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I'm a burlesque performer-
There is a pic of her tied up in chinese ropes on a table, and it is soooo hot!
That is so cool Maz. Where do you do your shows?
Id love to see that picture of Dita if you have it. Earlier in this thread ive floated going to see a burlesque show as a possible future social. Dont think it would be a good call for a vanilla date!
Friday x
There is a pic of her tied up in chinese ropes on a table, and it is soooo hot!
That is so cool Maz. Where do you do your shows?
Id love to see that picture of Dita if you have it. Earlier in this thread ive floated going to see a burlesque show as a possible future social. Dont think it would be a good call for a vanilla date!
Friday x
Well done blueandpink. The forum can be daunting for newbies. Im only a few months old and I did approach the forums with some trepidation. But just like pringles, once you pop you cant stop. Think I might have a slight touch of forum addiction.
The chat rooms are like a nice snack of conversation, debate and big time flirting. The forum is like a meal. A tapas meal! Ive found im using the forum more than chat of late.
Hmmm now the tricky one. What are my favourite topics/subjects. Well I like the serious and the flippant.
Celeb spots, sexy clothing, is SH anygood, Marriage,Film Qoutes, depresion. These are just some of the threads that ive contributed to.
Yeah, the forum is a tapas meal, a smorgas board of variety. I love it.
Friday x
ps You can tell its home time and im hungary, look at all the food references in my post!
The chat rooms are like a nice snack of conversation, debate and big time flirting. The forum is like a meal. A tapas meal! Ive found im using the forum more than chat of late.
Hmmm now the tricky one. What are my favourite topics/subjects. Well I like the serious and the flippant.
Celeb spots, sexy clothing, is SH anygood, Marriage,Film Qoutes, depresion. These are just some of the threads that ive contributed to.
Yeah, the forum is a tapas meal, a smorgas board of variety. I love it.
Friday x
ps You can tell its home time and im hungary, look at all the food references in my post!
Love is blind and it can make you blind.
I think if you are a super wealthy person then pre-nups should be allowed. Wiser non loved up heads should prevail that an amicable provision is put in place in the event that things dont works out. Golddigging is a sterotype but one with a grain of truth to it. Also seeking a windfall settlement seems to be taking on an element of combat. That one side is seeking to get even by really hurting the others financial health.
As far as in aware pre-nups are not legally binding in here. Any solictors in the house?
Friday x
I think if you are a super wealthy person then pre-nups should be allowed. Wiser non loved up heads should prevail that an amicable provision is put in place in the event that things dont works out. Golddigging is a sterotype but one with a grain of truth to it. Also seeking a windfall settlement seems to be taking on an element of combat. That one side is seeking to get even by really hurting the others financial health.
As far as in aware pre-nups are not legally binding in here. Any solictors in the house?
Friday x
Same as you. I was always dead against it. I think mainly because my own Parents are seperated. Plus I was a fatalist. My logic went that marriage is rendered meaningless because divorce exists. In effect, whats the point of swearing "till death do us part" if your high st solictor can get you out of it?
And I have friends in long relationships with children who arent married or are have been engaged for years with no sign of a wedding.
But now I feel differently. Im nowhere near ready now. But when the time comes and I find the one and I 100% know she is, I wont hesitate or fudge like I did in the past.
Its a big committment especially when you consider the emotional & financial cost if the marriage breaks down, but its one that the person you truly love deserves.
Its more than just a piece of paper to me. The ritual and ceremony is a meangingful symbol.
This is so not the topic i'd be covering on a date thou. One lady did!
Friday x
And I have friends in long relationships with children who arent married or are have been engaged for years with no sign of a wedding.
But now I feel differently. Im nowhere near ready now. But when the time comes and I find the one and I 100% know she is, I wont hesitate or fudge like I did in the past.
Its a big committment especially when you consider the emotional & financial cost if the marriage breaks down, but its one that the person you truly love deserves.
Its more than just a piece of paper to me. The ritual and ceremony is a meangingful symbol.
