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VoyeurJ
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
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Myself personally id get my head down, find a skill in a sector that has roles and would take a basic position, I believe its always easier to find a new better role when your already in one. Some out there just lack any work ethic whatsoever. I have no issues with anyone from another country living in Britain as long as they bring something and are willing to graft too. How can anyone not work if they can because they would get less is beyond me completely. Maybe one in that works for one here out that wont would work too. Once again just my opinion but hey .. I dont have a clue as you said about how the benefits or dss works. Ive friends on the dole that havent got up before 11am for decades and brought kids into the world knowing they couldnt afford to provide for them. Id not be able to live with that and having one im determined to give her the best start in life I can. Surely any person with kids out of work will try even harder to provide for them. Maybe im just old fashioned and my priorities are different too. But you have to admit, it should never have been allowed to happen and with so many.
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But being serious for once .. we are too soft on them and they need a kick up the arse .. not a house upgrade and more benefits .. we working people pay for them to move into houses hard working families cant afford ... cant be right surely
J

Them? Who are them exactly? It could be you or anyone of us. The researches say around 68% of working people are only 3 pay packets away from being absolutely skint. You may be one of the lucky ones but there are a lot of people out there through no fault of their own, find themselves in need from the State.
You know with people with attitudes like yours above with the rather harsh comment of ' we working people ',I wonder matey how safe is your job? If you lost your job I wonder how you would feel with some smart arse taxpayer belittling you with those kinds of comments.
By saying the things you say, you really have not got a bloody clue matey.
Evening Starlights,
I appreciate that some people get hurt and cant work but the vast majority wont get out to work because the last government created a situation where they would bring home less money working than on benefits. It is simply an opinion and everyones is different. I believe you make your own luck in life. I have and continually work studying after work still to ensure I don't have to consider unemployment. In the current climate I think everyone working has a right to be a bit humpty with whole housing estates on benefit. At least get them out fixing roads, litter collecting etc. The polish arriving these days that Ive bumped into may be in the minimum rate jobs here but they take them and graft. Is that too much to ask? If you allow long term benefits without work, how on earth do you expect them to join the workforce. All they have to do is find something they enjoy, retrain themselves and be willing to start at the bottom. There are jobs out there, they just believe they are below them and too poorly paid. Which is why I think if you create a max length if not injured then they have to take a job available at the bottom, that'd be a start. I wasnt belittling anyone but if you dont agree we have at least two generations now who only know their parents sitting at home claiming benefits. Those will think that is perfectly normal too. What kind of example is that to set. Toughen up on it and all would regain a work ethic and should begin to climb the career ladder learning new skills along the way. I agree I have a lack of clues in many areas but working hard, doing well and achieving id say my clues are well up to scratch. I didnt mean to belittle at all. Just dont understand how labours social consience and lack of ability bordering on incompetence causes people to believe they deserve a handout. Id personally be ashamed getting handouts and ive worked hard, studied hard to ensure I never have to.
Apologies if i have caused upset to anyone, but simply my opinion, clueless or not I believe it should be made tougher and the country would benefit from getting the huge number on benefits out in the morning to work.
What would you suggest for the capable long term on benefits then? Do you think its right that an unemployed couple with 6 kids can live in a 6 bedroom house on benefits that most middle paid workers couldnt afford to rent?
J
I am not going to dissect all of that VoyeurJ as too much even for me. I found myself out of work for a while. Dodgy employers out there can now get away with employing immigrants for the minimum wage allowed by law, to do jobs like bricklaying, bathroom fitting heating engineers etc. Jobs that British workers could not afford to take. Can you imagine a skilled bricklayer wanting to work for an hour? Of course if you are lucky enough to be an employer, employing Polish bricklayers for the minimum wage, then of course you are laughing all the way to the bank and beyond but.....if you are a skilled brickie who knows only that trade living with a mortgage and two kids, how the heck can he possibly survive on that low amount of money?
