Sexlightened
I also like it the way it is, unfortunately another London guy, and seems most fun is to be had up north, will sell my little two up to down and buy a mansion of fun up north
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Flavio12000
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 54
United Kingdom
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Sexlightened
think it is better to be truthful with age ( 34 here ), if a women is sexy it does not matter how old she is as some mature women can be incredibly sexy. I know guys who are late 30s who go to clubs and chat up younger girls and state they are 25 or whatever, think they are worried about being the same age as the girls dads or something, think some people get insecure as they get older. I probably had a much better body ten years ago but have a much better mind now, and personally prefer the latter on friends and prospective partners
Sexlightened
Hi am 34 year old London guy looking to meet mature female or couple for fun and friendship. Openminded, wanting a public meeting first pub , coffee shop or something
Sexlightened
reading, sports, finding out about life and the interesting people in it, attending alternative venue and going to Amsterdam and getting stoned occasionly
Sexlightened
find autumn is a worse time , am a jeans and t shirt guy so love summer. Also the depression rates go up in winter, seasonally adjusted disorder, so time to get those light boxes out
Sexlightened
I am not after a quick and easy shag that is not something that interests me. Alot of what I have said has been misinterpreted , I value peoples opinions in here. It is just there are alot of timewasters around. People arranging meets and not showing up. I am sure this has happenned to alot of people. Obviously some people are curious , or want to share experiences and may not be in the scene now. That is fine and welcome. So not having ago at those who won't shag around , swing etc. I also do not feel I am a disgruntled single guy ( most of those are in my local 
), love the intellectual shagging in here
), love the intellectual shagging in here Sexlightened
through my trawl of the internet, and lack of success in meeting up with someone, have had phone numbers, people wanting sexy chat etc, was wondering what people are here for, judging by the posts there seems to be some genuine players, also alot of time wasters. was wondering about a players only forum. could be stricter membership categories.
Sexlightened
Hi I'm a 34 professional london guy looking to meet f's or couples for fun , friendship , easy going relaxed meets. Initially looking for meet in coffee shop, pub etc, not into dogging would rather get to know someone before bedding them ( if they want to bed me! )
Sexlightened
I have recieved some e-mails from a certain organisation that runs a fetish club, they hold swinging parties but there is a huge charge for guys and the girls are advertised. This appears to be a profiteering exercise. Most of the people here seem to be genuine swingers , was wondering what people felt about cover charges and individuals out to make a profit. I can reconcile with paying a cover charge to use facilities etc but there has to be a limit.
Sexlightened
noticed theres always alot of guests around , must be the politicians with time to kill before parliament reopens ( unless they're getting flogged! )
Sexlightened
lived in the states for a year in California when studying went to some clubs there and found my English accent got me more invites then I have had in the rest of my life, my initial experioence was around 27 with a couple late 40s where the husband was a voyour and I played with the wife was nice but wanted to play again and they said no seconds so found that difficult,
also had a lovely girl show me round a club and had fun with her was not full sex but was great and showed that people can have great fun without full sex, think alot of single guys want to get there rocks off as soon as possible found out it is more fun playing.
Unfortunately a bit of a novice to the English scene.
also had a lovely girl show me round a club and had fun with her was not full sex but was great and showed that people can have great fun without full sex, think alot of single guys want to get there rocks off as soon as possible found out it is more fun playing.
Unfortunately a bit of a novice to the English scene.
Sexlightened
some times it is about trust as a single guy I love sex, but would find it difficult with someone I had just met hence not into dogging, would rather get to know someone before playing.
Sexlightened
interested here prefer raquels as it is nearer to me and quieter ( Only been once though so far )
Sexlightened
As a relative newibie here also think it is a great idea, sent a p.m to here, this could turn into speed or something
Sexlightened
Was wondering if people could shed light on the best place to go for adult fun. Am interested in checking out spas etc. Any tips please?
Sexlightened
Notice on here that alot of the sexier people on here are all based in the north, so is it sexier in the north are us southernors to repressed or something not to have as much fun. Who in your experience are sexier?
Sexlightened
As a single guy probably too many on this site, am still trying to find the best way to meet a female or couple, I am not too choosy though prefer over 25s-whatever . Thinking about club visits but they are also probably inundated with single guys. Am non pushy. so any advice/ offers?
Sexlightened
HI,
was wondering if there were people on here that would be interested in after work meets etc, to swop experiences of clubs , meets, munches etc. All would be welcome from newbies to experienced players, and m, f's and couples would be welcome of whatever sexuality, anyone interested feel free to reply. Seems there is more action going on in the north so it is time to attempt to " sex up " our capitol city
was wondering if there were people on here that would be interested in after work meets etc, to swop experiences of clubs , meets, munches etc. All would be welcome from newbies to experienced players, and m, f's and couples would be welcome of whatever sexuality, anyone interested feel free to reply. Seems there is more action going on in the north so it is time to attempt to " sex up " our capitol city
Sexlightened
I think todays society places too much emphasis on trying to look young and cosmetic surgery etc. There is alot of emhasis on looks and not on attitude , have met alot more liberated people over 40 then 20s so think the emphasis should be on outlook. Also remember as a teenager when my friends mother was more attractive then the girl next door.
Sexlightened
As a guy who has attended mixed saunas, most people are relaxed about nudity and these places are clothed optional. Most people are chilled there, but you do get the odd letchy guy who is going to try it on without a females permission etc, but then you would get that in a pub , club , any public place where females are present.
Sexlightened
Interested in going to club raquels after work, anyone interested in meeting up with me
Flavio
Flavio
Sexlightened
Hi,
am a 32 year old guy live in east London, would like to meet females , couples for relaxed meets coffee etc, hopefully leading to some adult fun, am openminded , non pushy guy.
am a 32 year old guy live in east London, would like to meet females , couples for relaxed meets coffee etc, hopefully leading to some adult fun, am openminded , non pushy guy.
Sexlightened
Would be interested here live about 3 miles from Club Raquels and would be like to see what is it really like. How about having some swinging heaven identification, will have to dig out the Italia shirt here.
Flavio
Flavio
Sexlightened
Hi heather also would be interesting in attending, London guy here
Sexlightened
Male 34 interested in visiting club raquels, straight m also interested in meeting couples , single females for fun and friendship. All replies will be considered
Sexlightened
HI all London professional male looking to broaden horizons seeks f or couples ( age immaterial as long as over 18 ) , likes mature women as well as fuller figured women so don't be shy to get to me. Interested in pub meet first so we can discuss likes dislikes. Also looking to meet guys for friendship, pub nights out so we could look for like minded females together
Sexlightened
well was nice to meet you tkano, shame no ladies turned up but don't know what is wrong with the london scene and the pub was pleasant enough, good luck with future searches
Sexlightened
Hi I would be interested in having a badge for munches also would be interested in munches in and around the London area.
