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Ian
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
Straight Female, 56
UK

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Quote by Steve

Virtually what I was going to say. I need the woman to be turned on regardless of situation or it just wont work for me. In the Fantasy world like Belle de jour where she gets off on sexual acts with some of her clients I would be ok that. A hump with a sack of spuds though, does nout for me.

Same for me....
If the lady isn't enjoying it then neither will I.....
Time for the old joke.
How do you make a woman orgasm?
Who cares bolt
Quote by ish
i have always been honest

Yet your profile doesn't state whether you are single or married. Many (possibly the majority) would make up their own mind and decide you are not single and so be crossed off their list.
You've also got photo's on your profile, but they are in your private gallery. No mention of what people need to do to see them. Maybe they are being hidden from somebody dunno
Most threads like this usually go down the route of getting up off your ass and going to some of the many socials being organised. Get yourself known in chat. The more you put in, the more you get back.
Oh but to answer your main question....
I've been here for 9 years this month innocent
Quote by bob60
I have the same problem
can you re-set mine too please
many thanks

done
I will not eat any sandwich with 'and' in the title. White bread only, no goop, just one filling.
simples !
Quote by Greenline
Is it me... or is spelling on here deteriorating and are folk unaware of the spell-checking facility confused:
Just a sign of the times perhaps :?: :sad:

I would much prefer a valid, relevant and possibly informative response to a forum post containing a typo or two than see somebody publically beating a poster for a lapse in the quality of their grammer.
I know of a couple of members who were brought to task over simple spelling mistakes. - They no longer post in these forums. :sad: Need I say any more?
The list of 'banned words' for room names contains mostly the usual words that most normal people would expect. No I'm not going to list them. However we are now finding that people are adding zeros instead of the letter o, or ones instead of the letter i. They are also putting spaces in the word.
Once found, these attempts are also added to the list and the rooms are closed
banghead
Quote by Dawnie
thanks for the mail.
i will be there and im looking forward to it.

I didn't get one sad
I don't know where we are meeting and I want to go dancing :(
I got a mail, but then it was me that asked for us to go on the list.
be nice and I might bring you flipa
It's called the pool for a reason....
Towels on sunbeds spring to mind. I bet if you had a regular role call, half the people logged into that room wouldn't answer.
It used to be a room full of fun and interesting chat, so many people craved being able to log into the room. Now once people get their space they then go off and chat elsewhere. I even know some people that log in as soon as they come home from work, they get their tea and don't even look at a screen for a couple of hours.
Quote by Steve

If I have the lowest emmission car I have to pay road tax of £100

If you have the lowest emmission car you pay £0 ...
wave and i get almost 60 mpg too lol
Quote by pebble
I don't know whether to find it disturbing or amusing that the SH rules actually allow users to "save one copy", though not redistribute.

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/main/terms-and-conditions.html
You may not redistribute images, photos or any personal data that you have found, copied or downloaded from our website. :eeek: dunno
I'm in a similar state of confusion.....
10 o'clock on a weekday evening....
Beach Bar - 125 users = full
Pool - 125 user = full
Jacuzzi - 70 users
three user made rooms each with 100 users = full
In total over 1150 users in chat.
Yep, the sites going to the dogs. I hope something changes soon to make it exciting wink
oh yes, and champions league football is on the telly, so many people won't even be logged on here.
Quote by Funlovers2009
I'm not gonna claim it's the best and hubby says it's too expensive but we're with BT.
Never have any problems.

Been with BT for years as well. Have had a couple of problems with it, but one thing in BT's favour is that they own the telephone lines and they also own the engineers who fix the problems. If you are with another provider who rents bandwidth from BT and you have a problem you are at the end of the queue to get a fix.
If however you want a 'package' of phone, tv and tinterweb, then it is worth looking at that route, but the speed does come with a pricetag.
Personally, I prefer the good old days when we dialled up at to a node in Germany. You logged on, did what you had to do (nothing more) and then shut down quick. lol
Quote by geomorri
she didn't know how she would feel with me seeing her with another man and her seeing me with another woman.

But according to your advert, seeking a couple for yourself, she won't be there so she won't see you dunno
Quote by Jiggle
Excuse my Southern ignorance but where is Broad street ? Thanks

Broad Street is located in the centre of Birmingham, one of the main night life spots. got a good few bars, clubs and restaurants located on it
And it appears on all these police docu-soaps with the binge drinkers causing late night disturbances. lol
Can Dawnie and I be added to the list please.
:beer:
Quote by jon_foxy
We are neither interested in taking pictures of anyone else or posting any that would embarrass ,compromise or upset anyone else .You for one are not in any of them, be it your face,back or any other part of your anatomy.

Thank you. that is all I wanted to know.
Quote by jon_foxy
Please dont worry about appearing in the 'general' facebook world, it wont happen.