On the one hand we had the unions squeezing the employers by the balls at every opportunity, and now the roles have kinds reversed as they can now employ cheap labour. What I get a bit pissed off about is when a taxpayer puts every out of work person in the same dole scrounging box. I am not a scrounger, I have worked hard all of my life and paid my dues. I would therefore expect some kind of help from the State for all the years of paying in. There are of course jobs out there but most paying the minimum wage of - an hour. Could you survive on that?
When you say dropping, is it from laptop to router or from router to telco? Id bring everything back to basics including turning off security briefly. Then build back up until you add whats causing the issue.
1. Disconnect all phones and your sky tv phone cable, plug the filter and your router dsl cable into the master socket.
2. Take a look at the stats on the setup page on the router, it will tell you noise levels and max up down speeds
3. If that remains stable and improves then its one of your phones or something connected into another socket to blame
4. If not then get yourself a new router. I had issues with my BT net gear but turned off the wireless on it and only use it as a modem with an apple extreme for the wireless here. No problems since.
5. Another quick thing is to see if you can hear any crackling using your phone, thats a sign of high noise on your line. But the setup page on your router will tell you exactly and look in its logs too, you may get some good hints there as well.
If it is the exchange check if you can get BT Infinity, that goes into an entirely different new exchange if its available. Less people on those too which means less slow down in the evening and weekends and higher bandwidth with less issues.
J
Good place to go would be Hedonism II in Jamaica .. its holidaying with other swingers but in the sun all inclusive. Cant get much better than that i reckon.
J
Dont see what the fuss is all about .. apart from the pork in the halal .. thats hilarious lol but you want a better chance of most being beef .. go to the butchers or waitrose .. if its in lidl or tesco .. its cheap because .. you get what you pay for usually .. if you eat meat you have probably eaten other animals you wouldnt chose to eat.
But going back to the start of this topic. .. i say they should be grateful of anyone in any kind of vehicle turning up to help out. Otherwise its pure ungratefulness. We need to realise that we have it really easy here and stop whining about some shergar in your cheap deal burgers and lasagne ... wonder whats in the findus fish fingers ... a bit of dolphin or a tad of sea horse
Go organic .. its good for you and must be all beef too .. now who is up for a roast .. you cook as i cannot.
J
Nice pair of staypress trousers and a white fred perry i bought .. love clothes now still .. tell a lot about someone what they dress like and wear .. heard its good shoes, posh watch and no white socks and your in with a chance .. so fickle the ladies arent they lads
J
Im not religious at all and have had to cope with the effects of a couple of religions and their version of what their book says.. If they didnt have hotlines to take money from you they may be a bit more believable but id love to have the levels of faith some have in something. Just cant take religion seriously here.
Only ever leads to death and carnage by their fundamentalist translation of their book.
If god was around he cant be so busy to stop some of the bad things happening .. and why do the followers only answer he moves in mysterious ways when asked why ?
Only good thing is Xmas lol .. and santa failed me this one too. Most believe because of fear or they are getting near the end.
We are simply the apex predator and got lucky .. we die we turn to compost or ash and thats it ... well i hope so or im proper fooked as ill be on the down escalator to the fiery hell.
Faith id love to evolve in, religion are regressing with less and less flock every week. The harry chrishna mob look fun though .. thats what im talking about but wouldnt pull off the bald head and orange frock ..
If you havent ever followed the big man and done some pretty bad things .. how long would it take after finding god before you had a chance with an angel then?
J
The other posts from the other night were typed in a proper messy state hic .. and just paid a huge tax bill after that comedian got the little loophole closed ... but got away with some corporation tax so not so humpty now,. Just trying in vain to justify my harsh but my beliefs comment from the other night.
Im quite decent and not ever miserable or grumpy mostly .. just when in forums somehow go on my box and tell everyone they are wrong and we should kill em all.
So ill try and be less clueless from now on but unless you take the benefits away from them they wont work. If you have nothing you will always overcome and adapt and provide .. well I hope they would.
I actually got an interns first report the other day and he used actual text type in it :O holy fook .. like using b4 and u and wkday !!!
His first job after getting a degree and he cant type in English ... bet he can shoot a head off on call of duty from 2 miles though.
