We posted on this thread at about last night but it's disappeared.
Could someone let me know if it's been removed and the reason why?
Many thanks
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
picoNblue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
Bi-curious Female, 43
Forum
A very good question, but yes I think they can.
Meeting others through the swinging scene for recreational sex and enjoying the social side of the lifestyle I think differentiates from someone who trawls pubs/clubs in search of one night stands.
You are either on the scene or you're not, whether couple or single.
Meeting others through the swinging scene for recreational sex and enjoying the social side of the lifestyle I think differentiates from someone who trawls pubs/clubs in search of one night stands.
You are either on the scene or you're not, whether couple or single.
Blue once had a gal say to him (and this was a one night stand)after doing the "dirty deed"....
"oh I feel so safe with you" :shock:
He'd only been there an hour and a half....needless to say he got out of there sharpish...and made sure that the pet rabbit was never left outside again!!
"oh I feel so safe with you" :shock:
He'd only been there an hour and a half....needless to say he got out of there sharpish...and made sure that the pet rabbit was never left outside again!!
Although it sounds as though this woman gets a thrill out of doing this (and fair play to her), it's also true that she could well be a victim before the week's out.
Flashing to strange guys, no-one around so early in the morning, sand dunes......sounds like a recipe for her disaster....it only takes the wrong type of guy to walk past her
I don't mean to look on the negative side, but I really hope this woman stays safe and uninjured while satisfying this thrill.
Flashing to strange guys, no-one around so early in the morning, sand dunes......sounds like a recipe for her disaster....it only takes the wrong type of guy to walk past her
I don't mean to look on the negative side, but I really hope this woman stays safe and uninjured while satisfying this thrill.
I think that going to a club together might be a good place to start. You can get a feel for the atmosphere. There are so many different people at a club and as long as you BOTH feel happy about taking things further, then you'll almost definately find someone to join you.
We started in the club scene and felt it was a good way to ease ourseves into swinging....we felt that if we had arranged a meet there might have been pressure to do something that we weren't comfortable with ( and plus some people don't want to be a "swinging guinea pig").
Whatever you do, discuss your boundaries together beforehand, your do's and dont's.
Happy wife watching xxxx
We started in the club scene and felt it was a good way to ease ourseves into swinging....we felt that if we had arranged a meet there might have been pressure to do something that we weren't comfortable with ( and plus some people don't want to be a "swinging guinea pig").
Whatever you do, discuss your boundaries together beforehand, your do's and dont's.
Happy wife watching xxxx
i like the h-x bum....that is a perfect peach
Ok, I don't want to end up ranting but Blue and I are mightily annoyed....
We were meant to have a meet yesterday so we got tarted up, made sure the whole afternoon and evening was free and.....the guy sent a text at 1650h to say his mum was with him and he was trying to get rid of her. We were meant to be meeting him at 1800h so we thought "ok fair enough". We then didn't hear from him again.
We were wondering if there was any chance if a rating system could be devised ( like there are on some other swinging sites). So for example you could see if people are genuine cos people could say "We met with Joe Bloggs 69 and we had a great time, really genuine guy etc". We mean something like a star system, obviously no nasty comments but at least people could have the opportunity to say "Miss X never showed". This might be a deterrent to the lame arse timewasters.
There must be loads of peeps on SH who have other commitments like children, who can only get a babysitter every now and then....if they get a no show it must be so frustrating. This has been our first experience of a timewaster but we spoke about it in the chatroom last night and some people have had it happen 9 times or more. We think there must be some people out there who get off on the whole arranging the meet and then furiously masturbate over the fact that the couple/guy/girl is getting ready.
Thank you for bearing with me....does anyone else think a rating system is a good idea?
We were meant to have a meet yesterday so we got tarted up, made sure the whole afternoon and evening was free and.....the guy sent a text at 1650h to say his mum was with him and he was trying to get rid of her. We were meant to be meeting him at 1800h so we thought "ok fair enough". We then didn't hear from him again.
We were wondering if there was any chance if a rating system could be devised ( like there are on some other swinging sites). So for example you could see if people are genuine cos people could say "We met with Joe Bloggs 69 and we had a great time, really genuine guy etc". We mean something like a star system, obviously no nasty comments but at least people could have the opportunity to say "Miss X never showed". This might be a deterrent to the lame arse timewasters.
There must be loads of peeps on SH who have other commitments like children, who can only get a babysitter every now and then....if they get a no show it must be so frustrating. This has been our first experience of a timewaster but we spoke about it in the chatroom last night and some people have had it happen 9 times or more. We think there must be some people out there who get off on the whole arranging the meet and then furiously masturbate over the fact that the couple/guy/girl is getting ready.
Thank you for bearing with me....does anyone else think a rating system is a good idea?
My boobs have grown in the last 6 months from 36b to 34d.....i put weight on and my puppies got fatter. I wanted to lose the weight but knew that my funbags would also deflate......however i'm back into size8 clothes and when I had them measured by the nice Marks n Spencers lady she said they were 34d. I thought maybe she had had a stressful day measuring lots of boobies, but she was right!!! I'm so proud of em.
But Blue complained that all the 34d bras had "too wide" straps!!!! You need something to hoist em up!!! Boobs are blindin in whatever shape or form....I'm just glad mine are bigger than before.
But Blue complained that all the 34d bras had "too wide" straps!!!! You need something to hoist em up!!! Boobs are blindin in whatever shape or form....I'm just glad mine are bigger than before.
I agree with you Cambridge guy, I prefer a guy to dance badly than to stand like a spare part. Just shows you can have a good time and not worry bout what others are thinking. As i type this Blue is watching, he is of course an excellent dancer ( I believe he taught Mr Timberlake everything he knows....) I never believe tripe like that, like guys with big feet have big cocks. Come on just shake your booties....
This is Pico (female half), wanted to let u kno that we've been to pleasures a few times and it is feckin blindin! Really good atmosphere, there's a bar downstairs (u take your own drink and they look after it) and it really feels like being in a pub/bar atmosphere. Trust me I know how you feel about going first time.....but there is NO pressure to do anything, infact we went last Sat and didnt play with anyone. Sorry, I'm writing War and Peace here!!! We are also the same (altho I do worry that I am obsessively jealous. lol) I play but Blue watches or plays with me. This has never been a problem because....well it's each to their own, if you know what I mean. It's a great bunch of people who go there, totally non-judgemental. As you get into conversation with peeps you discover what they are there for....kinda like "oh so do you both play?" and it's easy to say "Pico plays but I just love to watch". Last Sat I was asked by a lady if I was bi (bless her, she was playing with my hair for ages but I didn't give her the green light) and I suppose she wanted to know if I would play with her. Oh by the way you have NOTHING to worry about in the looks department.....you may find you fitted in more before your weight loss, hey i'm just being honest. Normal people not models. Try it and you'll be hooked!lol Hope this has been some help cos Itell it how it is, no bull sh it. xxx
Hi Hiccup, we can answer this one. We've been to Pleasures several times now, and can confirm the place is first class. We went to a other clubs before we found Pleasures, but this place beats them hands down. Really friendly and relaxed atmosphere with plenty chance to drink and chat to get to know others. The owners Maggie and Steve have worked hard and kitted it out perfectly. Try it, you won't regret it.