This is so not the topic i'd be covering on a date thou. One lady did!
Friday x
Hi and welcome.
Having been here only a short while I can tell you that there are lovely people here who will look after you. Im sure you will find folk who have the same sensibilities.
Your age isn't nescessarily an issue. I've met some 18 year olds who are far more mature than I am and some who are very immature.
All I would say to you is to take it at your pace, no one else’s. Don't allow anyone to make you feel pressurised. Always ask yourself what it is you want and never feel obliged to do something, ever. It is perfectley acceptable for any person to change their mind at the eleventh hour. Dont think that just because you have done/said x and y that you have to do z.
Hope you find what your looking for.
Friday x
Having been here only a short while I can tell you that there are lovely people here who will look after you. Im sure you will find folk who have the same sensibilities.
Your age isn't nescessarily an issue. I've met some 18 year olds who are far more mature than I am and some who are very immature.
All I would say to you is to take it at your pace, no one else’s. Don't allow anyone to make you feel pressurised. Always ask yourself what it is you want and never feel obliged to do something, ever. It is perfectley acceptable for any person to change their mind at the eleventh hour. Dont think that just because you have done/said x and y that you have to do z.
Hope you find what your looking for.
Friday x
Like everything, it depends. The sentiments expressed so far are dead on the money. You will only get out what you put in. Also ones expectations should not be too ambitious. Better to be happy to just make good friends and see how it develops from there.
I have been here a short time and I have found it to be great. Brillant way to meet people and have the craic.
I love the chat room and the forums and have used the ads and ive found them to be worth it for me. (How many "and"s in one sentence, my old english teacher wouldnt be happy)
Friday x
I have been here a short time and I have found it to be great. Brillant way to meet people and have the craic.
I love the chat room and the forums and have used the ads and ive found them to be worth it for me. (How many "and"s in one sentence, my old english teacher wouldnt be happy)
Friday x
I was in a boozer in digbeth, Bham's Irish quater for St Paddy's parade last Sunday. These are the tunes that had me singing along at the top of my sweet sweet voice. (Thats what I was told, and the public cant be wrong, X Factor here I come 
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The Saw Doctors - I Used To Love Her
Garth Brooks - Friends in low places
Traditional - Black Velvet Band
Traditional - Fields of Athanrey
The Pogues - Dirty Old Town
Thin Lizzy - Whiskey in the jar
U2 - One
U2 - Still Havent Found What Im Looking For
The Pouges & The Dubliners - Irish Rover
The Fureys - The Green Fields of France
Ask me next week when ive been in different boozers and im sure it would be all pop culture classic's. Lovin ELO lately!
Friday x
)The Saw Doctors - I Used To Love Her
Garth Brooks - Friends in low places
Traditional - Black Velvet Band
Traditional - Fields of Athanrey
The Pogues - Dirty Old Town
Thin Lizzy - Whiskey in the jar
U2 - One
U2 - Still Havent Found What Im Looking For
The Pouges & The Dubliners - Irish Rover
The Fureys - The Green Fields of France
Ask me next week when ive been in different boozers and im sure it would be all pop culture classic's. Lovin ELO lately!
Friday x
Dita Von Teese
If I had to chose it would have to be Immodesty, just love those Womanly curves!
I so want to go to a Burlesque show. They come up in Brum from time to time at the Glee Club and at the Electric Cinema. If anybody fancy's a social one night at one let me know and I'll watch out for it. Tickets can booked online and tel. May offshoot this into a seperate thread when a show next comes round.
Many thanks to swindonnewbies for instructing me on how to put photos on here.
Friday xx
If I had to chose it would have to be Immodesty, just love those Womanly curves!
I so want to go to a Burlesque show. They come up in Brum from time to time at the Glee Club and at the Electric Cinema. If anybody fancy's a social one night at one let me know and I'll watch out for it. Tickets can booked online and tel. May offshoot this into a seperate thread when a show next comes round.
Many thanks to swindonnewbies for instructing me on how to put photos on here.
