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Quote by Silk and Big G
I wonder if there's a French word for 'dogging'?
Mr Licks

La dogging?
I have actually seen dogging going on in French motorway laybys, but don't know what it's called: "Le chienant"?
Quote by Silk and Big G
Dont organise , improvise .

The problem with improvising, particulalrly if you're a man dogging on his own, is that it is a very hit and miss business. You can spend hours waiting around in the hope that a couple might turn up, but no one does - or a couple do and then proceed to have a flaming row in their car.
Unprogrammed dogging is so time consuming and so hit and miss, but sometimes you get lucky and then it's hit and Mrs.
Quote by dirtydoggers
erm, i'm a little confused..whats any of this got to do with the origional thread? are you looking at little dick"s reference about spending the night by the "tv" as some subconcious but cryptic clue to his suppressed sexuality? because i thought he mean't a television set lol

I may have dragged (innuendo) the thread a little off coarse (deliberate misspelling). I picked up the comment about frightening people off this forum and compared it to frightening people off dogging locations.
I have been frightend off dogging locations. On one occasion I was invited by a couple to follow their car to a place were they were going to meet 2 guys. I naively followed them and when I got there the two guys approached me and siad the couple didn't want any others there. I protested I had been invited by them, but was given a black eye which temporarily blinded me by this huge guy. Truth is sometimes painful.
What they did to the couple after they had intimidated me to clear off I can only imagine, but I suspect it may have been violent and unwelcome. Why did the couple invite me to join them? perhaps because they thought they would feel a bit safer with someone else around! I doubt it was because they were lusting after my body. :lol:
Quote by dirtydoggers
your points are interesting, but might have been better addressed if they were on their own thread..why would anyone seek to frighten you off? the comment to which you refer was tongue in cheek, not threatningly confrontational..

My rejoinder was tongue in cheek too.
Apart from that, I agree with everything you say here. What I wanted to get across was that bi or gay men pose no threat to straight doggers, so there is no need to be unfriendly with a guy just beacause you suspect he may be bi or gay.
I don't see this same antipathy towards those who are attracted to their own sex among women as there is among men. How do we deal with that peer pressure among men to act straight?
Quote by gentlemanfor2
lets keep dogging out doors and retain its excitement appeal.
jay

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm outdoors is where it's at - wind around the genitals!
Quote by BigBoi
Thats another one we've frightened off then!
Whos next :twisted:

You can try fightening me off then.
I don't write much on here. I'm a keen bisexual undywearing dogger pervert, but I don't find the male dogging fraternity very friendly. Guys all act super straight and come out with nice friendly greetings like "Fuck off you queer cunt". The silly thing is that so many of these straight doggers like to play with a guy if they're on their own, but they don't want the other male doggers to know about it - and who can blame them?
But if a guy doesn't fancy being touched by a guy all he has to do is say "no". There aren't many guys around stupid enough not to take no for an answer from another guy. That's asking for violence.
Having said that, I love eating out a nice cunt in a dark car park and only if I act dead straight do I get a chance. biggrin So there's a pressure to conform to a straight stereotype, which only encourages people to say "fuck off you bent pervert".
Anyone else find this a problem.?
The women, I note, seem to have little problem saying publicly that they're bi, but men don't often come out with it - only one to one, so it's a secret.
You won't tell anyone I'm bi, will you? :D
Quote by gingerjo-lee
and why should doggin be in public places ?

More fun in public! It's the having to look over your shoulder & being prepared to pull your pants up quick. The risk! confused
So is Lucy going to be the only female when we get there?
Do you think you can cope with that, Lucy, or would you prefer us in small groups, say 3 or 4 at a time? lol
Then after 10 minutes we could change shift surprised
I go down there too sometimes from S London - but never much luck in that location - or perhaps I'm not going to the right spot.
I'm another guy who dogs on his own - so count me in please - sorry I can't bring partner
Is there ever any dogging going on in London? I'n my experience you'd do much better on the outskirts.
Quote by beebeep
You are right Jumo, i think that i have found the answer. If everyone did this then i think it would be ok

BB :twisted:

Very funny Beepbeep lol
Stereotyping lorry drivers for rude behaviour is unfair. I suspect the problem is there has been a lot of publicity about dogging and everyone knows now what it is, but they have not had enough experience to know how to go about it.
And as for dogging in Kent or Surrey, you can show me round Mr Ben, especially if you can show me where I can dog willing exhibitionist couples who make it clear what they want, free of boy racers, stone-throwing gangs, boys (and girls) in blue and rude doggers who crowd round and scare couples off.
I'll PM you about that.
Cheers :P
Yes I reported this too. It has been going on there for months. I have told the police about it when they've questioned my presence there, but without the exact details of the car what can you do?
I've had my windows smashed there by one of them that threw a rock from a sling.
I also had a good dogging experience there last week, but then later got threatened by a dogger who thought he was subsequently entitled to be the only one to dog the couple who had just given me a good display.
I'm not sure it's always the same group. It seems to happen from about 11pm onwards. My advice is enjoy the location earlier on, but not after 11pm.
Anyone have any good suggestions for alternative locations in or just south of south London?
Quote by SteveO
Thanks for the warning Beebeep, that's one of my local sites to avoid ( at least until its past kiddies bedtime anyway!)

