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Phoenix
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 68
0 miles · Staffordshire

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Sorry for raising an old thread.
Those in the know will understand.
I would like to thank all who have sent messages through Bumpkin to DD or are in direct contact with her. I hope they were of some solice to her.
Phoenix
If anyone fancies a "night away" or needs somewhere for a meet, I have two free hotel rooms available.
These are prepay rooms that are non refundable, so I am offering them free to anyone who may want to use them.
One is tomorrow, saturday 3rd at Talke, Stoke.
Other is Sunday 11th March at Haydock, St Helens Merseyside.
PM me if you want one.
Best Wishes you two. You had my blessing at Bognor...
Good luck and and a long and happy life together.
Quote by PoloLady
So next time ladies, if you want your tit photographed, bring along a suckling baby and have the munch in scotland, as it is perfectly legal to feed a baby in a public place .
Last comment.

and what a mature comment to end on rolleyes
It is a valid , although "tounge in cheek" comment. Breast feeding a baby is not considered a sexual act in most civilised countries of the world (England has declined at the moment, but turns a blind eye). So, why should flashing boobs at an adult party be considered a sexual act ?.
As for "Wake up" Jags, this was and is intended in the "look around and take a broader view". You seemed to be on a one way path with no deviation, in self preservation mode. A la Maggy Thatcher, "the lady is not for turning".
I agree that actual sex acts as described in law should not be allowed but I also do not agree that flashing a breast or arse is liable to create an avalance of sexual abuse. It doesn't happen at commercially organised adult theme nights, where equal, if not more, flashing takes place. It rarely happens at private adult parties. If someone is going to partake in a sexaul act, they are going to do it despite antics around them. I wasn't at NW, so the "pervecam" had no influence over what went on. So why involve such a popular idea and thread in this mud fight.
I do firmly believe that the mods, taking the stance that "flashing" posed for a photograph and not done willy nilly, is considered a sexual act, is one step too far over the border.
If you were a political party, I wouldn't be voting for you again. Remember Maggy.
EDIT: Sercher, no problem. The discussion took a different route than you intended. No fault of yours at all.
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Hiya
I just wondered if there are many coeliacs or DH sufferers in the swinging community, to anyone not familiar with these health probs they are both forms of gluten intollerance.
As a sufferer myself it would be interesting to know that there are others in a similar situation in the community
r1rider

As in all forms of life, I am sure there are. I suffer with GORD on occasions but it isn't a chat up line.
Quote by Huxley Pig
Ok if I accept all thats said here by the "moral majority".........what has this got to do with some people having fun guessing jigsaws taken at a munch that has no complaints levied against it I think a very wide brush is being used if it manages to tar that with the same stroke.

Ok, I was not going to comment anymore but I will just once more with some figures to compliment the comment above, relating to the Who's Who thread.
675,621 members, 7238 views on thread, 56 Photos taken (no complaints), 3 requesting clarification, 2 valid complaints, 2 I wasn't there but want to complain anyway coz I feel like it.
Objection upheld & thread deleted. :shock:
I of course cannot comment on any PM complaints, so I may stand corrected on the number of complaints.
Thanks for the PM's btw
Quote by Jags
think the shows were the twats indulging in oral sex in the middle of a Munch, or perhaps the two women snogging and groping each other in the middle of a Munch. Right??

OK, if that's the case, then it is an overt sexual act and is considered play. I agree.
But I still take a stand over a bit of relatively harmless "flashing" that has been turned in to the same as banning all hand guns because of Dunblane.
Sport gun owners now have to travel to Europe to shoot and the Olympics cannot have shooting in the schedule of events in the UK. Has it stopped the use of guns in the, just look at the recent teen killings in London. Ludicrous.
Over compensation, which I believe the classification of a bit of flashing at a munch as an overt sexual act is also over compensation.
So next time ladies, if you want your tit photographed, bring along a suckling baby and have the munch in scotland, as it is perfectly legal to feed a baby in a public place .
Last comment.
Offensive :shock: , I havn't sworn at you yet.
Appologies to anyone who was waiting to see their picture or would like a copy of those already shown now the thread has been deleted, PM me with the name that was on the badge and I'll send it to you. I'm sure you don't think it was a sexual act. rolleyes
Quote by Jags
still isn't that clear, is flashing tits , stocking tops, and arses a sexual act...
Otherwise, I'll restart the thraed, there atre lots of pics left.

And if you restart it then it will be redeleted.
That's not what is said here..
Quote by st3v3
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
And that shouldn't break any rules if people act in an adult way and don't go over the top.
In My Opinion the showsput on broke the rules, as stated pretty much by everyone.
Wake up.
Again I ask where is the sexual act in the pics. I think you are taking a step too far backwards.
As for what happened at Vicky's do, I do not know about. It sounds like there was an overt sexual act, which I agree should not be.
Quote by Phoenix
what do you mean clarify?
im saying i agree with what you are saying

Sorry it's moving too fast and didn't grasp your comment.
Quote by jags
Then perhaps you could take the time to read the entire thread - otherwise it's just tedious saying it all again. Anyway, no point in a post mortem as the thread has been buried with due ceremony and angst.

I have, and it still isn't that clear, is flashing tits , stocking tops, and arses a sexual act...
Otherwise, I'll restart the thraed, there atre lots of pics left.
Quote by essex34m
what do you mean clarify?
im saying i agree with what you are saying

Sorry it's moving too fast and didn't grasp your comment.
Quote by st3v3
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
And that shouldn't break any rules if people act in an adult way and don't go over the top.
In My Opinion the shows put on broke the rules, as stated pretty much by everyone.
So, was the who's who thread in contravention of the rules...
I'm making a stance here.
Quote by Jags
MY utter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.

