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daniNmat
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 50
Straight Female, 53
0 miles · Berkshire
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Warming the Bed
Well you could give it a try - if nothing else, it's a relaxing way to spend an hour (not that I couldn't think of others 
) & seems to have good results - Matt's focused on finding a point in his life when he felt wonderful (he said the first time he held our firstborn) & imposing that feeling when he started to feel stressed & nervous. The first few times we went out I noticed that he would cross his arms, sort of like when you are holding a baby, but that stopped pretty soon after & I can take him anywhere now!
(Going to test that to the max soon on an inaugural visit to a club!
)
BTW we are :lol2: at your signature!
) & seems to have good results - Matt's focused on finding a point in his life when he felt wonderful (he said the first time he held our firstborn) & imposing that feeling when he started to feel stressed & nervous. The first few times we went out I noticed that he would cross his arms, sort of like when you are holding a baby, but that stopped pretty soon after & I can take him anywhere now!(Going to test that to the max soon on an inaugural visit to a club!
)BTW we are :lol2: at your signature!
Warming the Bed
Spent today with my parents. My mum bought a Christmas present for our children, talked about what else to get them, asked where we are having Christmas this year, offered to buy the turkey, discussed what she will feed us when we go to them over the festive season, asked me what Matt & I want, offered to make us a Christmas Cake & a pudding, then asked what they're going to buy the kids for their birthdays which are in January & March.
After all that, all I can say is, I'm amazed it's as much as 107 days!
After all that, all I can say is, I'm amazed it's as much as 107 days!
Warming the Bed
I can relate to what Ken is saying big time! As total newbies ourselves I know we have to "get stuck in" but it can be a bit daunting when you all know each other so well - it's always at the back of my mind that I'm butting in or I'm going to make some unintentionally crass remark cos I don't know you all.
I know that it's just newbie nerves but :therethere: to KenluvsLucy from us!
I know that it's just newbie nerves but :therethere: to KenluvsLucy from us!
Warming the Bed
You have our sympathy - after I had our first child we were at it again in no time at all, but after our second...well, due to various complications, it was 9 weeks before we could even consider it & we were :crazy: for it by then. Naturally, I had done my best to keep Matt happy in other ways in the mean time, but even so...
Sorry, I know that's no help at all to you being single but I wanted to sympathise.
Sorry, I know that's no help at all to you being single but I wanted to sympathise.
Warming the Bed
Taken from the Washington Post
In summary, the police arrested Patrick Lawrence, 22 year old white male resident of Dacula, GA, in a pumpkin patch 11:38 p.m. on Friday.
Lawrence will be charged with lewd and lascivious behaviour, public indecency,and public intoxication at the Gwinnett County courthouse on Monday.
The suspect explained that as he was passing a pumpkin patch he decided to stop. "You know, a pumpkin is soft and squishy inside, and there was no one around for miles. At least I thought there wasn't," he stated in a phone interview.
Lawrence went on to say that he pulled over to the side of the road,picked out a pumpkin that he felt was appropriate to his purpose, cut a hole in it, and proceeded to satisfy his alleged "need." "Guess I was really into it, you know?" he commented with evident embarrassment.
In the process, Lawrence apparently failed to notice a Gwinnett County police car approaching and was unaware of his audience until Officer Brenda Taylor approached him.
"That was an unusual situation, that's for sure," said Officer Taylor.
" I walked up to Lawrence and he's...just pumping away at this pumpkin."
Taylor went on to describe what happened when she approached Lawrence.
"I just went up and said, "Excuse me sir, but do you realize that you're having sex with a pumpkin?"."
He froze and was clearly very surprised that I was there, and then looked me straight in the face and said,
A pumpkin? F**k me, is it midnight already?"
In summary, the police arrested Patrick Lawrence, 22 year old white male resident of Dacula, GA, in a pumpkin patch 11:38 p.m. on Friday.
Lawrence will be charged with lewd and lascivious behaviour, public indecency,and public intoxication at the Gwinnett County courthouse on Monday.
The suspect explained that as he was passing a pumpkin patch he decided to stop. "You know, a pumpkin is soft and squishy inside, and there was no one around for miles. At least I thought there wasn't," he stated in a phone interview.
Lawrence went on to say that he pulled over to the side of the road,picked out a pumpkin that he felt was appropriate to his purpose, cut a hole in it, and proceeded to satisfy his alleged "need." "Guess I was really into it, you know?" he commented with evident embarrassment.
In the process, Lawrence apparently failed to notice a Gwinnett County police car approaching and was unaware of his audience until Officer Brenda Taylor approached him.
"That was an unusual situation, that's for sure," said Officer Taylor.
" I walked up to Lawrence and he's...just pumping away at this pumpkin."
Taylor went on to describe what happened when she approached Lawrence.
"I just went up and said, "Excuse me sir, but do you realize that you're having sex with a pumpkin?"."
He froze and was clearly very surprised that I was there, and then looked me straight in the face and said,
A pumpkin? F**k me, is it midnight already?"
so no time to catch up properly right now. We'll be back when the kids have gone to bed & our social life has calmed down again (shouldn't take long!) Until then, 
to everyone!
Warming the Bed
We watched the 2nd & 3rd episodes of this & it gave us a lot to think & talk about. Richard & Donna seemed really great - glad you had a good time guys. You seemed to give off the same vibe I'm getting from people here - no pressure, this is about a social life as well as a sex life so thanks guys!
Warming the Bed
Hi All
Afraid I'm another Newbie - you must be getting pretty sick of us by now!
I'm Dani, 30, married to Mat for 10 years & have recently (pleasantly) SHOCKED :shock: him by expressing an interest in swinging.
It's very early days for us but this looked like a good, friendly place to do a bit of fact finding.
Looking forward to getting to know you all.
Dani
xxxx
Afraid I'm another Newbie - you must be getting pretty sick of us by now!
I'm Dani, 30, married to Mat for 10 years & have recently (pleasantly) SHOCKED :shock: him by expressing an interest in swinging.
It's very early days for us but this looked like a good, friendly place to do a bit of fact finding.
Looking forward to getting to know you all.
Dani
xxxx