My concern would be appearing in ANY photo's uploaded on ANY site that were taken at ANY 'scene' event that would locate me as being present at that event.
Some people are not camera shy. Some of us are.
And yes, I have been in the background of pictures that were uploaded quite recently so it can and does happen.
Quote by Nottspair2008
Can we get on FB to see the pics ??
xx

I'm sure I'm not alone in hoping that I don't appear in the background of any photos that have been uploaded. :shock:
Quote by Sarah
Blimey
Who woke up the classs of 2004 lol
hi gem mike etc

lol :lol:
They are still about!
And we still call em noobies bolt
Quote by sara2010
was they just a member or as memory serves the chat ops do not need a password to enter any room even a passworded one

Chat ops do not need a password. We can enter any room however we would only go into a passworded room if there was a problem. For example if the password was (for example) 'beastiality'. Yes banghead it has already been done. Once the problem had been addressed, it is not good form to stay any longer than necessary.
I will say that we can see the passwords being used, and the vast majority being used are very simple. So my advice would be to choose a more difficult password. dunno
Quote by sara2010
i have enabled it in settings but its still grayed out, i have rebooted and re-enabled to no effect

I had exactly the same problem, until I switched off wifi and booted the application on a 3G signal banghead
Quote by 4ndroid
Great to hear the app is working good, we had a record of downloads this weekend (around 300 new installations).
There will more updates, but now I'll focus on the app for iPhone/Blackberry.

I updated the app at the weekend, and at work today tried to access the map function, just to see what it's like. I wondered how accurate the map would be... If for example 100 people had this function active at a munch, and somebody who was not invited was driving around looking for the venue, would they be able to pin point it dunno
Well it located me to within 50 metres of my location at the time. So, bearing in mind that a munch venue is only notified to those officially on the guest list, it might be worth adding some comment to munch guidelines about attendees turning the option off before travelling there.
Quote by st3v3
The support are absolutely hopeless. They never reply in my experience.

You had a reply to every single ticket that you put in.
Not necessarily with the right answer dunno lol
Quote by fishnchips
ALready using the App to get and respond to messages.
ALso upload pics and vids.
Enjoying it so far.
Although i am going to email the developer to 1. Rename the icon to SH or something and 2. Put a protection feature on it.

once i downloaded the app i then had to make sure nobody else used my phone. I eventually found a free app called VisualizeR (the upper case R is not a typo). This allowed me to make a shortcut icon, and call it what ever i wanted. I could then delete the original SH icon which flashed like a beacon on my phone. Now its much less obvious.
:thumbup: for going droid first
I have a blank profile.
That way I don't appear in random search results from people who I don't know. It used to have some details in it, and I received frequent 'chancer' messages from people who have abosolutely nothing in common with me. They stopped when I cleared my profile.
Perfect !!
On the plus side, I'm in chat pretty much every day. I've made the occasional post on the forums, and have been to countless socials, munches and club meets all over the country. So there are actually other ways of getting to know people.
Quote by foxylady2209
When you are right, no matter what, and won't back down - that's an arguement.
When you have an opinion, but are prepared to be open minded about the final conclusion, based on valid reasoning - that's a discussion.
I will never argue. I hate confrontation just for the sake of it. I will back down, and have great delight in proving people wrong at a later date :twisted:

. Surely if it is possible for you to be 'right' we are talking about a subject under discussion that is factual and therefore verifiable with the right search engine or encyclopedia. A subject about which you can be right or wrong, no opinions needed. If you are right about a fact you should not back down - ever. You could choose to stop discussing the subject with whoever is wrong, and presumably sticking to their inaccuracy for some reason, but to say 'no, I am wrong' even when you know yourself to be right is utterly demeaning.
Now, if you are saying that you are sticking to your opinion (on a subject that doesn't have verifiable facts) as being 'right', then the same stands. It's you opinion - you are entitled to hold it regardless of anyone else's opinion. If you find their point of view compelling then, by all means, choose to modify your own as a result. But, again, backing down (as opposed to stepping away, opinion and dignity intact) is surely wrong and damaging to you.
All the above is, of course, my opinion - feel free not to share it. biggrin
ok the type of scenario I was attempting to put across. You are on holiday, in an unknown town. "it's this way to the beach" "no it's not it's this way". In theory both people could be right. Unless I can see a sign to 'le beach', I would never enforce my guess, gut feeling, hunch or opinion (call it what you like) on the people I'm with.
I would be more than happy to accept the other persons directions - and then when we are lost insist they buy the icecreams and cold drinks.
Nothing at all to do with loss of dignity. If we arrive at the beach, it would have been insulting to my peers to have even suggested my way in the first place. If they were wrong, I have the moral highground (and an ice cream).
I don't seek supremacy or superiority. Bearing in mind most of the arguements I could have (should I be vindictive) would be with close friends and relatives what possible benefit could I be rewarded with? Making those people I care about feel like shit? Good call :thumbup:
I'm sure I know somebody that could give a pair of shoes to everybody, and still have some left bolt
When you are right, no matter what, and won't back down - that's an arguement.
When you have an opinion, but are prepared to be open minded about the final conclusion, based on valid reasoning - that's a discussion.
I will never argue. I hate confrontation just for the sake of it. I will back down, and have great delight in proving people wrong at a later date :twisted: