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JnBwelshcpl
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
Bisexual Male, 64
0 miles · Flintshire

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Sexlightened
hi.
we are looking for company Saturday night to unwind and enjoy the pleasure of wine & hopefully pleasure. we are looooking for a bi couple or bi male only.
JnB
Sexlightened
We are from north wales and find we have a swinging good time of it here, and yes there are quite a few swingers in north wales when you get to know them, there are a few from your area who use SH, On another note, a lot of cpls cpuld be just looking for cpls and there is a lot of single males out there, Be patient, use the forums go in chatrooms, get to know people and then SH could be your swinging world.
Good Luck in north wales.
J n B
Sexlightened
Ther's lots of good advice been passed on to you from SH members, but it comes down to... YOU are the only person who can judge when the time and place are right to tell her you are bi curious.
The advice about slowly bringing it into your sex life and fantasy sound a gentle way of sounding her out with out to much risk to you of her giving an out right no.
We both wish you the best and good luck in telling her.
J n B
Sexlightened
Looking for a get together with a bi cpl/bi fem/bi male tonight to get the week of to a fun start, lazy eve get together and see where it takes us.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by flidais-media
We have chatted to males who say they are bi and have bi male on their profile, even confirmed it by a phone call, have arranged a meet and chat gone well and had fun playing and still turns out when it comes down to it they only want to play with fem half of cpl.
We had one nice male who did play and say he was bi curious, he played and we got the feeling he was not into it, He was good enough to contact us and say he had fun and thank you, but bi male fun was not for him, which was a nice gesture and yes we still chat to him.
So its not always what is left out or put in a profile that you can go by, so is it a lottery what type of person you chat to or meet.
J n B

Are you just answering your own question here then? You were the one who originally asked why men put one thing on their profile and then say they are another :shock:
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
Carrying on the theme,
J n B
Sexlightened
Well come to think about it, dirtyest think i have had to among many was get inside a 1500 gallon mobile surry tank to replace float valves and unblock internal pipes, now that was smelly and dirty.
Glad we only had to do it the once,
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by rikkii
I would love to be considered for this If you want me then ill travel this evening early evening
Rik
Ps im bi curious and very bi curious at that

Thank you for the reply rikkii but do'nt you think a 186 miles is a bit far ( what your profile says is the distance to us) for some fun, we might not be worth it, lol
J n B
Sexlightened
We have chatted to males who say they are bi and have bi male on their profile, even confirmed it by a phone call, have arranged a meet and chat gone well and had fun playing and still turns out when it comes down to it they only want to play with fem half of cpl.
We had one nice male who did play and say he was bi curious, he played and we got the feeling he was not into it, He was good enough to contact us and say he had fun and thank you, but bi male fun was not for him, which was a nice gesture and yes we still chat to him.
So its not always what is left out or put in a profile that you can go by, so is it a lottery what type of person you chat to or meet.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by flidais-media

Does that mean he has a lot of hens in his house.
J n B
lol

Phew, that's a big cock Sarah wink
Sexlightened
Quote by johncrom
hi yes please let me know where would love to join you both

Thank you for taking the time to reply to our post, But your profile says you are str8 and married. Your advert says that all you want is other people's wife's and would make your day to have them.
Can we ask why are you replying to a post for bi males or bi cpl's when there is no mention any where that you are even bi curious.
J n B
Sexlightened
Hi all, thanks for all the pm's we had to our adds, met a few new friends through them, looking to meet more bi friends, We want some fun thurs eve 4th may, any bi people interested in having fun as well, we in north wales/ chester area,
J n B
Sexlightened
Why do males list on there profiles that they are looking for bi couples, str8 couples etc.
then in profile section about them selfs say they are str8, when you ask them why they say they are bi curious and always wanted to try,
Is it a male fantasy that they want to be bi or away of getting there leg over.
J n B
Sexlightened
We are up for some fun to start the week off, seeking to meet a well endowed Bi male 9" plus in the north west late tonight at ours. We will arrange contact details after tonight, fine if you are a single male even better if you are a bi cpl.
J n B
Sexlightened
Change of plans .
banghead :banghead: :banghead:
Kids have turned up for the afternoon. So will not now be going in to Chester.
But we now loooking to play tonight with a bi cpl or a bi male,
J n B
Sexlightened
Why is it that when you have some free time to enjoy, that it all falls apart on you,
Arrange to have some one come round to play and the kids roll up and decide to stay the night,
Go to a club and the car will not start.
Arrange to chat to some one on msn and server will not go in.
Is it just us or does it happen to any one else, whats happened to you to make you change plans at the last moment.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by Tramper

