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Venusmist
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 44
0 miles · Swindon

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refereeing the kids! By that i mean that ensuring they dont tear any essential limbs of each other or break anything irreplacable lol .
I did a massive house clear and clean yesterday starting at 5am so other than a quick swish with the dettol and a hoover tonight i wont be doing anything else!
yes, and ive been guilty of thinking the same before i became one!
As a single parent i come accross negativitiy everywhere including in the bank! Peoples whole attitudes change as soon as they realise!
However i was once one of those people, and i now have the good grace to admit i was wrong! I put every single mum in the same box and it was totally unjustified and unfair!
It means i'm gonna fall over!
Every morning i meet a lovely old fella who is totally blind, and walking his guide dog (dog off duty for walkies), so he uses his stick.
Our dogs run off to play and he invariably hears me walking up behind him and each and every time trips me over! that little rubber end manages to buckle my knee each time! lol
But on a serious note it should mean that everyone is a little more careful (and in my case - cautious)and respectful of peoples limitations!
depends on what you want?
beach holiday then south coast or cornwall
hills, isolation, great pubs, lovely locals and pure tranquility - yorkshire dales :inlove: :inlove: my favourite place on earth
mountain climbing- highlands
plenty of lovely citys too for the city break crowd!
something different - canal boat on the norfolk broads
venus x
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We've had one of these for years now. It wasn't cheap but it's the Duracell of vibes.... it goes on... and on.... and on..... and on..... You get the picture ;-)
And it's mains powered so doesn't run down at the crucial time. cool

bleeding eck! ow much! :shock: :shock:
i'd have to save me pennies if I was going to be purchasing one of them! especially as all the attatchments come at an extra cost! :shock:
It must be good lol lol
White lies like santa tooth fairy easter bunny etc then yes!
My daughter firmly believes that when the pet bunny died he was collected by the black rabbit and has gone to play with all the other bunnies from watership down! - well it was favourite film at the time! redface
Serious lies that will/could affect them for the rest of their lives? no... although i will hide the whole truth until they ask/are old enough to know.
When my little girl at the ripe old age of 3 wanted to know where babies came from :shock: I went out and bought some books! My favourite being "where willy went - the story of a little sperm". Its a lovely story and very very funny (from an adults point of view), that skims lightly over the sex part but explains everything in as much details as i think she "needs" to know yet! However if she asks me exactly how the baby gets in there then i will tell her! i certainly wont lie!

When me and ex split up, we explained things in a way she could understand (as much as any young child can understand their parents seperating), and yes i have hidden the full truth from her, again until she is of an age she can understand or until she asks, i will never lie to her. I've also taken stepts to try and help avoid the angry teenager blaming mummy thing.
The most important thing to me was that she still felt loved and that she was still part of a family, so i've spent alot of time explaining that families come in all shapes and sizes. That mummy and daddy love her no matter where they are and no matter where she is etc etc etc. I cannot bear to see people who use children as weapons/spies. A very good friend of mind has also recently seperated and her 2 year old daughter comes out with the most horrid obscenities about her dad, this i know will come back to bite her.
God i'm waffling now! time to shut up i think, like missy i knew where i was going when i started to type but ive lost me way a bit! surprisedops:
Venus x

ok its not totally right but its the best i can do! off to bed now lol early night me thinks!
ok i am that bored i'm gonna do it for others too! redface surprisedops:

that'll do for now i think :oops: . lol i shouldnt be so bored!
Well being bored this evening i decided to go on the hunt for a decent avatar! I googled various themes on my name and then tried googling my name and typing "logo" after.
Well i found some lovely ones lol

venus xx
i spoke to soon!!!
:censored: :censored: :taz: :taz: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell:
anyone out there in admin/techie land looking into this?
:giveup: :giveup: i surrender lol!
ven
I've got a teddy too, it was the one my son was given by scbu when he "graduated" and came home! He has never shown any interest in it! But it means alot to me so its always on my bed redface .
venus x
Well ive managed to break my rabbit redface (of the non fluffy kind) and have decided its time i invested in a new toy! wink
The one i quite fancy is the fun factory delight.:

But i'm open to suggestions!
Whats your favourite toy and why?
Which toy would you love to try?
ven x
as a lady with short hair (and once had very long hair) i say keep it short! But ultimatly its up to you and what the end look is that you want to achieve!
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OK, now I'm not even getting a disconnected message - I'm just left there to hang...
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x

me to!
well to update my comments on the "not working" thread, now i cant get into chat as it tries to take me to server 2 and the damn thing just never loads. it doesnt matter which way i load the chatroom either.
venus x
ok so its not my thing, i enjoy anal sex but i dont want to put my tongue or have anothers tongue there!
It makes me tense up and halts my enjoyment. As an enjoyer of anal sex you would think i wouldnt have an issue but i just cant seem to get over than hang up!
However i do totally see why others would love it! If there is a trick to enjoyment please tell me! cool
venus x
Glad your feeling better misskitty!
I'm off for one next week!, mind you i'm not worried, they used to be really really painful for me too, but i think thats down to who was doing them!
We now have a new female doctor who is fantastic ( i too have them every 6mo), and she even made having the mirena coil insterted much less painful and unpleasant than the stories i had been told!
She jokes, tells tales, makes you laugh and relax which really really helps! she also has a fantastic sexy scots accent redface (i shouldnt have said that!)
venus x
having chatted to some friends on msn it seems were not the only ones - although some have managed to get in dunno .
So to the people in the know! any ideas?
venus x
Is there a problem with server 2? each time i try to go there i get disconnected and an error message that says the problem has been sent to the techincal support team.
venus x