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soulboy__girl
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
Straight Female, 52
0 miles · Wiltshire

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The NHS is overloaded and cant cope with the amount of people needing treatment. 4 years ago I had gall stones, if you've had them you'd know how painful they were and I was admitted to hospital 5 times overnight in 4 weeks and had to spend an additional week in hospital. Now each time I went into hospital it cost £500 in an ambulance, so that cost them £3,000, plus I spent 11 days in hospital which was estimated to have cost about £300 per day so thats another £3,300. Total cost was £6,300 and yet I still had the gall stones.
However each time I was discharged I was told I would get an appointment through in about a year for a scan to confirm I had gall stones and then it would be another year before I could have the operation.
Luckily after my last overnight stay in hospital my then partner had just started paying for private health care and after a very quick calls I get an appointment a day later to see a private consultant (who happened to be the same consultant I was seeing on the NHS), and had a scan the following day. Within 2 days I was having the operation privately and the cost of the operation privately was £4,450.
So the NHS could have saved all that money they wasted on me just being admitted to hospital by sending me private in the first place.
I've just had a look at this club and it isnt free you still have to pay £20 if you havent visited the place before. So think we might have to visit it then as well biggrin
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Autism, Asbergers, ADD, ADHD, Learning Disorders, Conduct Disorder, Eating Disorders, Schizophrenia. These problems are all very real - they must be, because so many counsellors make so much money for diagnosing and treating them. Parents also find it much easier to accept the child's otherwise unexplainable mental deficiency when the problem is given a medical name.

The national autism society read it then comment
My mom has schizophrenia and believe me its real I've spent the last 38 years trying to understand her, never will, she doesnt even understand herself.
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Maybe that is where society has gone wrong then?
When a child does not know what the " norm " is, what have they got to judge anything by?
Normal to a lot of people would be for a couple to have a child together, and raise it together. A married couple where a child is created by love for each other, and not to be given away like an old times have changed, but not always for the better.
I could never understand how a Mother can conceive a child and carry it for nine months, and then give it away. No matter who they are giving it too.