We are Dooooooooomed lol
J
Hey Flower long time no read, few grammatical errors, bit long but yip .. makes sense to me. In short ..
Our TA will be needed soon because of cuts
I did my time defending the realm, it was fantastic and gave me many skills still used now.
People with records are disqualified from entry mostly, shame as some would flourish after basic training
We should take the weapons off the US National Guard, they shot at our convoy in 91 with A10's and thats not good at all.
So I have a question now .... back when national service was statutory, was our country a better place for all? Since then has every day living in lots of places plumetted too? Would we be better as a nation if we sent our armchair analysts to some harsh places to kick ass and make them appreciate what a super place to call home is?
It may sound like I dont have a clue but my opinions are based on physical experience not what i've seen on the news. It may read harsh but jeeeez some dont deserve to own a UK passport at all.
The biggest thing that caused my rants in here is that the long term unemployed who could work don't even seem embarrassed about it. Moan about not getting enough or a big enough house for their 5 children and have no intention of getting things on track.
I applaud the ones who retrain and try to improve .. my post may have read like i was generalising about all, so only 2 things cause rants, people critising our country and people defending work dodgers.
Another long one but hey ... come on flower, we have bantered previously ... opposite in opinion then too but what do you think about long term benefit dwellers. Tough or more money and bigger houses for them.
Ranting again but hey ... one thread I find totally outrageous .. how can anyone complain about getting less per week for doing nothing ... beggers belief ...
Generally people serving in the TA have jobs too, and we are having to rely on them soon as the cut backs in the Army will stretch our forces even more.
Id love national service to return for everyone. Its what made a decent man of myself. Good bit of discipline, travel and lots of life experience with a bit of knowing how easy it is to be a gonner in a contact. Gave me the drive and ambition to get on and the ability to adapt and overcome too.
Its a shame the entry levels are so high for the army too, some low level criminals if they could get in would flourish in the army. Id never go back in but im thankful for my education and experiences in the army.
It has given me some opinions and views that are totally black and white without grey that im sure you have read and not agreed with. One thing I know for sure is if you could get a near death experience once a month there is nothing you couldnt achieve. Best kick up ones ass possible.
Our army actually helped out recently in the floods so they do emergency cover already. They were lined up during the recent strikes too, but agree, give unemployed peeps work instead of benefits and if they hate it they will soon find a better job. They just dont have to be arsed right now.
They US should take the weapons off the US National guard though, they are mostly guilty for blue on blue attacks.
J
How on earth did I miss Wales :O lol
Thanks Rogue, know far more about ruggers now after a weekend in the chat being told off for chatting about footie again ahem ahem
I admire all professional sportsmen really, but some of those primadonnas bring in far more money over their contract than they get paid. The top few are competition winners and cant have a price put on them. Dont know what his new recently signed contract is but his last one (Messi) was £35mil per year before image rights and sponsor payments. In my view he is worth every penny too as players such as Messi fill the camp nou every second Sat. Only the top 10 per cent make the kind of money people believe all make. Corruption is in amateur sport too, anything that can be gambled on attracts the mobsters and brown envelops I say.
As an ex player and fan id be distraught if my team lost due to a dodgy team mate. But hey ive never heard of even the biggest divers in footie take a blood capsule out and fake injury :O
I have a mate who plays in the aviva and he wears a silly hat and pads under his shirt!! And you call footie players prima donnas lol
He even has his name and number embroidered on his boots .. seems the rugger chaps are becoming all football like
How do the clubs maintain the pay levels, which are decent now in the pro rugby league with only 4000 at a home game. Just doesnt add up to me, are they subsidised by the national organisation. My mates last team was and then went bust.
There is new financial rules coming for footie, but they wont work as Man City just got a 300mil sponsor deal for their stadium and Man U got another silly amount from DHL for their training tops. What the Americans do would be better.. draft every season to spread the skill around then the lower clubs would either get to the top or sell on a player for a huge sum.