Friday xx
Hmmmmm. Easy
Basque
Tight pvc micro mini skirt or hot pants
Fishnet stockings & suspenders
V high stilleto heels or high heeled thigh length FMB's
I really like this whole 40's/50's Burlesque look. See Dita Von Tease & Immodesty Blaize. Saw them on Channel 4's faking it. Great prog.
Right off to splash my face and cool down
Friday x
Basque
Tight pvc micro mini skirt or hot pants
Fishnet stockings & suspenders
V high stilleto heels or high heeled thigh length FMB's
I really like this whole 40's/50's Burlesque look. See Dita Von Tease & Immodesty Blaize. Saw them on Channel 4's faking it. Great prog.
Right off to splash my face and cool down
Friday x
All fella's are different. Some sclongs that are impressive when flaccid do not actually grow when erect, rather the mast is just lifted. And others which are smaller can grow substantially when erect 
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And of course theres the lucky buggers whos impressive sleeping micky gets even bigger when aroused.
But regardless, its true what they say, its not the size of the pencil its the quality of the writing that counts!
Friday x
.And of course theres the lucky buggers whos impressive sleeping micky gets even bigger when aroused.
But regardless, its true what they say, its not the size of the pencil its the quality of the writing that counts!
Friday x
Im a type B. Where's me prize ? lol
You seem to have a Type B personality. Your personality draws characteristics from each of the other personality types, that is, Type A and Type C. Either you adjust your behavior depending on the situation, or you tend to be moderated in your attitudes.
In any case, you are the most balanced of the three personality types. :D
Friday x
You seem to have a Type B personality. Your personality draws characteristics from each of the other personality types, that is, Type A and Type C. Either you adjust your behavior depending on the situation, or you tend to be moderated in your attitudes.
In any case, you are the most balanced of the three personality types. :D Friday x
PandA, thank you for holding my hand. Great club ,so many rooms. Lots of friendly folk. Loved the cheese toasties (swerved the communal bowl of nuts, not a good idea even in a normal bar!) and the grotto style jacuzzi was lovely. Shame the other better one was out of action.
Now me duck has been broken let the good times roll!
Friday x
Now me duck has been broken let the good times roll!
Friday x
I was bricking it! Thankfully I was met by a lovely couple. Thanks to PandA for letting me join them.
It really helps if you can arrange to meet people you know from SH. Doesn't have to be to play - just nice to have someone to go with.
I was still really nervous but within a few minutes of sitting and chatting with them everything became relaxed and they in turn introduced me to others in the club. After spending some time together I’d then found my feet to explore and meet others.
All the couples in Chams I met seemed to be very respectfull.
Go for it. No good having a fantasy if you don't do anything about it.
Friday x
It really helps if you can arrange to meet people you know from SH. Doesn't have to be to play - just nice to have someone to go with.
I was still really nervous but within a few minutes of sitting and chatting with them everything became relaxed and they in turn introduced me to others in the club. After spending some time together I’d then found my feet to explore and meet others.
All the couples in Chams I met seemed to be very respectfull.
Go for it. No good having a fantasy if you don't do anything about it.
Friday x
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"A lot of holes in the desert, and a lot of problems are buried in those holes. But you gotta do it right. I mean, you gotta have the hole already dug before you show up with a package in the trunk. Otherwise, you're talking about a half-hour to forty-five minutes worth of digging. And who knows who's gonna come along in that time? Pretty soon, you gotta dig a few more holes. You could be there all fuckin' night"
Casino?
Here's mine. God there's so many I know by heart. This will be really easy for you Drew. I sense that you are a bit of a film buff like meself.
"One day the rains will come and wash all the scum off the streets"
Friday x
Im thinking about giving up vanilla dating. I feel bad as the ladies I date do seem to like me and want more than I am ready for. I just want to have fun. I dont want to be a scum bag type who misleads and hurt feelings. It also means I dont get any! Vanilla lady daters rarely sleep with a bloke they really like until he shows that he is interested in the same things they want. Catch 22.
