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Dragonlovers
3 weeks ago
Straight Male, 67
Straight Female, 67
UK

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some folk think kissing is showing 'love' for their partner and should only be kept for their own partners, while others think it's all part of the game.
We've had both types and I enjoy kissing while Dave don't mind either way now (although he says the only time he felt any type of jelousy was when I was snogging our friend when we started out in this game).
Since then though he admits it was something he grew into as we matured as a threesome and doesn't have a problem with me having a snog. now, we just go with the flow of what everyone thinks is ok - but given a chance - I like a snog. lol
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we never do anything without the others say so - although I can believe that some would!
In fact, Dave - although happy to do this, would rather we simply role-play this with a regular friend. After some thought, I agree with him - and we'll keep this as what it started out as - a nice fantasy.
However, thanks for all the input, but we aint stupid and we do know what we're doing although it is nice to see other peoples opinions.
thanks all
I am really cool with this, ideally this would lead to a long-term thing, but the idea is to have fun - I want to make it special for her and believe the mental thing is just as important as the physical thing in a scenario like this.
Looks like I'll have a night or 2 out in the future for a beer and a chat then lol
thanks
Hi there
I have a bit of a dilemma! We have messed around for a bit and met some nice people over the years where we have had lots of sexy fun.
However, her indoors the other night stated that she had a fantasy and would quite like it if I sorted it out for her. So why the problem I hear you ask.
Simply it’s that we have never messed around on first meet always wanting to get to know that the other person was compatible etc etc.
But this fantasy of hers is one where I arrange a meet without her knowing and basically take her to a pub to meet a bloke who invites us over to his place for coffee. I then have to cuddle her and strip her off (she does say at this point she may protest a little – but only a little) and play wit her in front of this other bloke who then joins us for a sexy night.
Now the action with another male is not a problem, after all we all on her for the same thing, the problem is that how the feck do I know that the bloke is the right one when it’s the 1st meet as this is something we have always avoided in the past!
Any comment gratefully received as I really don’t want to mess up her indoors’ fantasy, but I do want to make it as enjoyable for her and all concerned. Plus how do I explain this to a stranger and not appear to be a complete freak or controlling git?
Cheers all
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So you already know the misses then....
Glad she not here to see this lol
yup we watching it - having probs recognising some 'celebs' tho biggrin
Dave likes the young blond....
we're off to portmadog at end of jan for a dirty weekend away, anyone know of any possible safe areas? pm us please for obvious reasons.
tend to agree with Dean, whenever we've been to chams - there has been a lack of single men, so perhaps the prices in clubs need to be reduced slightly
I prefer girls with long hair - that's why I married someone with short hair! weird aint it? anyway, as others have said - different hair for different faces etc etc - but in answer to your question - grow it long.
hope that helps wink
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It's er indoors birthday tomorrow and I'm got limited mobility due to popping an old hernia . So today I was taken to the local shops to get her a card.
Went inside, found the 'Happy Birthday Wife' section in the shop, found a really nice card with the proper sentimental verse and picture of a teddy bear and flowers on it, you know, the ones all girlies like, I paid for card, limped to car, got back home, opened card - excellent sentimental verse etc until the very last line - which read....
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Happy Mother's Day!
boy was I annoyed, I had to fess up to her and she broke down into giggles!
Oh well redface
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Ewwwwwwww no, I taste nicer! :twisted:
mmmmmmm - nice :twisted:
tried it once or twice - very nice but both blokes have to be ok re touching etc - and the woman must have overall control re speed etc - but when it all works - wow!
What I ment to say was - being able to sit and slob with a book - or just doze.
terrible when things come out wrong
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i think it would just end up in a heap of argument as opposed to debate but i honestly think sometimes people can see no further than their own feelings and have little or no consideration for the impact their posts have on others and theirs.

In general, we would agree with that - no make that 98% of the time that def happens wink
Dave's working as some folk have gone sick so we'll have to say we can't come - sorry - hope you all have a good time - jealous now lol
Dave's checking his shifts soon so we are almost a definate - and we're members of Chams
I'm sure there's enough of us proper photographers on here - but I'm willing to bet it's the distance that's the problem.
excellent - bet her face was a picture too - just think of how many others she's since told..... lol