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Jewlnmart
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 54
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · Wiltshire
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Master of Sex
Quote by Dirtygirly
what has happened?
dont people respond to mail here(or on other sites even)?how are you supposed to find out if others are interested,when they cant even respond to mails you have is hard enough asking people if they would like to meet,.
how do you know if you have worded your mail right,what you wrote might come over a different way.
so please,it cant be that hard to string a few sentences together,even if it is in the negative
I'd guess you find out that people aren't interested by their lack of response. If they were interested then they probably would have responded.
There are a number of reasons for no response:
1. You aren't what they're looking for.
2. They're not interested.
3. If it's a couple then maybe only one half has read it and the other half is yet to read.
4. You didn't read their profile.
5. You sent a one liner fancy a shag message.
6. They haven't had time to respond.
7. They're not interested.
8. You are one of 15 messages and yours doesn't stand out.
That's just off the top of my head. I generally try and respond to everyone but if its fairly clear that the person hasn't bothered to read my profile then I wouldn't bother to respond to them either. I delete one line 'hi, how r u?' messages along with the 'fancy a shag' messages (yes, they do arrive!) and I also don't hold much interested in people who haven't bothered to complete their profile or add any photos. If someone doesn't put the effort into the 'selling themselves' part (in a non-monetary fashion) then what sort of effort are they going to put into a meet?
Whilst I understand the feeling that it's rude/bad mannered/ignorant not to reply, I've always felt a bit guilty about no responding but after being here for a while it becomes tedious responding to the same messages from different people.
You just have to delete, ignore and move on. :mrgreen:
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Master of Sex
Quote by sara2010
i think its a game of hide and seek.......I cliam 1 point..as just found
" last post wins " thread..in the commercial forum. back to searching
its now in the holidays forum ..... cummon sort it out
It's called enrichment. The same way zoos make it difficult for monkeys to get at their food.
Master of Sex
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel for the farmers but is this a good time for wage increases?
It's the same time as every year when discussions start on farm workers pay. As opening gambits go, more money and holiday seems a good starting point for negotiations from the workers point of view. No doubt the NFU reps will argue the opposite and we'll end up with the usual pay rise that's at, or around the rate of inflation.
