The only thing that puts me of dogging is the arseholes out to spoil it for people. The mindless morons in their kiddy on souped up cars running up and banging car windows or even running over the roofs and bonnets of peoples cars. Those are the ones that make it dangerous to partake in a harmless activity, and perhaps explains why dogging is dying in this part of Scotland.
Will take that as a no then. Whats happening Ayrshire was always known as a swingers paradise. :cry:
Not full threads slagging off newbies more comments that are part of other posts that are shall we say less than positive again maybe to do with single guys. I have no doubt newbies are welcomed if single females or couples. But straight single guys I feel are viewed with suspicion and given a wide berth.
Don't get me wrong I fully understand why this is the case. As you say a lot of single guys are muppets who are in no way even remotely genuine and only on "for a laugh". And if they are invited and fail to show I can quite see why single guys have had a rough time. So I will take your advice and hang around the caff for a while and see what happens.
BTW any Scottish women in here by any chance. ;-)
Thank you ladies much appreciated.
AHEM!!! I know what I would rather ride. :-D
Yeah I seen that one. But still a lot of others made cooments that where shall we say not positive. I know a lot of guys are ruining it for us genuine blokes but how do you get to convince peole you are straight up? Any advice would be great ta. ;-)
Having been through a lot of the threads on this site I have noticed a theme running through a lot of them. There is a lot of slagging off of newbies and single guys. I am a newbie to this site (although I did use the old one extensively) but not a newbie to meeting others for social sex. So is the anti-newbie against new swingers or new people to this site? Given the amount of ads that do say single guys welcome or are being sought I just wondered. Are single guys really gonna feel welcome or feel they are taken seriously with such open bias? I know a lot of guys will be here for a wind up, I am one that is very serious about my nocturnal activities lol. I am very respectful and accept all limits and am never pushy. I am clean and discreet and never judgemental, if I do not want to take part in certain activities I have always found a polite NO does the trick.
I know the single guy thing is probably due to the sheer number of guys out there who might be "trying their luck" or just taking the piss, most of whom are probably too young to use this site anyway. I know there are probably lots of people who have been let down in the past by single guys either doing it for a wind -up or losing their bottle.
That ladies and couples is not me. If I can't make a pre arranged meet for whatever reason (usually work) I will call and make my apologies hopefully in good time and try and arrange another suitable time. I know sometimes this has been construed as time wasting but I am a genuine guy looking for genuine meets so please do not tar all "newbies" or single guys as the same.
Just being yourself eh? ;-)
;-) Anything else you would like? ;-)
No need curvy I'll do that as well while I round the back. ;-)
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That would be telling Curvy. ;-)