HLB you sound a lot like me and what I like sometimes. I wonder sometimes whether is it roleplaying or being sub. Or maybe as POLO says - I am just being greedy. But I often want to be totally submissive. TO be told what to do. Tying up sometimes comes into it - but not always. It is that "loss of control" thing, but knowing that you can trust your partner too. I have not yet met someone who can totally understand that. To say, for example, "I want you to suck me now" etc. It takes all "responsiblity" away from you and it is something I so want to explore! But without going into a sub/dom relationship it seems virtually impossible to find. Well for me anyway!
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Quote by Jags
GRIEF... it's an invasion of oldie regulars..
I had a very bad hangover this morning so I thought I'd pop into the GFZ for a coffee and see if anyone could russle up a piece of toast with runny eggs and non bacon, but I didn't make it. The sight of Wilma and Fred in the place stopped me dead in my tracks!:shock: Then I saw they made DaveJ a mod and I burst something laughing
:lol: I thought it best to beat a hasty retreat!
Quote by Jags
And how are the lovely Mr & Mrs R?
Somehow not suffering the hangover I am. B*stards!!
Big snogs back to you
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Hi folks
Ok - so I know politics and sex should never mix but........
My homeland is in a very bad state at the moment. If you have missed what has been going on you can't be blamed becuase there is such a huge crack down on reporting coming out of there - but things are VERY VERY bad. Last time I spoke to my mum she sounded pretty desperate. People are starting to commit suicide because they can't afford to eat. I just sent my mother some sugar FFS! Lord know if it will ever get to her. Some things do - most don't. I can't blame those who steal it - they are all starving. Now opposition party members are being badly beaten up. The latest was on his way to Brussels where he could've spoken about what is going on. He never made it to Brussels and is in hospital now fighting for his life.
So... the reason for this post. Ending tomorrow is a petition that is going to be handed to South African and European parliaments. After a long time of writing to any minister I could I have to say that the only ones who appear to be committed to doing anything are the MEPs - so, for once, the European Parliament could just prove its worth. Please, please please, sign the petition at
PLEASE!! Lets see if the swingers can help them reach their target of 35,000 tonight!
Post here when you've signed and keep this post to the front page at least till midnight! We're so close!
aRSexx :color:
Ok - so I know politics and sex should never mix but........
My homeland is in a very bad state at the moment. If you have missed what has been going on you can't be blamed becuase there is such a huge crack down on reporting coming out of there - but things are VERY VERY bad. Last time I spoke to my mum she sounded pretty desperate. People are starting to commit suicide because they can't afford to eat. I just sent my mother some sugar FFS! Lord know if it will ever get to her. Some things do - most don't. I can't blame those who steal it - they are all starving. Now opposition party members are being badly beaten up. The latest was on his way to Brussels where he could've spoken about what is going on. He never made it to Brussels and is in hospital now fighting for his life.
So... the reason for this post. Ending tomorrow is a petition that is going to be handed to South African and European parliaments. After a long time of writing to any minister I could I have to say that the only ones who appear to be committed to doing anything are the MEPs - so, for once, the European Parliament could just prove its worth. Please, please please, sign the petition at
PLEASE!! Lets see if the swingers can help them reach their target of 35,000 tonight!
Post here when you've signed and keep this post to the front page at least till midnight! We're so close!
aRSexx :color:
Quote by LadyFeeBee
In Africa flies lay eggs on the clothes when they are out to dry. Ironing kills the eggs so you iron everything. If you don't the eggs can hatch into maggots, and when they are in places like bra straps the warmest place they find to burrow is into your skin!
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I think I preferred it when I didn't know that story and just thought you were weird :undecided:
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And they especially like burrowing into belly buttons :twisted: :twisted:
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Quote by LadyFeeBee
Thats not me! I'm shy I am!!
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:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Choke! Yeah sure!
This from the person who, straight at the time, turned to me pre-munch and said "oh just before we go" and snogged me (and lovely it was!). Made me go all shy!
Shy my arse young lady!!!! :wink:
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Quote by LadyFeeBee
Kit and Kat!
