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CBnRed
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 68
Straight Female, 69
0 miles · Kingston upon Hull

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Red is both straight and perfectly happy to "enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple". Never been a problem for us, as long as others understand that when Red says she's straight she mean exactly that. If anything swinging has reinforced that. The only times we have had problems when meeting couples with bi-fems has been when said b-fem assumes she can "convert" Red. Not a good idea......
CB
Quote by Pete_sw
it does sound to me that maybe the guy who installed ZA has also set her windows securfity settings to max.

That's what it sounds like. We have ZA on this PC and we don't have any of the problems you listed. It is often enough to set the trusted zone to medium and allow the various necessary programmes etc to be in that zone.
CB
We'll be there so here's the confirmation. Really looking forward to it smile
CB & Red
Take heart from our experience. Our youngest went through all of that and more. Several years on, after a couple of false starts, she's now at university and doing everything right.
Hang on in there! Painful though it can be.
CB
Same or separate room? Either is fine with us. It's more down to whatever the other couple is comfortable with as far as we're concerned.
I suspect we're in a minority on this one though.
CB
Rats! Only just realised how fast this was filling up / has filled up :cry:
Any chance of adding us to the reserve list please?
Thanks
CBnRed
Quote by Kiss
Any idea how many PMs couples/females get?

We don't get many any more biggrin
The trick seems to be to get past the age of 50.....
Ah well, it makes for a quieter life smile
CB
Call that inflation!!!!???
It was 2p in my day..... lol
CB
Oh dear..... we're looking like real sluts here...... lol
'Nuff said!
CB
Got to admire the guy's professionalism in keeping going......
Real staying power!
CB
We managed to get one each at the Yorkshire Munch last month, so they must still be available from somewhere.
CB & Red
Quote by redwine_lover
50 is the new 40

Aha! That must mean I'm 40 on Tuesday lol
CB
Quote by NLondonJohn
Certainly not too old for swinging, although perhaps not swinging from the chandelier ............

Yes.... it would be awkward if I dropped my Zimmer frame from on high..... wink
CB
Quote by Freckledbird
No such thing as 'too old to swing' - you're as old/young as the person you're feeling :twisted:

Now that makes us both feel a lotbetter! lol
CB
Red says that being 50 and swinging isn't a problem. Me, I'll find out next Tuesday...... smile
Can't say we've had any problem finding playmates. In fact the majority have been younger than us and by a fair bit in some cases.
Kiss_me is right - getting to the point where the kids have all left home makes life rather interesting again lol
CB
Quote by celestria
Unfortunately many couples seem to be on the scene to try and spice up a failing relationship and that's where the problems start.

All too true and the resulting problems and drama are far from fun for anyone else anywhere nearby.
And then there is the other sort of problem situation, where one half of a couple has been coerced into the scene or is just going through with things to keep their partner happy.
We've met couples who fall into both of those categories with less than great results. We tend to be rather more cautious these days as a result.
For us, after nearly 30 years together, at least we know we are totally secure in our own relationship.
CB & Red
Excellent! Red is already packing her overnight bag...... wink
CB
We'd be keen to come along, assuming that our new status as grandparents doesn't rule us out!
CB & Red
Can we have an invite too please? We so enjoyed the Yorks munch (our first) that we're definitely keen on going to another (and another, and another).
We'll be needing a hotel list as well.
Ta muchly
CB & Red
What a brilliant night that was! And we haven't managed to get home yet...... lol
Many thanks for all the organisational work.
We're quite sure that although that was out first munch, it certainly won't be our last.
CB & Red
Quote by fabio grooverider
anne widdicombe and edwina currie should just about do it.......... bolt

Didn't work for John Major...... wink
CB
We seem to have had to deal with more than our share of the headcases/cheats/nutters/psychos in the past, but only one managed to slip right past the nutter-detector. Red ended up close to being stalked by that one. Not a lot of fun, but we did get rid of him in the end.
I reckon we tend to be rather more cautious these days. Hence the decsion to try the munches.
CB
31 hours to munchtime.....
Great to see you've confirmed, Will and Jackie! It'll be great to see you again. Been too long....
CB & Red
Red won't go anywhere near the chatrooms because of all that. Can't say I blame her either.
CB
It just has to be "42"......
Then we'll all understand what it's all about lol
CB
That's great. Many thanks.
Time to start waving the old credit card at the computer..... lol
.... Done. Hotel room booked. Raring to go wink
CB & Red