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Wilddaisy
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 46
UK

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Hello guys - How do I search for a members profile?
There is someone I want to check out but I don't know how to find them...
As soon as I saw the heading I knew 'Josh, Dad's found your scooter' would be here - it's really annoying - when she mouths '25?' to her husband??!! if you're borrowing 25k, you've certainly discussed it beforehand.
I love the triple velvet kid - 'You're fired' - very funny.
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Just as an aside, both of us work in universities, and neither of us are interested in degrading or being superior to anyone! :angel:

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just kidding...
I'm sure you're not like that & I didn't mean like that - I was just saying that I'm attracted to strong, clever, masterful men.
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I don't think we'd want to swing with people in heavily capitalist professions - or really, heavily capitalist people..
My feeling is that these sort of people would be the type to treat people as commodities, and not as human beings - Objects of lust to gain satisfaction from, rather than people with desires, needs, interests and senses of humour to gain mutual pleasure with.
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I agree with that and hate it too but it turns me on.
I would consider myself a feminist, did sex and gender studies at uni and even belong to women's groups yet sexually I totally get off on being submissive to and perhaps even degraded by a man. Weird.
Teachers or professors turn me on - some job where a man is intellectually superior to me...
And yes policemen too...
Hi Saddlehugger, I'm in the same situation as you!
If you ever want to chat let me know
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I had a PM that was just full of questions - sexy ones not practical ones like this.
I liked it - it was original and made me feel like I was doing a quiz in Cosmo and they'd write back to tell me what kind of lay I am.
Never got around to filling it in tho...
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Deodrant roll on bottle ! wink

Me too..
when I told a bf about that he thought I'd meant an aerosol can! I'd said it was exactly the right size for me - he was thinking i was massive down there for weeks(I'm sure it's possible tho..)
Wild daisy- where on earth have you been hiding with an avatar like that?!?!

I've been being a bit shy!
I've been blonde since the days of sun-in - when my hair would have a lovely greenish tinge to it when i went swimming in the school holidays!

I remember sun-in! ewww - straw hair!
If more attention for men equals more fun then blondes have it!
I've been blonde since a friends amateur bleach job in high school (my shade is a lot nicer these days!!)but every so often I dye it brown and I feel rubbish - also men don't pay half as much attention to me with my hair dark.
So I personally have loads more fun being blonde!
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Ive had a few pm's...mainly saying *FFS what you doing on this site, if you dont want sex* I got upset by it at first but soon came to realise that it isn't my problem... its theirs!

Same here - If I don't want to start having 'cyber sex' right there & then or if I'd like time before meeting up! It seems to irritate some men.
One called me selfish and annoying! (just yesterday actually)
I'd never spontaneously meet someone from the internet but I know I'm capable of exchanging knowing looks IRL & 'bumping' into him for a casual something there and then. For some reason that feels less risky! ??
Also, safety aside, I think the build up of sexy chats & emails is important and so fucking sexy!
I have to mention 'Doncha wish your girlfriend was hot like me' grrr - totally not one for the sisterhood! (having said that I don't hate 'My Humps')
I feel all organised religion is a great big con but I don't mind Gods.
I think I'm guilty of having a misleading name!
I meant wild in the natural, uncultivated sense but I think I'm often expected to be a bit crazy & slutty when I'm really not.... (well not sober anyway!)
I have to admit that if I like the sound of a user name then I'll be automatically interested enough to view a profile so I guess you have to choose well.
loved it at first ...now loathe it!
Willow or Faith?
ps - foxylady - Totally Miami!
lol totally Philip & Fern - they're hilarious!
flowers or chocolates?
Shave - you have to wait 'til it grows back to get another wax! eww
girly or tarty?
You don't always know what you don't want until you come across it (or don't as the case may be..)
My list is growing all the time & I'm afraid I haven't replied to a mail in a long time... :cry:
My advice would be to read the advert and be specific to it.
It can be quite clear what kind of man a girl wants, so a generic mail which is obviously used on all the women here isn't going to impress, neither is a wink. I'd say most girls want to think you've mailed her because their ad (or chat/photo/activities etc) has caught your eye.
A bit of thought, wit and selectivity in a mail is the best way to go!
I remember being extremely turned on by the 'sex' scene in Dirty Dancing - where he plays a record (and by association my nipples harden when I hear it now) then undresses her!
His character was very sexy - bad boy taking the virginity of rich, clever girl....sigh!
Oh God, men with long hair are just sooo sexy, my particular favorite was in a 90's band called Reef - it was more of a surfer look than rocker but he was the most gorgeous man ever to walk the earth redface - phew!!
I think the confidence to rock out on stage, the fact that they know they can have almost any girl they like (and do!), the arrogance, the money and the party lifestyle all contribute to the overall sexiness of the rock star.
They also remove their shirts often......