Having always detested the unsexiness of tights, I have always been a traditional stockings & suspenders girl. Preferably fishnet, or seamed. Understated but sexy. Although I have discovered that stringer tights look fab over a pair of black knickers. But it does not make for easy access.
I was discussing hosiery with my male friend, who says tights are for kids and stockings with suspenders are too fussy and hard to get off (missing my point that they're better left on), he likes hold ups. Which are great in theory, but leave an unsightly bulge at the back even on my skinny size 6 thighs.
I've also never liked novelty materials, but am wary of wearing fishnets every day and recycling the same look. So I am briefly contemplating herringbone, or diamond patterned. But I'm not sure if these are a bit childish. Or maybe a coloured fishnet - but is that a bit trashy for my (admittedly not very conservative) office?
So my question is, what is your hosiery of choice for sexiness, and does anything in particular turn you on, or off?
I didn't really think about it like that! It was just a question a girl at work asked today. Dunno if there was anything behind it...
Would you prefer their lover to be more or less attractive than you?
I was having this conversation at work and we couldn't decide.
On the one hand, if they're more attractive you'd get it. If they were less oyu'd be a bit insulted.
But are any of those sexy?
I want something I can say (so anything other than pussy), but that the finds sexy. I can cope with the c word but don't know if he'd like that!
Its gettign difficult sending dirty texts without using any word at all!
I do get aroused, but I kind of freeze up because I'm so scared I'll say something and he'll laugh at me! But at the same time, I don't want to come across as a prude so I want to say something!
I worry about stuff way too much!
I did say to him, I haven't done this before and he said just close your eyes and use your imagiantion. But by that time I felt stupid.
I do have little fantasies about him, like little places in our building I'd take him etc, but in reality I'd never have the balls to do that (although he would) and he knows that, so I don't know if that'd come across well.
I read the swinger stories, is it just me or are some of them a bit far fetched. In one, they are describing two girls, one apparantly size12 with 38J breasts and the other size 8 with 38H breasts. Unlike they had matching humongous boob jobs, how likely is that? Anyway, thats a bit off topic.
So far I've said a few dirty tigns which he responded well to, but I'm running out of thigns to say and I don't want to keep reusing the same old things and repeating myself. this is like every night, so I'm racking brains trying to think of things to say.
I saw him in his office the other day (same building as me but different company) and was going to text him saying i wanted to kneel in front of him etc, but thought he might think thats a bit stupid!
I have porn which has both condoms and no condoms, and I don't have a preference for either.
It certainly doesn't spoil my enjoyment if a condom is being used.
I kind of have this distance thing going on at the moment, through text messages and phone calls because we can't see each other in the flesh at the moment.
His messages get really dirty, and we've had phone sex which consists of him talking dirty to me and me just kind of groaning.
I really really want to talk dirty to him and maybe send him some dirty messages to brighten his day, but I'm not sure what to say. I don't know what he'd like to hear. Does that sound stupid?
Anyway, my question is, what kind of things can I text / talk about that will really get him going. He apparantly likes really filthy sex, but what would you even define as filthy?
Any tips would be greatly appreciated.
I don't really care. Trimmed is nice, but I don't mind it natural either.
If someone asked me for a shag, whether it be on here or someone I know or even a stranger, I wouldn't be offended. At worst I'd say no.
I'd probably actually be flattered. And appreciate their upfrontness, because potentially it could waste a long period of trying to figure out if they're interested.
I know what I look like. i seem to have 2 faces, one mcuh more attractive than the other, but the others apparantly sexier (although i'm not sure I agree!).
I've kind of used those, or a variation. I asked him if he fancied me (I got a yes) and told him I wanted to fuck him (I got a very enthusiastic yes).
It wouldn't bother me in the slightest to ask.
I'm weird, in some ways I am extremely confident - but deep down am very insecure!
I think it is just he's not what I go for lookswise. He's tall which I like, but skinny which I don't. And he's not good looking but I like his smile. And his personality. And the way he makes me feel. And that he gets that I want a fuck buddy, not a relationship and is ok with that.
So yep, I guess there is an attraction, just not the type I'm used to. And fuck what my friends would think. I don't really want them to find out anyway.
Roughly where in surrey? i'm in Croydon but don't drive so need to be able to get there!
We didn't quite have sex.
I think, and this sounds awful and shallow, but I know people who know him, and I know if they knew they'd wonder what the hell it is I'm doing with him. Which is what might be putting me off.
But he's incredible in every other way, and we both want the same arrangement which is great. But I don't wanto to mess him around.
I've just realised how stupid this whole thread is because it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks at all.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Dawn will kill you for that Ian :giggle:
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