Anyone free at short notice over the bank holiday weekend around Manchester/ Tameside area?
We're a couple, mid-thirties, looking to meet up with a single bi male, but unsure yet about our schedule!
PMS please!
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pan_bi
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
Bisexual Male, 54
UK
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I know you weren't asking me, but I had absolutely zero problems with my clit hood piercing,
I was!
I'd like to get some more piercings, but I've been put off by the thought of no fun for 6 weeks!
Don't quite know where I got that figure, but that was my impression!
I might get brave now and take the plunge!
I got my other half to do my nipple piercings, the first one was easy, but the second one was wonky, so we took it out. Found out later we could have just repierced it, and left it to heal without doing any damage.
I just washed it with anti-bac soap, and don't remember much pain while it was healing, if any. That might just be the remnants of the frostbite! Or possibly, the bar is too big, and stretching the piercing.
How about your first piercing, did that take long to heal? And did it, erm, restrict your activities much?
I just washed it with anti-bac soap, and don't remember much pain while it was healing, if any. That might just be the remnants of the frostbite! Or possibly, the bar is too big, and stretching the piercing.
How about your first piercing, did that take long to heal? And did it, erm, restrict your activities much?
I think people's definitions of cheating vary.
Like Blonde, for us, swinging alone would be not so much cheating as pointless!
And I think most people find swinging with strangers a lot easier, especially for starters, than swinging with existing friends/ acquaintances. A lot less complicated, certainly
Like Blonde, for us, swinging alone would be not so much cheating as pointless!
And I think most people find swinging with strangers a lot easier, especially for starters, than swinging with existing friends/ acquaintances. A lot less complicated, certainly
Reading about (and knowing!) how nervous people can be going for a meet, what are people's views on drinking and swinging?
I know a lot of people will have a drink or two to relax and/or get warmed up, others like to know alcohol played no part in the decision to swing... any thoughts?
I know a lot of people will have a drink or two to relax and/or get warmed up, others like to know alcohol played no part in the decision to swing... any thoughts?
There's a world of difference between fantasy and real life.
There's a club in Holland, I think it's fun4two, not quite sure, where women can stand in a window and pretend to be a prostitute and guys can pay to be with her.
Swinging is about fantasy in a safe, consensual environment.
By the way, I'm not having a go, if anyone is into prostitution, that's their choice, but it's a million miles from swinging!
There's a club in Holland, I think it's fun4two, not quite sure, where women can stand in a window and pretend to be a prostitute and guys can pay to be with her.
Swinging is about fantasy in a safe, consensual environment.
By the way, I'm not having a go, if anyone is into prostitution, that's their choice, but it's a million miles from swinging!
I’m just looking for a different perspective I guess, that is why I have submitted this to the scrutiny of you guys . I apologise to those who don’t like reading about people’s personal lives in posts
It's always interesting reading people's views on sexuality and identity. I think it's what attracts many people to the site. Like you said, it's not just about sex, for a lot of us it's to do with identity and lifestyle.
It's not just other people who put you in boxes, people are drawn towards giving themselves identities. I suppose this stems from a wish not to be misunderstood.
But you can't define yourself by giving yourself any particular label, if only for the reason that your view of a particular label might not be the same as someone else's!
So to define myself as a bi male, when there are plenty of men who consider themselves straight and are more bi than I am, doesn't tell the whole story.
The term 'queer' is a nice sexual utopian phrase, but it doesn't really work in the real world. There are still more places where people don't fit in than places they do.
It can be hard work to feel like you need to explain yourself to people all the time.
Maybe the older you get the more you realise you don't have to.
'Shagrag'? Whats that then?
Cheers
CotN
It's a lovely plush little towel (that's the rag bit) that you use to ...ermmmm.... mop up after a shag!
Comes in various colours with embroidered motif. Can be a bit embarrassing if guest helps themselves to a towel!
Variations: shagbag (overnight play bag), cumcloth etc!
I think that the majority of men could be classed as voyeurs and the majority of women as exhibitionists.
Maybe in fantasy land! The majority of women are not sexual exhibitionists! If they are, how come it's so difficult to find any?!!
Women still do it when they get dressed to go out. If they want to attract the highest number of men, they wear the least clothing.
I think most would agree there's a world of difference between a woman (or man!) dressing sexy to feel good/ look good/ attract attention, and being a sexual exhibitionist!
We went to last year's Erotica in Manchester. Paid 30 quid in to see an Ann Summers-style assortment of sex toys and fetish clothing, and a few drooled-over glamour models.
The kinkiness must have been too much for us all and we couldn't dare go back again this year. Thatmust have been the reason!
One high point was the Shagrag stall. Brilliant idea!
The kinkiness must have been too much for us all and we couldn't dare go back again this year. Thatmust have been the reason!
One high point was the Shagrag stall. Brilliant idea!
We've tried nothing and we're all out of ideas!
Is this not the right way to meet people?
Not bothering writing any messages or contributing to any topics in the cafe
Writing a grossly exaggerated advert, or better still, writing 2 or 3 with different details in each
Turning up to every meet posted by 19-year old hot blonde bi-femmes in the dogging forum
Most importantly, getting onto the forum with your first post and complaining that Swinging Heaven is crap!
Is this not the right way to meet people?
Not bothering writing any messages or contributing to any topics in the cafe
Writing a grossly exaggerated advert, or better still, writing 2 or 3 with different details in each
Turning up to every meet posted by 19-year old hot blonde bi-femmes in the dogging forum
Most importantly, getting onto the forum with your first post and complaining that Swinging Heaven is crap!
Our experience has been that you get into this and you think at first that all swingers will be like-minded people.
But unfortunately, swingers are like every other sector of the population, so you get a percentage of idiots, timewasters and whatever, same as every other walk of life!
Single guys get a bad reputation, because there are an awful lot of timwasters, whether because there's a higher percentage, or just more of them out there!
It's not easy, but if you can take your time, and persevere, you will find people!
But unfortunately, swingers are like every other sector of the population, so you get a percentage of idiots, timewasters and whatever, same as every other walk of life!
Single guys get a bad reputation, because there are an awful lot of timwasters, whether because there's a higher percentage, or just more of them out there!
It's not easy, but if you can take your time, and persevere, you will find people!
It seems to us a foursome could be a difficult dynamic to get right.
With a threesome, from the couple's point of view anyway, there's only one new thing to concentrate on!
But in a foursome, with two couples, you want to avoid the 'you can shag my wife if I can shag yours' scenario. I suppose it depends on the people. Finding a couple where everyone is attracted to each other is harder than finding willing singles!
That's why bi is best, then nobody gets left out!
P and N
With a threesome, from the couple's point of view anyway, there's only one new thing to concentrate on!
But in a foursome, with two couples, you want to avoid the 'you can shag my wife if I can shag yours' scenario. I suppose it depends on the people. Finding a couple where everyone is attracted to each other is harder than finding willing singles!
That's why bi is best, then nobody gets left out!
P and N
Hi to everybody, what a great site!
We've been lurking for ages and decided it's time to introduce ourselves.
We're a couple in our mid thirties, bi male, sexy female, and we're hoping to meet and chat with some of you lovely people!
We'll be putting an ad up very soon, so in the meantime, hi!
P and N
We've been lurking for ages and decided it's time to introduce ourselves.
We're a couple in our mid thirties, bi male, sexy female, and we're hoping to meet and chat with some of you lovely people!
We'll be putting an ad up very soon, so in the meantime, hi!
P and N
