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delsutton
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 miles · Greater London

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Quote by Funlovers2009
However, to be honest if I was just to sit there for ages while X number of guys wanked in order to cum all over me, I think even I would get bored! I would want a little more involvement.
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I'm sure that wouldn't be a problem :cool:
Hi
As a single guy I'm kind of interested in the whole bukkake party idea. Maybe not as much in reality as in fantasy, but who knows, might be tempted given the right cirsumstances and the right woman. But, just wondering how the ladies here feel about this fetish? Is this a turn on for you? Or a huge No-No?
Yes, true, but Davina doesn't quite match up on the football full-times... other full-times, perhaps :-)
Maybe it's just because Chelsea are my most local team, and that I've just seen Ms Logan announce that they have won the League, but is she not the most sexy announcer on British TV? I know there are others on Italian TV that strip off on such occasions, but on home soil, and fully clothed, I think she tops the lot. What do others think?
Ok, I am absorbing all you say and will give that a go :-) Hopefully see some familiar names in the future and get some "Hi"'s in reply :-)
Hiya. Yes, have actually done that, and as you say they are very slow. Had some positive, but very little feedback there too. The thing is, I think that single guys have very little luck on here. When I was part of a couple, a couple of years agao, it was so different... couldn't keep all of them away :-) Now, as a single guy, I find the best responses seem to be from the USA and Germany. And I'm kind of curious as to why that is
Ah, OK, maybe I was a bit lacking in expressing myself correctly, but that was just a sign-off after a lot of failed starts in other rooms. I was referencing that after a series of "Hellos" and "Afternoon room"'s, many with the same inhabitants. I can fully understand why CPLs and single women get the limelight, but it would be nice to be greeted as a fellow human being, albeit just a single guy. I've always tried to be very general in introducing myself to rooms. All I was trying to highlight was that despite multitudinous polite introductions and conversational generalisations over the last months, all I have received is silence.
Compared to other camchat sites I am a member of, this is, by a long way, the least responsive, and as it is the most local that makes it the more disappointing :-(
I've been in quite a few times and always get the same response. OK I'm not very regular (mainly as it's never a a warm respone) but I've tried fairly regularly over the last couple of years :-(
Hi
I posted a query about the chat rooms a few minutes ago and it appears to have been deleted. I'm wondering why it has disappeared? Have I contravened some polciy somewhere along the line?
Del
Hi Suze
I never knew you or Bartdutch, but just saw this post and wanted to pass on my sad feelings. Hope you are coping, but you know you have a lot of people here who are feeling sad too and will support you with a simple few keystrokes. I don't know what else to say, but hope you can find enough help here.
Del x
Hi all
I am kind of thinking of giving up with the cam rooms. Good as the idea is, it seems really not to be geared up for, nor appreciated by, any couples or single women looking for single guys. I'm fairly certain I've never pushed in, nor being overbearing. On the contrary I'm always aware of being careful to introduce myself after waiting and viewing for a few minutes, and then in terms of a general greeting. In extremis, I've gone as far as asking if any real humans are online :-). And almost invariably I've been met with a wall of silence.
Maybe there are no real humans in the cam rooms, but if there are, a simple "hello" would be a greatly comforting thing to see. Or am I missing something really fundamental here?
Perhaps this is a general thing for single guys? There appear to be some guys who have penetrated the inner sanctum, but most haven't. The question is, if so, how?
Del
I went last year (as well as this year) and was talking to a few exhibitors who said they wouldn't be attending this year. Upstairs was like the Marie Celeste so it was wise to restrict it to one floor this time, but tbh, it still seemed very bare, if that's not too much of a bad pun.
Likewise I won't be wasting my money next year. Does anyone know if there are any good exhibitions in the rest of Europe?
Quote by naughtynymphos1
cant see the difference myself, its all a matter of what you like, i personally think things are just more acceptable for women than men, not my opinion but thats just how it is, like bi females, you can go into any club any night and see girl on girl and thats fine but for guys to play with each other you have to go on special nights designed for them! why is that? if its ok to go into a club on a friday night and women to play with each other why not men? i also knew a women thro swinging that wouldnt allow her husband to try another man even tho she was bi herself, i think its just not really acceptable for men to have things up their bum, play with other guys etc, sad really in this day and age and even more so in swinging clubs where people are supposed to be open!!!