My experience of that place is it's OK from dusk till about 11, after that timethe lads come out well tanked up and get very agressive. I've had stones thrown at my car & a car window smashed. Some people take pleasure in stopping others from enjoying their pleasure. I've also been approached agressively in the car park in front of the restaurant.
Pity! A few years ago it used to be a good spot. But now rather deserted late on for the above reasons.
I would welcome news of any suitable alternatives as I'm a late night prowler.
Quote by simonsuzie
The site that has been closed for a few weeks has now reopened, & appears to be well used again already!

Sounds like somewhere within my dogging range. Could some kind person PM me with details of how to find it?
Many thanks. biggrin
Quote by leaire1
Hi
i am going to tell you a cpl of my dogging fantasys and i would like u to tell me if im weird?
1) I would like to meet another women and fuck her with a really big strap on or vibrator until she cums then pisses herself whilst our other halves watch and wank all over her face?
2) I would like 10 or more men to fuck me one after the other filling me with spunk and then rubbing there cocks all over my tits? (even though i would never ride bareback) but i would settle for this with condoms.
3) Also i would like another couple to lick my husbands cum from my pussy?
Am i weird or just highly sexed i would appreciate any views on this.
Thanks smile
Thanks

Are you wierd?
I'd be more than happy to be one of the ten men who fuck you (well condommed) and rub their cocks all over your tits; also happy to lick your husband's cum from your pussy particularly if i can have a good suck on your clit at the same time. Even with number one I'd be happy to watch and wank.
Am I wierd?
I don't think so - just believe in doing what turns you on, while being safe and bothering no one. I'd say "go for it, Woman! Pick your team and fulfill your fantasies". biggrin
I've had some successful meets in Surrey. You've just got to be patient. Mine was direct from the photo-Ads of SH but have had many others just by going to the sites and talking to the "more" normal doggers. Once you get into the community people are pretty helpful. I was even at a site last night and a guy stepped away from a car so that I could have some fun. How respectful is that!!!

I was enticed to a couple of Surrey/Hants locations Friday night by a couple who said they were going to be there, but if they ever were we missed each other, so I ended up chatting to some of the "more" normal doggers who were hanging around and getting bored. No one showed.
BTW what are the "less" normal doggers about?
Depends how you count. The Beeb deals with Oxford on the midland regional news. But I think it gets into southern news as well.
Sure there's nowt to beat the good old Midlands, my native heath, but I'm stuck in London.
There are nearly 10 sites in and around the wisley area that see some action from time to time. More rarely not though.
Wisely isnt what it used....oh god here I go, dont get me started on the good old days........

No it isn't :cry:
Neither is Shoreham Woods, nor Shirley Hills nor Streeatham Common. Where can south Londoners go these days? They say that as one door closes another opens, but I haven't seen the opening ones. Do let me know if anyone finds any.
Obviously not too many doggers have been boy scouts in their formative years.
Well if the guys aren't prepared to follow the boy scout's motto "Be prepared" they'll just have to be content with the women following the girl guide's motto "lend a hand" and not expect anything more. lol
A girlfriend in Humberside area wants me to take her dogging locally, or even as far as Lincoln, but neither of us knows what the local dogging locations are like. We want somewhere which is fairly busy, perhaps near woods or bushes for if we feel like getting out of the car to put on a bit of a show. Can anyone with local knowledge PM us. It would be much appreciated.
Thanx tons you lovely doggers.
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My guess is that the folk in white vans keep chatting disappointedly about that couple that keep coming into the car park but never do anything.
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What an interesting thread!
Just as I always thought cunnilingus was an Irish airline until I discovered dogging, so I always thought I was gay until I discovered dogging.
Sex with girlfriends never felt satisfying or right when I was in my twenties. When I met the man I love I knew I was definitley gay. But more recently, getting on a bit, and having discovered dogging, I realise there is a heterosexual side to me which is unsatisfied.
In terms of an emotional relationship and stability, I don't think you can have it both ways even if you see your sexuality as bi. Someone has to be number one in your life and in my case that is another man. I have had a fling with a transvestite and another fling with a female to male transexual. The first made me realise that women's underwear was sexy, even when worn by a man. The second made me realise how sexy female genitalia are, even when on a hairy bearded, tattooed skinhead.
Now I would describe myself as a pussy-starved bi male, who is always on the look out for women who will let me explore their manifold fanny-folds. Some of the sexiest times I have recently had have been in dark car parks on my knees with my head buried in the wonders of a cunt, tongue flicking around clit!
Some people say that makes me a pervert - I don't care. I know what I like and I know I love my man.
One irritation though: I wish straight doggers wouldn't be so defensive about being straight. There is no need to get nasty towards those you think might be gay or bi. A simple "NO" is all that is required if you think someone you don't fancy might be interested in you. No need for the threats. We're all different and need to respect that.
Thanks to all the contributers who have made this such an interesting thread.
Hi
This is my first post on this forum. I've been dogging several years, but have found that many of the S London sites are now closing at night and one in particular near me has become nasty: lots of boy racers and I even encountered a gang of boy rock-throwers who smashed my car window. So I understand the recent caution about public discussion of dogging locations.
I don't much like hanging around outside my car chatting to groups of male doggers, either, though that is one way to pick up info on the latest dogging site developments in the region. I venture out into Kent and Surrey & occasionally north of the river.
So I'm up for swapping info on S London by PM with anyone who's interested.