Quote by Phoenix
I love cats they have a real attitude, they know hat they want and sod everyone else.
Ive got three cats at the moment. I did have five but ive moved house twice in the last 12 months and two of them have managed to bugger off on me.... :cry: :cry:
Quote by PrincessSwallows
Ok I used that search thing but it hates me and as far as I am aware this hasnt been posted before but then Im not very aware :shock: :shock: :shock:
Ok
Stretch marks is my topic!
I have them and I guess other people do aswell, but do they put you off? I mean I would feel uncomfatable other people seeing them, so what about you guys?
Men get them to so your opinions welcome?
:) Quote by Mister_Discreet
An interesting topic (what makes someone good at sex, not Errol Flynn's habits)...
I guess we can only go by our own observations, and I suppose one man's 'good at sex' might be another's 'intimidating' or 'lifeless'. With that said, here's my list:
1. Communication
2. Confidence
3. Compatibility
4. Shape
Expanding a little... Communication: Maybe because I'm a giver more than a reciever, but if I'm not sure that we are both enjoying things, then it's not good sex. Good sex isn't something that you do to someoneone, it's something you do together. If you are lying there thinking 'I wish he'd move left a bit' or whatever, and you don't let me know somehow, then how can we be having good sex? Feedback, constructive criticism, and mutual agreement on what we are going to do next are all important for me.
Confidence: Not just the confidence to leave the lights on, but the confidence to ask for things, or suggest things without fear of putting the other person off.
Compatibility: Some people just click better with others. Put simply a sub and a dom are usuallygoing to work better than 2 subs or 2 doms, but this applies to levels of attractiveness, body shapes, attitudes, levels of experience, willingness to be kinky, choice of kinks and so many other things.
Shape: Call me shallow, but if I don't fancy you very much, then the sex isn't going to be great. Sorry!
Quote by TallFunLondon
All depends I guess - Sex in a relationship is all about knowing each other and what each other likes...
Sex in a swinging enviroment is possibly more about the physical.
But am sure you can see this many different ways and depends on depends on your own personal experience.
Quote by keith28
Do any of you married or single ladies women ever withhold sex from your husbands or partners to punish or manipulate? Is it effective for you? How long do you usually use when necessary?
How does hubby react?
Do any of you have more proven methods of getting results
Quote by lucyfingers
may sound naff but I think the essence is ensuring that your partner really enjoys it, then what you get in return will be influenced by that..asumming the partner has a brain between the ears
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