Who knows while you've been on here metting couples and fems, maybe she's been getting satisfied by someone at work or your best mate biggrin

wave
wink
innocent
Or maybe she has found a bi fem playmate and does not need you.
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Sexlightened
Quote by Tramper

Who knows while you've been on here metting couples and fems, maybe she's been getting satisfied by someone at work or your best mate biggrin

wave
wink
innocent
Or maybe she has found herself a bi fem to please her and does not need you.
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
Sexlightened
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
You meen you have been playing without her consent ? :shock:
Very very bad!, bet she will be very upset if she ever found out rolleyes
poor her sad
Shaz x

What you going to tell her if she wants to join you swinging when you bump into some one you been swinging with and it comes out in front of her.
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
J n B
Sexlightened
Hi Stokeboy, we were looking to meet local or chester based people, as we want to make new friends local to us,
J n B
Sexlightened
We having a day chilling out heading into chester for a drink, just wondering if anyone else fancied joining us this afternoon.
J n B
Sexlightened
hi,
As us women always love dressing up for our man.
but why do'nt men dress sexy for us women???
Sexlightened
We are a bi cpl seeking a meet fri 28th april with a bi male/ bi cpl at ours, like to meet up chat and take it from there.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Have had to cancel a club visit for tonight due to workmen coming to house, So instead we looking to have some late evening fun at ours,
Looking to meet up with a bi cpl/ bi fem cpl or a bi male for some fun. Interested pm us and lets chat,
J n B

am available tonight but unfortunatly i am not bi
Canyoufeelit, Can I just why have you replied to this when the couple have clearly stated what they are looking for - a bi male? You have also replied to another post which asking for couples only!
If the couples wanted a single straight male, they would have stated a single straight male. rolleyes
So far had ten males reply saying they are str8 and and ready to meet, Was what we were asking so hard to read.
J n B
Sexlightened
Have had to cancel a club visit for tonight due to workmen coming to house, So instead we looking to have some late evening fun at ours,
Looking to meet up with a bi cpl/ bi fem cpl or a bi male for some fun. Interested pm us and lets chat,
J n B
Sexlightened
What do you think of the new system of sending some one a wink if you like their profile.
We tend not to read them now and just delete, If people can not take the time and trouble to write a few words to you, why should we take the time to read there wink message to us or check out there profile.
Does it just help the desperate who send to every one in the hope some one will reply or is it to help cut out the one line, three or four word pm's.
What do you think of winks.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by flidais-media
And, sadly, we don't have any of us together...next time we find a 'third party' we shall have to get him/her to take a pic biggrin

Same here flidais-media.
Maybe we should get together and take a few photo's wink
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by Beamer121
Just wanted to know how the guys in this forum feel when they are with a partner who hates giving oral sex.

Maybe this message should be in the cafe.
J n B
Sexlightened
We are looking for some fun tonight or over the weekend with a bi fem cpl or a bi male, in the north wales/chester/north west area.
Like to meet up for a chat and see where it takes us.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by flidais-media
We are going to Chams for bi night on Monday 24th, maybe say 'Hello' ? biggrin
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Hi Flidais-Media, we should be going to chams as well on monday night looking forward to meeting up with you there.
J n B
Sexlightened
Quote by PoloLady
whether new or experienced - the best club will depend on what you are looking for.

PoloLady correct in what she posted, also a lot of clubs have couples only nights, if you want to avoid being followed around by single males.
J n B