I must have used man maths tipsy when i asked why there were only five too, cheers again and my bets on the ruggers are buggered already lol
J
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But being serious for once .. we are too soft on them and they need a kick up the arse .. not a house upgrade and more benefits .. we working people pay for them to move into houses hard working families cant afford ... cant be right surely
J

Them? Who are them exactly? It could be you or anyone of us. The researches say around 68% of working people are only 3 pay packets away from being absolutely skint. You may be one of the lucky ones but there are a lot of people out there through no fault of their own, find themselves in need from the State.
You know with people with attitudes like yours above with the rather harsh comment of ' we working people ',I wonder matey how safe is your job? If you lost your job I wonder how you would feel with some smart arse taxpayer belittling you with those kinds of comments.
By saying the things you say, you really have not got a bloody clue matey.
Evening Starlights,
I appreciate that some people get hurt and cant work but the vast majority wont get out to work because the last government created a situation where they would bring home less money working than on benefits. It is simply an opinion and everyones is different. I believe you make your own luck in life. I have and continually work studying after work still to ensure I don't have to consider unemployment. In the current climate I think everyone working has a right to be a bit humpty with whole housing estates on benefit. At least get them out fixing roads, litter collecting etc. The polish arriving these days that Ive bumped into may be in the minimum rate jobs here but they take them and graft. Is that too much to ask? If you allow long term benefits without work, how on earth do you expect them to join the workforce. All they have to do is find something they enjoy, retrain themselves and be willing to start at the bottom. There are jobs out there, they just believe they are below them and too poorly paid. Which is why I think if you create a max length if not injured then they have to take a job available at the bottom, that'd be a start. I wasnt belittling anyone but if you dont agree we have at least two generations now who only know their parents sitting at home claiming benefits. Those will think that is perfectly normal too. What kind of example is that to set. Toughen up on it and all would regain a work ethic and should begin to climb the career ladder learning new skills along the way. I agree I have a lack of clues in many areas but working hard, doing well and achieving id say my clues are well up to scratch. I didnt mean to belittle at all. Just dont understand how labours social consience and lack of ability bordering on incompetence causes people to believe they deserve a handout. Id personally be ashamed getting handouts and ive worked hard, studied hard to ensure I never have to.
Apologies if i have caused upset to anyone, but simply my opinion, clueless or not I believe it should be made tougher and the country would benefit from getting the huge number on benefits out in the morning to work.
What would you suggest for the capable long term on benefits then? Do you think its right that an unemployed couple with 6 kids can live in a 6 bedroom house on benefits that most middle paid workers couldnt afford to rent?
J
Only count 5 in it, and how did Italy randomly get in too? No idea about ruggers but where is the 6th one.
Dont agree its the best game still, even cricket rights get bought by sky ... not shown on the Beeb. Where do the 90000 fans at Twickenham go on Saturdays when premiership rubgy is played. Big teams get around 8000 tops.
You lot sure its the nations best game then? Doesn't add up at all ... Accrington Stanley get more in the Vauxhall conf and on sky sometimes too.
Anyway if it was a top sport, they would get paid appropriately and be on sky. Like footie is ... beautiful game for the world and still the only way you can rise from a council estate in London to a global superstar and brand ..
Just messing, but why is it 6 not 5 then?
J
Thought they resigned when they popped off to heaven! Do the public in general really have an opinion after all the scandals and the pope covering them up! Im not remotely religious and even I cant understand why you would put your faith in that lot after so many horrid things and all covered up till a big ago.
Id love to have such faith in something but think religions a crutch for weak people to use to escape their world. Never mind its to blame for almost every war known to man.
Ever been to the vatican.. more gold than round MR Ts neck.. wonder how many people could be helped worldwide if they sold it all.
Sounds like a scam to me... I have been known to be cynical and at times incorrect. This time I'm sure though... Call 0845 xxx xxx with your card now and we can pay off another family with it.
Wonder who he hands his resignation in to lol next boss up is the big man upstairs ... must have been caught at a bunga bunga with top man MR Berlusconi ..
J
If your in lidl buying meat and its a quid a pound ... you really surprised its part mystery meat with some beef in it.
If your hungry you will eat it .. its apparently organised crime that has spread the horse meat around. Inventive lot, but jeeez if you eat sausages or hot dogs .. worry about there contents..