I miss them :cry:
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They are absolutely fine! Sexy and cheeky as ever!
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Well next time you see them please give Kit a great big snog from me and tell chicken legs I do actually miss him. Don't know why!
And remind them that it is my 40th next year (not this year like they bluddy well thought
) so they better not have "other arrangements" - and you neither! 'cos you are coming down souf or there will be trouble! :wink: RSxx :color:
I was about to say " I don't know how to flirt", then I did the test and it said I was a Natural Flirt
"Believe it or not, you're a really effective flirt.
And you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting.
Your attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt.
And the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!"
See - I knew I didn't know how to flirt!
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"Believe it or not, you're a really effective flirt.
And you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting.
Your attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt.
And the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!"
See - I knew I didn't know how to flirt!
RSxx :color:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Tea towels have to be folded and ironed length ways. :shock:
You iron tea towels??!!!!
I iron my underwear
, including my bra straps. 
ops: (I also iron tea towels, towels, socks.....)
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You need therapy my dear
:lol: Okay - so best I explain why! In Africa flies lay eggs on the clothes when they are out to dry. Ironing kills the eggs so you iron everything. If you don't the eggs can hatch into maggots, and when they are in places like bra straps the warmest place they find to burrow is into your skin! Well that's what my mum told me anyway :oops: . And that's a habit I now just can't get out of. Besides - I hate the way bra straps go all curly and twist. Ironign them keeps them straight. Ahem. That's my story and I'm sticking to it! :smile2:
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Oh yes - I soooo remember that first munch. I was very nervous and as I hadn't been on the site that long I just wasn't sure what to expect. But everyone looked after me so well 
, especially Steve_NW who had the dubious honour of escorting me there. I do seem to remember spending most of the evening standing on the stairs between levels in the pub - where I was a prime target for Wilma to grab and snog :lol: .
Second one was much easier - besides which that one gave me the chance to meet the lovely Fee and Laird :twisted: . And then towing Marcuso out of the hotel car park the next day :lol: . Munch number 3 - the time to meet more people who remain good friends to this - they all have their very own memories, and I recommend them to all.
Don't get the chance to go to them anymore - but do miss them and always know just how much fun is being had when I see them mentioned.
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, especially Steve_NW who had the dubious honour of escorting me there. I do seem to remember spending most of the evening standing on the stairs between levels in the pub - where I was a prime target for Wilma to grab and snog :lol: . Second one was much easier - besides which that one gave me the chance to meet the lovely Fee and Laird
:twisted: . And then towing Marcuso out of the hotel car park the next day :lol: . Munch number 3 - the time to meet more people who remain good friends to this - they all have their very own memories, and I recommend them to all.Don't get the chance to go to them anymore - but do miss them and always know just how much fun is being had when I see them mentioned.
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Quote by Kiss
I am probably going to get flamed for this - but I am sorry - I found your thread title a bit offensive. A big black bull? That's beastiality. A black man's cock - different story.
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Bull is also sometimes used as a term for a man that is involved within cuckold relationships.
Thanks for clarifying that for me Kiss. I wasn't aware of that and appreicate you explaining it.
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:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: Quote by Kiss
You can be totally honest with somebody whilst also trying to take their feelings into consideration. But sometimes the truth hurts and you can't escape that.
I would always prefer to know where I stand, what somebody thinks, what the prefer etc rahter than try to second-guess them. Even if I don't want to hear it.
Exactly what Kiss said. There are ways of saying things! But yes - I prefer people to be up front with me becuase often what my mind can "assume" in second guessing is a lot worse than what I would be told outright. I always like to know where I stand. Makes life a hell of a lot easier.
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Quote by simonnw
2) Kick anyone (non-premium members) that hasn’t been online for 1 month, they are no longer interested, and they wont pay.
Kill me now!!
So does the fact that I don't play make me unworthy of being on the site? The fact that I work my butt off during the summer and can't even find time to see my friends let alone log on. Does that me make me unworthy of being on the site?
I'd really be interested to know
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