Still not clear what is inappropriate, in relation to the pulled thread.
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Well, I am thoroughly disgusted and disillusioned with the pulling of the who's who thread.
It's just like the "Moulin Rouge". A knee jerk reaction based upon a grey rule as to what is and what is not a sexual act and a few moans (NOTE, a few.)
If 7500 views of a thread isn't an indication of it's popularity, then I'll eat my hat. Such a thread is liable to do more for the popularity of a site than anything.
I agree rules state, no play, and if anyone can show me where "play" was photo'd, then I'll hold up my hands. There was no play in any photo of the Wakefield thread.
Good god, there is equal sexuality on page three of the Sun and Sport as was shown in the thread.
I only know the thread I started and cannot comment on any other thread.
Things move on and times change, shall we all go back to Victorian ethics or are we at the forefront of sexual liberation.
Jesus, wake up, take a walk down the front in Ibiza or any other holiday hotspot and you will see more than the pics I took.
I'm so disheartened that a site supposed to promote a lifestyle of a sexual nature has to behave like a bunch of Mary Whitehouses on what were perfectly innocious pictures for adults.
So, are you going to ban people from munches from the popular pastime of shirt and clothes swapping ?? This took place at Nottingham, without any pictures being taken.. is that a sexual act ??
Geez.

cant see a lot wrong with that tbh
Clarify
Well, I am thoroughly disgusted and disillusioned with the pulling of the who's who thread.
It's just like the "Moulin Rouge". A knee jerk reaction based upon a grey rule as to what is and what is not a sexual act and a few moans (NOTE, a few.)
If 7500 views of a thread isn't an indication of it's popularity, then I'll eat my hat. Such a thread is liable to do more for the popularity of a site than anything.
I agree rules state, no play, and if anyone can show me where "play" was photo'd, then I'll hold up my hands. There was no play in any photo of the Wakefield thread.
Good god, there is equal sexuality on page three of the Sun and Sport as was shown in the thread.
I only know the thread I started and cannot comment on any other thread.
Things move on and times change, shall we all go back to Victorian ethics or are we at the forefront of sexual liberation.
Jesus, wake up, take a walk down the front in Ibiza or any other holiday hotspot and you will see more than the pics I took.
I'm so disheartened that a site supposed to promote a lifestyle of a sexual nature has to behave like a bunch of Mary Whitehouses on what were perfectly innocious pictures for adults.
So, are you going to ban people from munches from the popular pastime of shirt and clothes swapping ?? This took place at Nottingham, without any pictures being taken.. is that a sexual act ??
Geez.
When your there, see if you can locate my laptop...
It was nicked out of my luggage at Kota Kinabalu airport on business trip there last year.
Oh, forgot, Hello Teppic, and, errrm, goodbye again I suppose.
You know, swinging is a conspiracy, we're really not here at all and a figment of our imaginations and happily "play" with holograms while the women wear slinky underwear to hide the fact they really scorpions and sting and devour each guy they shag....
Am I really here dunno maybe I'm just a few bits & bytes made up by the CIA confused
The truth is, we are really quite normal.... and the rest of the vanilla world is the conspiracy cool
Not a place I'd like to see , but a thing....
My Ex's grave... years before me mad
any cheap hit men about
The reason for no reviews on here is becauise of a dispute between the site owners and the owners of Utopia.
It is still open but as Deveindelight says above, the prices are quite high on Fri/Sat in comparison to other localish clubs.
Sorry peeps, somethings cropped up and I can't make it now. Have a good time.
Whoever says emotions don't come in to swinging is telling porky's.
Once you start getting emotional attachments you have to play a different game...
Quote by jaymar
**In edit... on the news it has just said she died of a drug overdose just months after her 20 yr old son died of the same. She leaves a little baby girl**

I wouldn't have said she had all her marbles for the past few years....
Life is only precious if you life it.........
Quote by winchwench
I've met a few single females (tes they do really exist) surprised :o At their place and that being on the first time meet also!!!

That really scares me! I do hope they got & confirmed your address first somehow :shock:Thank fluck you're not a nutter wink
Just makes it difficult for the nice guys, this paranoia brought on by the odd chancers and bullies.
One of the problems of tying up with someone with a username like "bigcock4u" and 2 posts to their credit rolleyes
I did hypnosis to give up smoking. Chose one that said if it did not work on first session, second, third & fourth sessions free.
Central city address and two hours per session, cost £300.
Gave up after first session but still took a lot of will power. 40 cigs a day one and zero the next.
The ex tried but did not use any willpower. 20 cigs and 6 nicotine patches a day, expected it to work like magic with no input from her rolleyes
bit like sex with her really lol
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I think the cornflake is 23 years old!!
And steveg_nw posted as well :shock:
kiss

23!! will do me sarah..... I wuv you! :kiss:
steveg-nw posted in his current state of shock!! I have a very sparkly thing on the 3rd finger left hand ... and am being referred to as "the be-trothed" :shock:
Cant wait to flash it about next weekend :giggle:
Mike ........ "Tack" u sexy little sausage sarnie with brown sauce :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Oh, wow, double celebration...
Do you know that this is the first day of the rest of your life :shock:
Best wishes on top of the happy birthday :thumbup:
The servers need syncronising.. annoying to see a reply before the question has been asked.
such as
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/109002.html
Quote by varca
Not easy is it this love thing rolleyes That's why I am steering well clear of it from now on!

I have difficulty understanding the "steering clear of love" thing because of the fear of getting hurt. I know it's a personal thing, but I would sooner give it another shot and take the chances than spend life alone.