If a child does not understand what 'normal' is, then maybe they will not be judgemental anyway. That's not such a bad thing.
What is normal for a lot of people, is completely abhorrent to others. The couple love one another - that means the child will grow up in a loving, safe environment, with parents who have professions and are solvent. What's more, they aren't benefit cheats. Can't ask for much more than that.
I don't think anyone is asking for your opinion on surrogacy - and you don't have to understand it as it won't apply to you anyway. Not all women understand it either - as long as the ones who do it are content, no need to question their motives.
Hello Fb....you enjoying your seven weeks off? wink
Of course people can question their motives when they are giving away the most precious thing in life.....a child.
Most Mothers would find that utterly abhorrent, and to give a child away that you have carried for nine months, in itself asks questions about the of course questions can be asked about her motives.
You're quite right. It takes someone incredibly loving, giving, possibly even altruistic. Someone who understands what that child would mean to the recipient, and that that child would be given all the love they could ever need.
As far as I can see, there are two possible motivations for surrogacy. Love, and money. This appears to have been done for love.
I'm not expecting a response, you appear to have been struck with that nasty case of selective blindness which leaves you unable to respond to y points- again.
So kent what is the big problems with this, the fact the mother giving away the child or who she has given the child away to or do you have a problem with both of the issues.
Could we be added to the list please we have the week off work, and sounds like a fun time.
Had the radio on when I was in labour and the song that was playing as my daughter came into the world was Tender by Blur :shock:
Appears Server 1 is down at the moment, can someone from the site please look into getting messages put on the log in screen to say when servers are down as I have to keep telling everyone in chat it is down, unless of course you want to make me an op cool
Would like to have come along but not free that weekend sad maybe next time we might be free
Any couple fancy meeting up for drinks Saturday night and maybe some fun.
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SG & SB
Hi
We've never been dogging before but wondering if anyone would be up for fun this saturday evening.
Would prefer to meet couple.
If anyone can tell us anywhere to go as well.
Cheers
SB & SG
thanks Redhotandready I'll go back to the shop and see if I can exchange it for something that does work
unfortunately with a net book you get very little options to change things limited operating system and limited access to it all.
checked all the settings and they are the same as my other laptop so dont understand why it wont work sad
I just got a acer netbook and tried to use the inbuilt cam in chatroom it lets me have the cam on but no picture appears. Can anyone help as I know sod all about them.
If i get whispers I just say in general chat "joe blogs get out my whispers please" it works every time.
What I dont like are the people who constantly paste the whispers into chat.
I'm getting my first tattoo on my back in May and hope to get all my back done by the end of the year. Also planning on having another 2 on my arms as well. Other half has 12 of them on back, arms, bottom and leg.
However you dont even have to join the site to view the "Gallery" pictures.
If you log out of the site, you can still see "samples" of the site so if you click on gallery you get a sample of the photos. Also applies to most of the other features the site offers.
Basically a very simple answer would be to be given the option when uploading pictures
1. Private
2. Friends Only
3. Anyone (meaning anyone viewing your account can see them)
4. Do you wish them to be included in the gallery.
Come on SH giving us what we want lol
My main problem with this is once you've tagged your photo someone else can go and change what you have done. Until this is sorted and the site has a system where it can confirm that you have tagged the photos and no one else can change it I wont have my pictures in public.
I have reports this issue to admin and they are looking into it.
We made comments on this subject but they have been removed, why? We made comment that the pictures can still be tagged by someone else even if you have tagged them because as we have two accounts on here we tried it.
I have since gone back into our accounts to try and tag all the photos and it wont let me do any of them. So can someone in admin please remove the tags that have been put on our photos allowing us to do it ourselves, when the option to tag them in private is available.
As a paying customer of the site, I would like someone to explain to us why the comments were removed and why wasnt the whole issue locked and the photo tagging put on hold until it is sorted correctly.
But hang on I dont mind my photos being in the public gallery and I know people can view them all and it might take hours to find ours on there, and I dont mind them being viewed by my profile, but I dont want people then being able to search for people by my photos on how far away they are from me.
For one I would like the system to be sorted so the pictures collectors can not download any pictures from the site for a start.
And I have tagged some of the pictures on our soul_girl accounts, then went onto our soul_boy account and viewed the pictures on soul_girl account and I could tag them again through soul_boy account.
I think our pictures will be staying in private for now.
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The idea behind the system is so you can browse the photos that you want to.
The 1-10 scale isn't a rating, it's the quality of the image not the content. The data will be used to display the clearer better quality of images first, with the blurry ones at the back of the search query after we get the new search implemented.
The categories that the images are tagged into will be used to filter the images that you want to see e.g. if you are a couple looking for another couple, living 30 miles away, and not wanting to see cock shots, the new search will be able to meet that criteria. Currently the gallery has nil functionality or use for any thing other than looking at pictures, Russian Roulette style.
Currently there are nearly half a million photos that need to be categorised before any new relevant search can be implemented. We are actively encouraging users to tag their own photos that are uploaded and there will be an announcement on your homepage in the next few days.
Swinging Heaven is looking for ways to make all areas of the site more relevant and usable for the members. Our goal is continual improvement and listening to our member feedback. In the recent site surveys, a relevant image search was one of the top three points that our member base was asking for. As you are aware there are a large number of site improvements being worked on at the moment that will be rolled out over the next 18 months.

So I understand its so you can search on photos by distance from you as well as various other things, wouldnt it be better to improve the search engine on here first as I wouldnt want to search someone just by pictures, I can see them when I look on profiles.
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ive set all mine to private, so i dont think they can be tagged by anyone, including myself. although im not sure once i send a invite if that person can then tag? but then if they do id know it was them? how can you see what tag a photo has?
there is already a 18+ tag, well its in the place where you load your pics, but i think that admin who tag it as that not you?
safe bet shove them all into private, if someones interested enough they will message me to ask what i look like. or i expect we will get a more detailed description section soon?
im waitig on the vote to remove free memberships from before the takeover. confused
xx fem xx

I've moved all my pictures to private as well what is the point of us doing the work for the site, if you want to have a select people rate them like mods then fine, but I aint having everyone else do it.
I have the following on my profile
"If you send a message and dont get a reply its because you havent read the profiles properly.
And winks will be deleted".
This way it means I have the time to answer the people who have bothered to read my profile and send a proper message biggrin
when i married i changed names and when i got divorced I changed it back again. Wasnt too much hassle at all.
However I lived with someone for 9 years and had children with them and my children have their dads surname (I wanted them to have my surname and it caused alot of problems and had to give in to them having his surname). However now we have split up anything connected with the kids ie hospital, doctors, school etc everyone just assumes I am married to their father and call me mrs, that really annoys me.
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Why cos my other half is off out there for 6 months soon sad
I dont really know if I believe in destiny, but I think I can control some of the things that are going to happen, but then is that just learning from past experiences then you can then control what might happen in the future.