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bustermarine

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2 Sep 2006

I d like to thank everybody that replied to my post,it has been v your new to this scene like myself and my wife its very difficult to know whats right and whats wrong,sometimes i feel the more experienced players put pressure on us newbies because we dont always know the glad to say that we have never felt under pressure enough where our opinions and our use of condoms have been rejected.
I started the post because a couple that we met on the ads insisted that if we were to go any further then bareback was gonna be the only she was well nice on the eyes ,but not that nice for us to risk our health,so we reponse was that it was our loss because she was a" dirty little cum lovin slut".Charming.
If you play with fire one day you WILL get burnt.
Again thank you everyone. lol

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1 Sep 2006

whats the right thing to do?some women will only except bareback,i do my self really but there are obvious health issues,what do most people think?
Let me refrase,,,,i like bareeback with my wife obviously but resently been in touch with a couple thatwant to take things further but she insists that it s bareback..
I know all the heath issues and would never put myself or my wife in danger,i just wanted to know what others thought.
i often wonder what these people who call themselves cum loving sluts really have any care about themselves

14 Dec 2005

Quote by freckledbird
ops was wondering if any one could tell me what SCAT was as i looked on this site in the words bit and got no joy but i have seen it mentioned in some adds and was querious :P

Have you tried Google?
(It's not nice, by the way)
Okay okay wish id never asked,not into that no way anyway sad

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14 Dec 2005

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ops was wondering if any one could tell me what SCAT was as i looked on this site in the words bit and got no joy but i have seen it mentioned in some adds and was querious :P

7 Nov 2005

can you tell me what it means when somebody says that i can add them to my messenger ?

3 Nov 2005

Joined: 27 Sep 2005
Location: somerset
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 2:14 pm Post subject: Any club in Geneva Switzerland
Hiya all, My wife and myself are going to geneva Switzerland next week and we were woundering if there is a scene over there or any swinging clubs in the area of the football stadium,If you can help please thanks

3 Nov 2005

i have put a topic on the forum and now it has been locked,have i done something wrong cos im totally unaware if i have.

3 Nov 2005

Quote by bustermarine
Hello everyone as the title says im new here on the forums, saw the good conversations you people had on here so i thought that i'd register. Once again hello and hope to chat to most of you in time.
Chris

Hiya Chris W so glad you took my advice,maybe youve found your niche in life
Sorry chris86 i think i got the wrong person ,never mind ,but welcome to the world of indifference

3 Nov 2005

Quote by chris86
Hello everyone as the title says im new here on the forums, saw the good conversations you people had on here so i thought that i'd register. Once again hello and hope to chat to most of you in time.
Chris

Hiya Chris W so glad you took my advice,maybe youve found your niche in life

3 Nov 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Welcome to Swingingheaven forums
Good luck in what you seek
Steph
Tho I would have one reservation if I was a fella - You have just joined and you are asking a lot of trust from the guys by taking photos - what is going to happen to the said photos? Think about it. They wont know you and you are asking them to blindfold your wife without her seeing them and then pleasure her The pics could tell a different story (each person's story is another person's interpretation). Sorry if this sounds harsh but Swinging gets enough bad press.

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Theres nobody on this whole site that talks more sense than Sexysteph,(like the new picture ,when do we get to see more of you?)

3 Nov 2005

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Hiya all, My wife and myself are going to geneva Switzerland next week and we were woundering if there is a scene over there or any swinging clubs in the area of the football stadium,If you can help please thanks

29 Oct 2005

Quote by steveg_nw
Have a look in the 'help' section:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/main/help.html#photo-ads-11
You can get a trial version of Paintshop Pro that's pretty easy to drive from the link in there.
Steve

Mate thanx for the link i got it sorted out now ,see im not computer thick after all .CHEERS MATE

29 Oct 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
you can use photoshop, paint, fireworks to reduce the normal pic size down hun or pm me and I will give you my email addy and I have some time on my hands this afternoon - I'll do them for you.
Steph

Thanx for the offer of you help,but ive sussed it out
I think your one of the most helpful people i have never met what a top girl.

29 Oct 2005

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Im havin a right nightmare loading my photos on my set my camera at its lowest setting for pictures ,converted the pictures to jpeg but dont know how to reduce photo down to 50 mb or whatever it should be,Please to sound like a complete computer nerd but im not really.

10 Oct 2005

Cheers Sexysteph. you always give good advice

10 Oct 2005

Sorry for the storm that i kicked up,as im new to all this im learning quite quick,maybe ill take things slowly and just get a feel of the way things to cause a no im not working for any paper or sorry sad

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8 Oct 2005

What would the response be if i was to hold a party at a country house in wildest somerset and would people come or show an interest as we are very new to this. biggrin

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7 Oct 2005

Quote by taysha
Or - go to a club and shag a stranger - it all works

It think that's the route we were going to work towards.
We considered just going to a club at first to "sample the atmosphere" without necessarily joining in. Just to try and get comfortable with the idea. Is that acceptable? Would we be kicked out for not joining in?

Quote by sarah
Where in the country are you?

We're in the West Mids / South Staffordshire.....
you are so like myself and my wife were ready but not totally, i think once you start you never stop it can only make your relationship better

6 Oct 2005

Quote by marmalaid

I may need to remember this advice :shock:

Shut yer yap and follow me!
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Where babe,where

6 Oct 2005

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Well myself and my wife would love to go to a club soon but our fear is that we may be obliged to do some stuff when were not really ready,would it be acceptable to go to a club and get a feel so to say and not have to play with others without the locals thinking we are just voyeurs? confused

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: Any nice poeple out there to give us some advice?

28 Sep 2005

Simon im in the same position as you but we have dicussed it ,shes a little bit aprehesive so i think weÂ´ll go to a club and just look and chat and be reassured that we wont do anything that we individually dont want to do ,if you love the wife this can either split you up or make you stronger smile

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27 Sep 2005

hiya steph ,sorry to sound vague but if i found the site in spain maybe others out here will find it,and also how sexy are you coz the pic looks promising

27 Sep 2005

Im new as well so hello and i hope you have a good time

27 Sep 2005

Any body into the scene in the costa blanca,havin trouble finding anyone out there. biggrin

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:D

27 Sep 2005

lol

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im the newest here and a little bit nervous for a brave this the start to a new life