And what's with the leather sofas?
When on camera, I regularly get people whispering to tell me that I look bored/miserable or to request that I smile... Most of the times, the reason why I look like that is because I am concentrating on something (like reading stuff that people have written in the chat) or thinking about something (that people had written in the chat) or sometimes feeling horny (because of things people have written in the chat or shown on camera)!
So in the middle of chatting... random strangers whisper me to tell me to "cheer up" (even when I have been laughing a moment ago), people are monitoring my smiling activity and keeping me abreast of the changes as if it were some radio traffic report... wtf? Do others get this? Do men get this?
For the lexilagnic among us... keeping a note here of any new words I come across. Feel free to add your own!
For today:
clunge
fap
dissipation
Streets I swam
If meet was RS
Somebody I was talking to the other day said I looked like "a bath bomb type of woman" - I'm not! For me, it's a bar of soap and the scratchiest bath mitt known to mankind. I know harsh soaps are bad for the skin, but I just can't stand the sensation that most liquid soaps, shower gels and cream soaps leave - feels like it's not quite rinsed out. What do you use?
To follow on from where skinny left, perhaps neither of you has a particular need or desire to fuck that way. My husband also has no interest in D/s, but I do so he will occasionally top me, just to satisfy my need. It can only go so far: after 13 years he still finds it amusing that I'd get off like this, and though I think these days he enjoys it, for the most part he is merely going through the motions rather than really getting into it. Also, he refuses to abuse me verbally, spit on me or slap me on the face - this is through conscious decision rather than inability to carry out these specific tasks. He enjoys these things only collaterally, so if I were the same there would be hardly any reason to do them ;)
The more time I spend talking to and meeting people who are into/after recreational sex, the more this paradox is starting to hit me. Many people say no-strings but actually mean "all on my terms".
I have come across a lot that seem unfit to even attempt to implement the NSA principle, usually because their own desires/goals are too strong and they are too eager to fulfill them - at the cost of stepping all over others' desires/goals. On my single fem account, the vast majority of people speaking to me are looking for NSA sex but can't even manage an NSA chat, to begin with. Feom those that do one better, I have a few online friends, playmates etc. who, possibly despite their best intentions, become overbearing or too demanding of my time&attention or have a strong idea of how I should be distributing them. I have also heard many many stories from single guys who had met with women (some with boyfriends/husbands) on a casual basis but later had them getting more and more emotionally attached.
NSA sex means having casual sex without getting involved in a full-blown relationship or being subjected to any sort of expectations, social or otherwise... so IMO it should also mean that everybody is allowed to do what the want, with whom they want, when they want it. Can there be NSA when expectations are riding high?
last night so my language was not as precise as it could have been.
Which is why this makes me gawp:
:lol2:
(if only I had a pound for every profile that said "no pain, WS or weird stuff"!). 
