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mistress_sassy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 46
Straight Male, 54
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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FF- feckin' fantastic! (I am a double F these days! I am losing weight but the girls are getting bigger - not that I am complaining!) :rascal:
I'll have to be Minister for International Relations these days (it's a bit hard to whip you all into shape from down under!) smile
Re-reading threads from bygone days and feeling both very far from home and very close to many of you, trashy romance novels and watching re-runs of Glee!
My curiosity is peaked - racking brain to think of who reesecup may be - someone who knows almost everyone that I do. In other matters - I am has been enough to make the list! biggrin
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In the light of the two postings above, would you care to change your opinion star?

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It expressed either a somewhat bigoted view of people with certain disabilities or a shocking lack of humanity wink

ASD is not classed as a disability GnV, and had you done a bit more research you would have seen that. It in many cases is a disorder.
' Some researchers and people with Asperger's have advocated a shift in attitudes toward the view that it is a difference, rather than a disability that must be treated or cured '.
This explains things very clearly GnV./....have a read and ye shall learn.

Aspergers is actually a form of autism. ASD, or Autistic Spectrum Disorder is actually a little different to Aspergers. Either way however, both can potentially be classified as a disability under the legal definition and as such reasonable adjustments at work can be applied for and potentially benefits claimed.
Not to pick further argument, but I also take exception to your description of treating aspergers "as a difference" rather than a disability "that must be treated or cured". Disabilities do not need to be treated and cured. Many, if not most in fact can't be - I am not sure we have yet figured out how to 'cure' a paraplegic or give a blind person sight!
Neither Aspergers, nor autism, mental health problems, learning disabilities, blindness, deafness, wheelchair users, amputees, and on and on and on.... necessarily need to be cured nor treated. Indeed, most of them would also like it, if in fact they were just categorised as 'different' and lived in a society where they were not 'disabled' only different. Rather they are in fact 'disabled' by societies limitations (access issues, prejudice etc) and as such need access to medical care, adjustments, benefits and so on and hence, are in fact all categorised as 'disabled'.
For a more reliable source of information, why not try
It is in fact fairly common for people to be diagnosed with aspergers later on in life. I know of a number of highly functioning adults who have been diagnosed in last few years, all over 40.
I am not sure why it is more likely to be picked up now, but I would guess, from my experience of growing us as a care giver to someone with severe learning disabilities and watching the struggles we had with his diagnosis and care, that it is no small part simply due to scientific and medical advancement. 20 odd years ago, there wasn't a clear picture of such syndromes and more is learnt of them every day. Upon his arrest, Gary McKinnon has spent time with doctors and experts that he wouldn't have before, who have had time to assess and diagnose his condition.
Unless - you are seriously suggesting that the medical profession has lied or tricked people - then that would be why it has been picked up now and not years ago when he was in his youth.
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hi
could i please be put on the list will only be me as sassy is away in the sun
duracel xxx

That is just sooooooo wrong, a munch without Sassi will just not be the same, but you are always VERY welcome and you know it kiss
I will be there in spirit! :sad: Will miss you guys - have fun. :sad: Don't feel too sorry for me tho, its will be the middle of summer here by then and I will be getting up to head to beach or a barbie just as the munch is finishing! lol
So sorry to mess you about, but can you please take our names off the list after all. I have been offered a job overseas and so won't be in the country at that time.
Apologies, hope a good time is had by all. x
Hi, can we come along too please? We really don't get to enough events anymore and this is close by.biggrin
Thanks for organising another great Wigan munch NWC. Great to catch up with people. See you in December!:-D
Just like my method - pick either the colours/top or the horse's name that I like the most and back it. Doesn't always work, but I have won several times. lol
Don't reply - except when it's me that's calling/texting! lol
That said I never send jokes etc by text or even email.
I am also very bad at returning calls, emails and messages but want people to reply back to mine - I know pot-kettle! :lol:
Hello huni, can we come too please?biggrin
Now is it to early to start planning my outfit! I do have rather a lot of fancy dress to choose from.... innocent
Congratulations to you both! It was lovely to celebrate with you on the day, you both looked so happy, it almost brought a tear to my eye.lol
Thanks NWC - had a great night. It was great to catch up with people, some of whom we haven't seen for ages. Special thanks to Leonie and Mrs Wkd for being my gossip, dance and laughs partners in crime.
Now when's the next one? lol
Hiya huni
Can we come too please? Now I best start thinking of the costume - Ido have a reputation to uphold!lol
There have been lots of really funny moments over the years but my two favourites are -
1. When I was a newbie, (a very long time ago!) I was with a group of people in a hotel room after a night out on Canal Street in Manchester. We were talking about S&M and someone grabbed another person's brand new crop and proceeded to demonstrate how flexible they should be. The crop snapped in half - the look on the owners face was priceless!
2. A group of us being in a hotel room, before a munch just chatting and messing about. Someone dived on someone else in a play fighting way and the bed leg broke and the bed collapsed. A kind of you had to be there moment, but very, very funny!
Was just browsing through this thread and it got me to thinking..... how you all going to fit! lol You will literally be on top of each other. :twisted: :lol:
I have some fond memories of nights here! Hope you all have fun xxxx
Hello you! wave
Hope life is treating you well down under. You have just taken me back to those crazy village nights out. Ahhh the old days. lol
I love him too! lol
Lets go swimming together Gem.
I really need to loose some weight. Having lost 2 stone last Spring/Summer I have since put 3 1/2 back on, but starting Weds a friend and I are embarking upon a two month - two stone challenge, as it will be two months until we go back to Ibiza.
Back when I was little younger and still a single fem, I was offered cash, presents, nights out and free holidays. I never did take any of them tho as it always felt kind of seedy and not in a good way!lol
I must have your share! lol
I never ever come from penetration, only clitoral stimulation, so my toys are essential. Not that he and I for that matter are not good with our hands, but it's gives a bit of variety. :lol:
After reading some of these experiences, I am so glad I chose to have an implant rather than the coil!:-)
My name doesn't bother me either way, most people call me Sassy anyway or Sas, Sal etc.
That said, I don't ever use my full name as it's all a bit posh for a working class girl from inner city Manchester! lol I did use it briefly when I went to uni, but ignored tutors when they used it as I didn't realise they were talking to me!
The hot weather makes me irritable.lol
I don't mind it when I'm on holiday and can lounge around but when it's hot here and I have to work I hate it. It's always humid and sticky, I feel like I need to shower at least three times a day and to top it all off I never tan only ever go pink or red so it's pointless me spending any time in the sun as I just get hot and burn.
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I wish Ian could dance because I would love to take dancing lessons with him sad
He is worse than the oldest Dad at a wedding doing the Dad dance and believe me I have tried to teach him even the basics of a Waltz but he has no rhythm at all

lol Neither has Duracel, so I go alone. I do latin/ballroom and salsa.
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that sounds interesting FB...whats frangelico?

It's a hazelnut liquer - comes in the bottle that looks like a friar with a rope tied round it's waist.