Good for the local butchers though, they must be doing a roaring trade now after this one. Great to think too.
J
Bit controversial but why do we insist on long term benefits and house upgrades as out of work parents expand their family they cant already support. Give everyone 4 months benefits then they stop. Lots of jobs available but none they want to get up for .. then they can contribute like normal people and the UK saves a fortune while getting all the low level jobs filled .. I have never claimed benefits and would be embarrassed to have to. Few years of hard but needed reform would at least give us a future generation that knows work isnt watching jeremy kyle and claiming benefits for life.
You do follow your parents growing up.. two generations of illiterate dole dwellers at least now. We need to toughen up not worry if the recent reforms are punishment lol ... they need it to jolt them back into grafting normal buy your own house type of people.
Id be a great prime minister ... with Bob Diamond as Chancellor and Megan Fox as my PA
But being serious for once .. we are too soft on them and they need a kick up the arse .. not a house upgrade and more benefits .. we working people pay for them to move into houses hard working families cant afford ... cant be right surely
J
First was for Macmillen cancer doing a parachute jump and the 2nd most recent one was for Help For Heroes ..
I used to give a bit to the collectors before they wanted a direct debit and refused a tenner ...
Charity begins at home too i think .. why do we send millions overseas and cant treat our soldiers is beyond me ..
Working in Africa right now too ... Its not like on Bobs music vid but not even near the civilised world in many places ... Trying to get them closer by putting banking facilities in tribal villages ... so doing my bit for the world ... well thats what i tell myself or id be as morally corrupt as my Mum told me when she found out what I was upto ...
Doing a new one in the Summer for Help for Heroes again .. ill be back with the link for your sponsor money around Jun .. group of mates are doing 3 marathons in 3 countries in 3 days ... gotta be worth at least 20 surely.
I hope to get over the 2k mark this time ... anyone else doing something exciting for charity soon then?
Id do another for help for heroes or children in need ... one deserves our full help the other is just embarrassing we need charity to help with.
Cheers
J
What was up with them? They are bred to be worn and eaten I thought! You see dead animals every visit to waitrose, jeeeez a fox every 2nd Sunday and some sheep ...really worth the RSPCA or being stressed about.
Worse things are killed daily but hey ... Just how it is eh
J smile
Didn't every medal winning Olympic person get an obe. Imagine if England ever managed to win the footy World Cup. All knighted and two weeks holiday for everyone. Only sport that would, rugby and cricket just don't cut it. Footy is still what every boy dreams of, rugby is watched by around 4000 at prem level and one of the 6 nations captains is paid 170000 too. Around the England footy captains image rights lol
Put 20 on Ireland ... And 20 on Scotland getting the spoon again.
One is a certainty ... Silly game and the ears ... Ewwwwww
Knowing and doing are very different things first firefight! Until your in it you just don't know with any rank! Still one of the best trained armies in the world too. Do an amazing job too, but stormin did the biz in 91 and will be missed by all who served and serve.
We need ones like him to keep the bad ones on their toes?
Tough job that and even more so now with the tree jiggers going on about why and poor people over in the Mid East.
Rip norm and thanks for the fun times raising hell apache and a10 style
J
How can a fresh out if sh officer know what to do in the contact. We said yes sir then asked the sgt what to do ... Experience over Eton for me ... Harry and his apache did superb though so not all from there are useless ... Or killed and named in the chapel smile
May be different now but some other grunts prob now ...
J
If it works and you get the horn if disabled get the girls in? Stops the nurses getting harassed too I'd think?
Fun, better if its welcome though. Part of the build up when meeting someone new to flirt at I say
J
0% English ... Dads family is viking swede mums is clan Mcloed ... Very British though ... No one apart from the English like the English I heard ... Won't be any true English soon anyway .... All sorts making international babies ... Thank god the queens still around ... Now she is English and rocks too.
Oh god played for Liverpool when they were winners .. Number 7 used the name Dalglish .... Was at Celtic but hey .... Even god has to start amongst dirty micks with terrorist republican fans ....
