I think that maybe she didn't know he was married at the beginning. OFTEN married men pretend they are single when they get into an extra-marrital relationship. Then, when the girl is hooked, and thinks she's in love it will be difficult for her to get out of the relationship.
I believe it's often the case that the married man is to blame. Affairs mean Lies, and they can lie well!
Redvelvet <-- speaking from experience.
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Is this venture into swinging about retaliation? If she can then you can? If your relationship is so solid then why do you want to keep it hush? Doesn't sound too healthy either way. Forgive me if I'm wrong.Hi Roger,
I don't see anything wrong in your email at all. Or your picture. The only thing I would say is that maybe you could wear something different in your photo other than a dressing gown (if that's what it is). That's the only thing I can say really, your response sounded nice and if a guy was what I was looking for then I'd consider yours.
I don't see anything wrong in your email at all. Or your picture. The only thing I would say is that maybe you could wear something different in your photo other than a dressing gown (if that's what it is). That's the only thing I can say really, your response sounded nice and if a guy was what I was looking for then I'd consider yours.
I am a naturist and like to frequent naturist clubs and the like. Naturism is spoiled somewhat in my view by the people who cannot view it in it's true context, but who want to cheapen it by viewing it as just another element of sex.
I'd like to keep naturism innocent. I can't go to clubs and saunas without being perved on and followed by people wanting sex.
Naturism is not a religion though.. I just like to hang out just like I would in any other club or establishment, but naked!
I think what you're looking for is a swinging club or party. There are plenty of those in the southeast. Check the list SH provide. There is a nudist spa in brighton where a little action is allowed behind closed doors. (Bristol Gardens Health Spa) But it certainly isn't a rule that anything goes, and I for one would like to keep it that way.
I'd like to keep naturism innocent. I can't go to clubs and saunas without being perved on and followed by people wanting sex.
Naturism is not a religion though.. I just like to hang out just like I would in any other club or establishment, but naked!
I think what you're looking for is a swinging club or party. There are plenty of those in the southeast. Check the list SH provide. There is a nudist spa in brighton where a little action is allowed behind closed doors. (Bristol Gardens Health Spa) But it certainly isn't a rule that anything goes, and I for one would like to keep it that way.
Thank you all for your advice. I guess the bottom line is.. if it aint broke, don't fix it. I love food, and because of that I'm big. I like being big, (tucks into a late night eclair) so all is well.
I guess rather than convince folk that big is beautiful we should convince each other... or rather - tell each other... that we are all beautiful no matter what we look like. I wish everyone could be happy with their bodies as I am of mine. (That includes you Fred
)
I guess rather than convince folk that big is beautiful we should convince each other... or rather - tell each other... that we are all beautiful no matter what we look like. I wish everyone could be happy with their bodies as I am of mine. (That includes you Fred
) 
To diet or not to diet?
I am fat. I like being fat. At least I thought I did...
(fat is good because I am warm and curvy and people like to hug me. Also, I can sit comfortably on any type of surface for a long time without getting a sore arse.) :shock:
... Perhaps I don't! Perhaps I say I do because I'm too lazy to do anything about it...
(thin is good because all clothes fit and the general consensus in society says that thin is healthy and beautiful.)
The question is, would I be happier thin? Maybe, but I've never been thin, so I wouldn't know. It also seems rather hard work to find out. I can't make everyone else think that fat is good, so perhaps it's better to conform after all. :doh:
Should RedVelvet diet for summer? :confused2:
I am fat. I like being fat. At least I thought I did...
(fat is good because I am warm and curvy and people like to hug me. Also, I can sit comfortably on any type of surface for a long time without getting a sore arse.) :shock:
... Perhaps I don't! Perhaps I say I do because I'm too lazy to do anything about it...
(thin is good because all clothes fit and the general consensus in society says that thin is healthy and beautiful.)