I think I agree, if I undertand ya correctly. I'm str8 meself, but am very happy for all peeps to express themselves, whether str8 or bi. Isn't it weird that there are still these social divides in the 00's. Blimey, it's weird that they still exist. Shit, no, it completely unacceptable, isn't it? Gawd, I haven't been to Abs for ages... maybe time I went back, but scared on my own dunno
Cleaning is a bit of a pain, I guess, but then, you have to clean a dildo too after each use. A good rinse is all it takes. But, even with a non-plastic evening or afternoon or morning, I always end up having to clean up a real pussy afterwards too! OK, I know which task I'd prefer... but nothing comes free in Life! :-)
Hi all
I think I posted here about this a couple of years ago but my Monday limited brain cannot find it using the search facility!!
Anyway, I had a rather heated discussion over the weekend about men using sex toys. The gist of the discussion went as follows:
Me: Have you ever been out with a guy who owned any sex toys?
My (F) friend: Ewww, how gross! I'd never go out with any guy like that.
Me: But you've got at least one. I know 'cos I was with you when you bought it!!
My (F) friend: That's completely different.
Me: How come, to use a pun?
My (F) friend: It just is.
Me: It never "just is".
My (F) friend: Well it is on this occasion!
Me: Ok, so why is it gross for a guy to use one and not for a woman?
My (F) friend: It's just a horrible thought a guy using some sex doll to get off on.
Me: But there are more than just sex dolls for guys. Have a look at any toy website and you'll see the variety available. Anyway, what would you think about a girl using a "male" sex doll?
My (F) friend: There's no such things.
Me: I think you'll find there are. Certainly not as commonly available as the Rabbit series, but they are there if you look for them.
My (F) friend: Not the point, and anyway, I still think it's gross.
And that, in brief, is how it drunkenly started and ended over several glasses of rather good wine smile It brought back a conversation I had in Ann Summers (other sex shops are available) about two years ago with one of the sales assistants. I was looking for a Fleshlight or equivalent (other equivalents are available) but she told me that they were not allowed to sell them, due to some local legislation. How sexist is that?!
Anyway, I was wondering if, in this liberated day and age, other people have any strong views, pro or anti my friend. Or me, for that matter?!?!?! lol
Del
Hey, thanks everyone. Makes me feel far less like the freak I was beginning to think I was (maybe I am anyway, but at least not for the same reasons :-) )
Hopefully catch up with you in the rooms soon, or via mails.
Thanks for the support,
Dirk xxx
Hi all,
It's ages since I posted, although I've almost by habit kept the profile up to date. After my last relationship ended (over a year ago) for some reason I completely went off sex, and it's only in the last week that I have suddenly rediscovered what feeling truly horny is about again :shock:
I even visited the Doc to see if anything was wrong, but after loads of tests nothing physical was found to be out of place.
Well, the irony is, I now can't stop thinking about it! What a complicated life we have to live sometimes! Anyway, it's good to be back in the world of horny thoughts :-)
I just wonder has anyone else ever gone through anything like this?
Dirk
Quote by benrums0n
Normal isn't a word I often use.
I think your experiences may well be shared by a lot of folk myself included. Equally I know lots of folk who are literally gagging for it 24/7 (not bragging just reflecting).
I certainly gag for it a lot less than I did when I was 16 but then I get a lot more nowadays.
What fascinates me is how some days I just cant get it off my mind. Anybody have that problem?

Oh yes, there are days when anything female that moves is a draw, but there are others when everything that moves is totally uniteresting. Nice when all that's female that moves is in the same mood for anything that's male moves ;-)
Am I on my own in this, or are there times when you wonder what the f**k the whole sex thing is about?
Some days I wake up and feel so horny I could summon up the energy to slip into any willing and available woman! Other days, I wake up, think briefly about sex, and immediately dismiss it as completely unimportant! And even as an unattractive option at times!!!
Is this age catching up with me or is this "normal"? :-)
I have a slightly hairy stomach but feel very uncomfortable if I don't shave all around my groin area. As for the interface zone, I always trim that area so there is a gradual merging of the two... a suggestion made by an ex and one I've kept to for the last year or so :-)
Quote by deancannock
not sure if this is a generalisation....but I have found that ladies with smaller breasts have larger...and most wonderful nipples.

I have a friend who has small boobs and small nipples, but both are lovely ;-)
For me it's not to do with size, but how well a woman carries them, as it were!
Hi
I'm off to Agde in the south of France for a week in May, and have heard a lot about the swinging scene around there. I'm not staying at the Cap resort but actually in the proper old town of Agde (much more cultural biggrin).
I was wondering what the scene is like for single guys around the area. For example are there any single-friendly clubs that might be fun to visit? I'd be grateful if anyone has any useful advice.
Thanks
Del
There's a swinging feature on R4 on Womans Hour now. Soz if already posted!
I love chat that uses humour as a vehicle for erotic messages. Not overtly smutty, but more a gentle and subtle humour that suggests something very naughty without being explicit. Choice of words is so important in setting a tone.
Having said that, I had a wonderful conversation with a girl in Italy last week - she didn't speak much English and I don't speak much Italian, but it was a very sexy and arousing conversation nevertheless - in that case, it was all about the eyes speaking.
Thanks everyone. Nice to know I'm not out of place here cool Looking forward to meeting some more exhibitionists in that case biggrin
As a dedicated voyeur and having enjoyed a fairly recent great encounter where "just watching" was the only thing on offer and the only thing wanted, I was asked yesterday if I thought I might be in the wrong place here on SH.
I've dwelt on it overnight and I feel confident that I am in the right place, but it also occurred to me that it might well be seen as a fringe activity, as it were. I'd be interested to hear what the consensus view is.