An update..
friday was not overly busy but really nice bunch of people..
understand that there were 15 couplesthere Saturday
site now has photos, but i would still say the site doesnt do it justice
any questions, ask me!
Club xscape
is a respectful enviroment
yes...as far as i know, still only Fridays and Saturdays...unti its more established
Its not been open a month yet, so its developing.
Ultimately i think they want to develop thisa s a full time venue. they are ambitious...which is good
Our relationship is governed alittle by circumsatnces. A long term condition makes it impossible for my partner of 20+ years to swing but, after some soul searching and good discussion, licence was allowed for me to visit a decent club or two
It has to be kept to that however. its a clear boundary and so far has worked very well. A weekly escape, meeting people who are becoming friends (of a sort) is refreshing for me and gives her the security that it stays within those parameters. I am lucky, ill admit
I would also say that so far its somehow enhanced our relationship and she has been more comfortable with the scenario than she expected (although shes always been well aware of the Lifestyle). shes even ticked me off when ive not looked well enough presented!
I have always had a very high drive I would admit, but this is a far better outlet forall concerned than call girls, bar pick ups or illicit affairs. And i do have a swinging mentality, such as that is, by enjoying great affectionate enjoyable sex without any requirement for further commitment. (illadmit i like groups too! ) My love is solely for my partner...
Expanding a little, the club scene is definately not for all guys and is nothing like what is expected by most. You need to have acertain mature attitude (and patience sometimes!) to enjoy...and i would say that at a very rough guess (judging by what i would imagine from my cross section of normal friends would believe) about 5% of guys at most would comfortably fit into the swinging club scene.
dismiss that...read again...yes, make sure its not a private event
the better clubs have proper security...and decent people
I think thats scaremongering frankly
no i dont!
but sad isnt it!
Yes
club xscape...which i keep going on about!
has a dungeon area which i havent seen yet (not my thing totally) and a swing with restraints, which i have used!
its about 20 mins drive from u!
fridays are single guy invites, but theres not usually loads of them there
One club interviews single males beforehand. face to face too
Not a bad idea, but not foolproof
You should do...i think u would enjoy!
spot on...
im not sure swinging is developed enough in the Uk for everyone to have a full understanding of what it really means and where the boundaries are. its still at the curiousity newsy stage for many...
For me its fun with a nice little connection and no hang ups. Im in a relationship with licenec (can explain sometime)...so i will not abusethat trust and frankly wouldnt want to
This is the way clubs are developing...and i think its great
would go myself, but alittle far away and suspect single male fees are high...
l'initiation d'une femme marie
a french classic!
