Thanks all
Its nice to know there are so many nice people out there.
I may call in from time to time - this place really isn't just about sex and I forgot that (sorry!!)
Thank you all again for being so great.
Katy
Hi there guys and gals
Just logging in one last time to say goodbye.
Griff and I have split up. That shouldn't be a surprise to those who read my last thread.
I am still totally gutted but was expecting it. He seems to have gone back to his ex wife (mother of his two children) and I cant really be upset with that as I really think families should be together. However it leaves me with a broken heart and two years of memories to sit and mope about.
Griff was the only reason I got back into swinging, I had done it before but had stopped as my sex drive went into hibernation. Griff woke up both my sex drive and my whole life. At the moment I cant even bring myself to touch myself let alone touch anyone else sexually so the swinging sceen is definately out.
As we work together we have decided to be very adult about it and stay friends which is both a good and bad thing. I cant imagine him not being in my life but everytime I have to talk to him my heart shatters into even smaller pieces.
Since we broke up I haven't been able to keep food down - its a great way to lose weight but now I have everyone in work assuming I am pregnant and wondering who the daddy is!! (We kept our relationship quiet as it is kind of frowned apon in work to date collegues). I may head to the doctors soon about it but I don't partiually want them to just prescribe me tablets saying I am depressed I would rather work through it myself - I would ask for suggestions but I am not sure I will log on to check for replies.
I just want finish off by saying a big thank you to all of you. For the time I have been on these boards I have had allot of support and allot of laughs. I will miss you all.
Bye bye
Katy
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Trouble is its kind of open one sided.
The most I do is chat on forums or msn to people he is the one who picks people up in clubs. Up til now he has left the whole swinging thing for me to organise. Although its our fantasy to have someone with us its his fantasy for me to organise it. So I am confuesed with what I found
I guess we have lots to talk about. I shall drag him off tomorrow and chat to him about it. Maybe we can work something out.
I have made our relationship sound terrible - its not really I guess I am just a bit down at the moment
Katy
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Its a account.
He asked me to set it up so he could MSN but he has only talked to me on it once in 3 months.
We talked about the email address 2 weeks ago as I was teasing him that I never got emails from it so I guessed he hardly used it and he should access it before it got cluttered with junk emails.
He told me then to go in and do it but I declined telling him to do it himself. So he has given me permission to look I just feel bad about looking because I always trusted that I didn't have to look (if that makes sense)
And if he isn't trying to hide this new swinging partner why hasn't he registered on this site with her? Would it be because he knows I go on this site so try and sort out our fantasy??
I think I will ask him tomorrow. I didn't think about the whole no other woman thing.
It is open but we ALWAYS tell about what we are doing whether it is just chatting on forums or actually pulling someone in a club.
Katy
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Postie take deep breaths the panicy feeling will go!!!! I get that every day when I get told I have to go out but thats normally because it is stupid o'clock in the morning and I have to go to work - don't they understand that work spoils my social life!!!!!
Katyxx
Ahhhhhh poor thing.
I know how you feel I am home alone all weekend; I thought I would log on for some company and find the place half dead!!
Please come back everyone!!!!!
Katy
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Great idea John
I dont think I could be an angel though Im not good enough to be one!
Is there a Angel training scheme or Apprentice Angel type thing to help aspiring angels get qualified for their wings? Sign me up if there is!
Failing that I will just settle for seeing if I can corupt an angel!! It could be a test before they attain full angelhood! Any angels want to put themselves in temtations way feel free to get in touch!
Katy
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Hi bhd1976 the shop in Cardiff is called Chrome and the guys name is Ed. He is an absolute angel, he talked to me several times in the month before I finally had mine done, he is so patient with people. I would reccomend anyone going.
Mine healed fine and hasnt reallyhad any problems. The only thing that surprised me was it gets more sensitive and sometimes slightly crusty during my period (I had it done months ago and it still does this). The crustyness isnt too bad I can live with it but the sensitive bit is really distracting. Mix that with cold or some rude thoughts and I moan! Which is embaressing in meetings!
I checked with Ed about the crusty part and he said it was usual in females and that we heal slower during menstration.
Any girlies out there notice the same thing or am I wierd?
Katy
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Hi babe
Nice to see you both back. I was getting worried about you!!!
Nearly scrolled past the new user name though, thankfully my brain thought it seemed vaguely familiar though!
Missed both of you you both kept me on your msn list!
Well done for taking the time out you needed to work out what you wanted.
Catch you around!
Katy
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Griff has a Hayabusa
I love riding it with him, faster the better!!!!
Katy
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28
I dont think age is an issue - its the person themselves that really counts.
Katy
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Went to work, couldn't reach parts of my back to put sun screen asked the guys I work with to do it
The reaction was ...............................................
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........................................................................... they freaked out.
None of them would One said his wife would kill him, One said sorry but he really couldn't do it!! In total I asked 4 men (I dont work with any girls) before one finally did it and then it was at arms length and so quick it was in no way rubbed in properly.
I found the behaviour very strange. Anyone agree or am I missing something??
On the plus side I decided that it was too nice and found a secluded place (benefits of working in 1500 acres of wood and grass land) and sun bathed topless all day!! No I didn't burn my boobs - I was careful to put sun block on them!!
Katy
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You can buyt their album online. Its totally hilarious but don't play it when kids are around. Or your mum!!
My fav song on it is a piss take of When you say nothing at all but changed to When you wear nothing at all. Its about pulling a girl and as you undress her you realise that with all the products around to make you look good (padded push up bras, tights that hold in the fat etc etc) that people naked really can look like shit!!
Katy
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Hi
I found the rabbit too juddery for me when I first got into sex toys. So bought simpler one got used to that then progressed to the rabbit!!
Ann Summers stuff is cheap and breaks easily try other places. I use a local sex shop - far better range and better made too.
Katy
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Well thats always nice!!!!
Gotta work in the sun again in about 5 mins - anyone close enough to apply my sun screen (see learned lesson!!)
Katy
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Hmmmm maybe i went about this the wrong way.
Since people seem so keen it would be more of a punishment not to let him be my slave. So the rest of you who have offered can make an orderly cue while he stands in a corner and faces the wall!
Katy
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Well I think that the person who I was talking to till last night and who left me so turned on I couldnt sleep should be made to be my slave and apply my aloe gel!!
It is his fault I was so tired that I fell asleep in the sun! (not including the presentation I had to write that doesnt count) He shouldnt be so good at getting me worked up!
So you know who you are. Come take your punishment and pamper me!!!
Katy
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Thanks guys.
I have had a cool bath with lavender oil then rubbed aloe gel everywhere I could reach!
Just curled up trying to get rid of the headache now.
All I feel like is for someone to come and look after me and make it go away! Im being such a wimp!
Katy
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ops: It turns out I was allergic to the antibiotics and was throwing up all the time when taking tem, I had to have time off work and had to come up with an excuse to tell my boss for my return from sick leave interview.
- I looked in my boyfriends email.
:D :D