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Samndave
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Straight Male, 52
UK

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Hi curvynjack
can you put us down as a provisional because Dave hasn't had his duty watch list yet...
but we would love to come ages since we last saw you all
Sam xxxx
Could I just ask of those people that have replied in this thread, how many actually pay to use this site as i know there were free places offered a little while back...and only stay here because it is free!!! And would you move on if you had to start paying??
Dave and I are paying members here and although there are free sites and we are members on them there aren't actually that many that offer a full package for free!!
SH is a brilliant site and we do enjoy certain aspects of it and think this might be the only site we would pay for..
I think you are right with the clubs thing Fabio, as we are in plymouth not much about around here for us, a new one has just opened and we are going to try it out, but not going to get the new blinds for the lounge this month now lol x
But when we lived up the line we used to go to chams at least once a month but to go there now means a tank of fuel and hotel room and admission you are talking the best part of £150 which we just can't afford probably like many others, especially coming up to the most expensive time of year, not going to say what it is for fear of abuse biggrin :D but we all now what i mean :D
Dave and I are on none paying sites as well...
But as an interest is swinging in general expensive?
travelling for meets, meeting for drinks to get to know someone?
we enjoy what we do, and always find the money to do so, but probably at the expense of something else...
Are you cutting down on the amount of swinging sites you are members on because of the credit crunch???
Dave and i are on various different sites but over the last couple of weeks 2 have come up for renewal but we haven't been able to afford the £75 each required for renewal and have gone on to basic memebership...
Has the credit crunch affected others in this way? because as much as we love the sites and this way of life we have to be able to heat the house first!
Has swinging become an expensive hobby???
Sam xxx
Good god what was this stupid woman thinking, I can understand her being upset with the fact her son was bullied and I know bullies desevere to be punished, but is it punishable by death???
I know what it is like to be teased for being fat unfortuately it is something I have always been, but we need to educate our children to accept everyone no matter what their differences may be!
I just thank god one of the things we have not inherited from the yanks is their gun culture and hopefully we never will!!
Sam x
Quote by MikeNorth
An alternative would be to call the NSPCC helpline:

And yes, I agree with the others, don't ignore the matter.

I work with children and a few years ago went on a course and to be honest the NSPCC didn't get a good rep, the person on the course told us that all that happens when you phone their helplines with your concerns they make a note and just pass them on to an over stretched social services, so my advice is just go straight to the social services...
Quote by lyns
I think the film was "cruel intentions"
starred George Clooney and Cathrine Zeta Jones, i just thought it had to get better and if anything got worse...
but must say there have been loads of films that have been watched thinking they will get better only to find they have finished and they didn't get better lol lol xx

I don't think they were in cruel intentions hun!. I think the film you mean is called Intolerable cruelty.
Thank you lyns that was the one and thats what it felt like watching it lol
Sorry but that was awful I only lasted 33 seconds and that was 30 seconds to long x
I think the film was "cruel intentions"
starred George Clooney and Cathrine Zeta Jones, i just thought it had to get better and if anything got worse...
but must say there have been loads of films that have been watched thinking they will get better only to find they have finished and they didn't get better lol lol xx
Only 1 I can think of just now is
Tom Jones " the green, green grass of home"
when you sit and listen really brings a tear to the eye
Sam x
Just a loverly bottle of white wine, don't drink spirits...
Sam x
Dave knows all my passwords, pin numbers etc and I know all his, I do all the banking so need to know them, but we don't have any secrets about anything, isn't that all part of a full and trustful relationship? Or is it just us? xx
Dave only looks at the forum if I say there is something on there that might interest him or is very funny, can't think he has ever contributed to it, but he does go into the chatrooms....
Sam x
Dave and I have been together 18yrs and married 17yrs,
like some have away to go to beat mine and his parents mine were married 34 when Dad died and his married 37 this year
they deserve medals lol x
Beaches only have to hear "the wind beneath my wings" and i am a mess...
but saying that cried at "i am legend" last night
when i was pregnant with my daughter i would cry at adverts but that was hormaones i guess biggrin
I have never eaten christmas cake/pudding.... yukkkkk
I have never drunk a cup of coffee or want to...
I have never read a Jackie Collins novel
Sam xx
Dave and I met at a naval base in Gosport he was on a course and I was working for the Naafi, my 1st recollection of him was him moaning about the fact his pay had been mucked up, when he came and sat with me on my break. I think he was being nice to me because he fancied my mate lol, a load of us used to go out as a group and some how we drifted together and just haven't drifted apart and that was over 18 years ago, so we must be doing something right biggrin :D
Sam x
oi,oi no one told us there was a manual we been winging it for the last 3 years biggrin :D
who do i need to shag to get one?????
and don't say Mr. Haynes :D :D :D
Sam xx
I must admit we are very bad for not having breakfast here, really need to change our ways!!
Sam xx
Quote by personality
this isnt Becky but had us in stitches ...

oh that was great, wish i could do stuff like to telesales people biggrin :D :D
I can't watch porn, I do like a storyline and Dave just prefers the sex, but I can't help criticing (sorry about spelling)so Dave has to find something to put in my mouth and fast lol lol
Sam x
Dave and I must have a very warped sense of humour then because we found it very funny
Sam x
we do have a couple of them ty, last one was purchased at the nec lol x
1st time i ever saw ghostrider i nearly crapped myself so many near/not misses, i sometimes wish i was as confident on my bike, dave oozes confidence and he is very patient with me xx
Like alot of people on this site we have met alot of people at socials/munches etc, and yes we have also had sex with a fair amount as well...
I think the way to meet and enjoy the people on this site is not to bitch on about the lack of opportunities they have had, but perhaps to put themselves out there and go to munches, chat in chatrooms and get themselves known...
I was lucky enough to meet someone within the 1st week of being on here and Dave and I have met some great couples on here as well!
And we are looking forward to meeting an awful lot more mmmmmmmmm
Sam xx