The question is, would I be happier thin? Maybe, but I've never been thin, so I wouldn't know. It also seems rather hard work to find out. I can't make everyone else think that fat is good, so perhaps it's better to conform after all. :doh:
Should RedVelvet diet for summer? :confused2:
The limit on my PC ablilities is being able to type. That's it. I keep on recieving these mailerdaemon returned thingies in my inbox which leads me to suspect that perhaps I am the one sending the viruses. But, my anti-virus shows that I have none - so maybe it's aol playing tricks. 
I need help too!
Someone... please... ?
I need help too!
Someone... please... ?
Hi Venus,
I have worked in the adult industry and I will just advise you to be careful. I believe that to not be mentally affected in any way you've got to have a very very strong mind, it's not something anyone can do, and although it's relatively 'easy' money (and by that I mean quick to get) it can be very hard on you too. And remember, there is no such thing as easy money. It pays well because it can have consequences. If you want advice or help then you're welcome to PM me.
:rose:
I have worked in the adult industry and I will just advise you to be careful. I believe that to not be mentally affected in any way you've got to have a very very strong mind, it's not something anyone can do, and although it's relatively 'easy' money (and by that I mean quick to get) it can be very hard on you too. And remember, there is no such thing as easy money. It pays well because it can have consequences. If you want advice or help then you're welcome to PM me.
:rose:
I don't know if we get MORE fun.. But we are certainly capable of having some! I think it depends on a persons outlook. Big folk and skinny folk can have hang ups about their appearance... being embarrassed doesn't help someone to have a good time. As long as we're big (or skinny) confident, and proud with our bodies we can all have fun together.
:rose:
:rose:
I have spent a while thinking of what to say in response to this thread, but all I have to say in short is that the place would not be the same without you Fred.
The times have certainly changed, as we all know, but I think if we're all patient, VERY patient then the bad winds will eventually blow away. The influx of bad publicity and newbies that we Dont want will soon realise what this site is actually about and then take themselves elsewear. I am sure of it.
So, to all the regs, nice newbies (of which there are many... Redvelvet takes a bow!) and long suffering mods, lets just please stick together and weather this out.
The times have certainly changed, as we all know, but I think if we're all patient, VERY patient then the bad winds will eventually blow away. The influx of bad publicity and newbies that we Dont want will soon realise what this site is actually about and then take themselves elsewear. I am sure of it.
So, to all the regs, nice newbies (of which there are many... Redvelvet takes a bow!) and long suffering mods, lets just please stick together and weather this out.
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I has for last few months surprised me that this place has stayed essentially British, I assume that the rest of the world can access the sit e but they clearly choose not too
any thoughts anyone as to why they dont ... after all its a freebie
Gmanxxxx
could be because of this....
''For everyone who is over 18 years of age, from the UK, and genuinely interested in swinging:-
Genuine UK swingers enter Swinging Heaven here else
PLEASE LEAVE NOW ''
That could be it I think
Well, this is an easy one.. I'm as materialistic as they come!
I indulge myself as often as I can. The problem is, when you indulge so frequently the little things give you less and less pleasure.
1) Beauty products (I'm still saving up for that £1000 fruits de la mer!)
2) Hair. I sympathise with you BlueEyes, a good hairdresser is hard to find!
3) Manicures and pedicures. The problem with them is you need them every two weeks... so they become not a luxury but a basic necessity.
4) Tanning and spas. See above.
5) Shoes. Strangely... not clothes (?) But there is exquisite pleasure in purchasing a red stilletto.
But does anyone agree with me that there is more pleasure in purchasing than there is in owning? What is better than coming home laden with shopping bags!
I indulge myself as often as I can. The problem is, when you indulge so frequently the little things give you less and less pleasure.
1) Beauty products (I'm still saving up for that £1000 fruits de la mer!)
2) Hair. I sympathise with you BlueEyes, a good hairdresser is hard to find!
3) Manicures and pedicures. The problem with them is you need them every two weeks... so they become not a luxury but a basic necessity.
4) Tanning and spas. See above.
5) Shoes. Strangely... not clothes (?) But there is exquisite pleasure in purchasing a red stilletto.
But does anyone agree with me that there is more pleasure in purchasing than there is in owning? What is better than coming home laden with shopping bags!