Asked him for his daughters mobi ... Thought I was after his autograph ... Didn't like it it appeared ... Is the god thing real then? Seems like a tax for idiots for priests to bugger to me?
If it is I'm fooked and off to the firey hell after my capers ahem ahem ... Were the crusades after he got done by the Romans? Oops his son that one .. If after we took it off the filthy Saracens Jesus technically could play for England ... Still wouldn't get past the quarters lol
Surely cock size is more calculated as beats increase with weight? Get the docs finger in the bum every jan for bupa etc ...
Must be another way surely ... All good for another year though ... Mate just got free of ball cancer and didn't look great bald lol get checked people? Or your doomed if one in the three that gets the C curse
J
For a small island to remain a super power is still amazing. We ruled the world well most of it way back, why would anyone vote labour after the mess they made is beyond me. Incompetent beyond belief. Opened the gates and let anyone I then gave them benefits and a flat. Big Dave is doing ok, I'd be happy if we got out the euro human right contract labour signed. Why do we have to live by euro law if not fully member ?
Ed balls would fuck it up even more if they got back in. Social conscience over common sense doesn't work unless your a hook handed terrorist living on benefits racking up a huge legal aid and court bill...l
Bring back Maggie, she would shoot any lazy dole dwellers and sell the bits of public sector anyone would buy and make Britain great again?
She at least rewarded success and didn't allow failure. She would have told the euros to fook off and then send a task force to kick there arse for going bankrupt with their failed currency.
If we didn't give millions to poor countries for warlords to steal and only gave the useless generation 3 months benefits ... Id have to pay less tax and those IRA monsters would never have got to meet queenie! Outrageous ... Imagine Osama popping in to meet Barack ... We could learn from US policy I believe? It worked in Belfast before we could only shoot them if we got shot first? Not a European one iota? Swore an oaf to the queen to protect and serve and did. If we didn't get almost bankrupt by labour we could have given the loans and owned the lot along with china lol
So I'd like out of the euro loony law bit but think its stronger to be at the table even if we pay way too much to do so. At least Dave got the amount to be the same this year.
I'll go with him next election. Great for business and dropped the punish success tax down from 50%
Only had one of each and loved watching more in the mmf .... But had way more fun in the ffm. Would love to try both again to see which I prefer too.
Or even a mmffmf x must be enough here to all find out what it is about threesomes .... Need a big bed though
J
Worked for stormin in 91 supporting 1st air cavs apache teams first in Iraq then into Kuwait. Tactics won it quickly with minimum casualtys for us, rip stormin and oooorah from me.
Better to be led by soldiers who have soldiers as opposed to sand hurst ones who never leave the hotel in the safety zone ... Didn't see one Brit above lt over there.
Proud of our troops and the work they do. Keeps us all safe mostly too.
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Welcome back voy', hope you enjoy this time around. The term "VWE" hails from a popular old tale, based in the land of "Oz", where, you may remember, the "ruler" was magic.

Thanks skinny ... The British ruled there and gave you our criminals to build a nation with...
Everything that moves there will kill you too .... You from oz then?
I'm a busy chap and have had to cancel at times. I enjoy chat here and genuine too. Thanks for the tips too, I brought money and loans to several Masai tribes in Tanzania for a big bank trevs.. It's apparently an untapped market ... It's deffo a shite hole. Gave them all current accounts and a pen. Nice people but shocking living conditions.
Was kidding about misery etc too ... Even the 3rd world needs a local branch smile
They stole 3 sat dishes though ... 2 set in 3m concrete .... Cheeky fooks
Oh and my image is fine, it's my typing and logging in pished I meant was needing help. Jeeeeez lots of diamonds on huge watch wearing only gucci on the f430 is an amazing image surely :)
J
Wow, as a single man who hasn't noticed the recession its strange to read about lack of meets then all men should be banished. Choice is good and not all are time wasters or twats. Single women in here are those too. How much is it here? It's not so much it's gonna be caused by recession. It's an opportunity when in one. I've made more since 2008 crash so not an excuse at all
J