, too, the poppy red
That grows on fields where valor led;
It seems to signal to the skies
That blood of heroes never dies,
But lends a lustre to the red
Of the flower that blooms above the dead
In Flanders Fields.
And now the Torch and Poppy Red
We wear in honor of our dead.
Fear not that ye have died for naught;
We'll teach the lesson that ye wrought
In Flanders Fields.
ok... am i being niave.. isnt a woman a woman.... what does skin colour have to do with anything.....
~~~wanders back out wondering what apart from a boast thread is about.......
Connercial breaks that seem to go on for longer than the part of the programme you are watching!!! :twisted: