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easyease
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Gender fluid, 52
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Orgasminator
Its like people forget about chernobyl and the genetic mutations that will continue to exist among the human, animal and plant life for at least 22 generations.
the thing is we know nothing about the long term effects of the radiation cloud that swept across east europe.
The nuclear meltdown provoked a radioactive cloud which floated over Russia, Belarus, Ukraine and Moldova, but also the European part of the Republic of Macedonia, Croatia, Turkey, Bulgaria, Greece, Romania, Lithuania, Estonia , Latvia, Finland, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Austria, Hungary, the Czech Republic and the Slovak Republic, The Netherlands, Belgium, Slovenia, Poland, Switzerland, Germany, Italy, Ireland, France (including Corsica) and the United Kingdom
As far as coal is concerned it is a lot "cleaner" to use than it used to be thanks to modern tech, plus there is still a hell of a lot of it in the ground, despite what Thatcher did to the industry.
I tend to think "better the devil you know" than one that has proven to have caused four square kilometres of pine forest in the immediate vicinity of the reactor to turn ginger brown and die overnight.
the thing is we know nothing about the long term effects of the radiation cloud that swept across east europe.
The nuclear meltdown provoked a radioactive cloud which floated over Russia, Belarus, Ukraine and Moldova, but also the European part of the Republic of Macedonia, Croatia, Turkey, Bulgaria, Greece, Romania, Lithuania, Estonia , Latvia, Finland, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Austria, Hungary, the Czech Republic and the Slovak Republic, The Netherlands, Belgium, Slovenia, Poland, Switzerland, Germany, Italy, Ireland, France (including Corsica) and the United Kingdom
As far as coal is concerned it is a lot "cleaner" to use than it used to be thanks to modern tech, plus there is still a hell of a lot of it in the ground, despite what Thatcher did to the industry.
I tend to think "better the devil you know" than one that has proven to have caused four square kilometres of pine forest in the immediate vicinity of the reactor to turn ginger brown and die overnight.
Orgasminator
Quote by LostI love "dragondrums" and "the white dragon" by Mccaffrey, also the Rama books by Arthur c Clarke.
I quite enjoy Anne McCaffrey Dragons of pern series for easy reading together with Anne Rice books make for an ebjoyable read. I guess im a bit of a fantasist at heart.
The Dr Zeuss books as a child were tantamount to literal abuse!! I still dont get it??
Dont know if everyones aware but sadly Terry Pratchett has developed the early stages of Alzheimers disease, what a cruel blow to such an imaginative mind.
Orgasminator
i think the poll is screwed anyway, peoplecould vote for a seperate section for cheaters to keep them away from everybody else, or they could vote against a seperate section because they realise a cheat is a liar by nature so any system is doomed to be exploited.
No win situation, like this thread lol.
No win situation, like this thread lol.
Orgasminator
Quote by 3vervethe fact you fail to percieve is that by meeting a cheater a person would be directly involved in causing pain to an innocent party. wtf has fraud and bad parenting got to do with this spare us the weak ass excuses you feed yourself to try justify your actions.
Swinging = Adultery with consent
Cheating = Adultery without consent
Both morally condemned by societies & billions around the world, but such is human nature that some "Swingers", eventhough their own acts widely defined as immoral, find the need to look down at "Cheaters". Yes, people get hurt, but people get hurt in a lot more ways other than being cheated on. A Couple you swing with are perhaps fraudsters, bad parents, etc etc list goes on, but do you check all that!? heck no and you don't try finding out either because you cannot be bothered to do so, but you sure are bothered about "cheaters". so please get off this high horse of selective morality, enjoy sex and live & let live.
as for a seperate section, it would be fruitless/pointless excercise until the majority are neutral - which is just not going to happen anytime soon.
Orgasminator
Quote by Serendipity
very true, thats why if someone finds somebody else attractive they should let them know, fortune favours the brave, hehe.
Including straight guys who fancy a change then eh?
oh bloody hell, ok i stand as charged. i did mail a local straight guy once on the off chance. 
Orgasminator
Quote by hornyman69how about talking to your wife and telling her what you feel? what are you scared of? her rejecting you? I can assure you that she would be more hurt by lies and deception of you cheating than your honesty in expressing your feelings.
Ok, Easyease
put your self in my shoes for one minute. I'm in a relationship, (married 14 years, 2 kids) wife devolops medical condition that reduces libedo to zero, then has operation now finds sex painful and has zero urge to have sex. so if it's so easy, black and white what do I do? bearing in mind I am still emotionaly involved with my wife? a little light relief on this web site or break up the family? or give up sex? I have never cheated yet but I may be tempted in the future and many in my position would be tempted to. Ask yourself what would you do? not an easy one, no matter what you do someone gets hurt hardly suprising people arn't allways honest, although I would not play with anyone else without telling them my situation first. At the end of the day there's always a but, if,or a maybe. Personaly for me I'd rather be in the same group as others in a similar situation and not have to explain myself to people who just want to drag you through the mud because you are not as fortunate as they are. Their been honest, now tear me to shreds.
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Quote by Serendipity
even stranger are the guys who say their straight in the profile but then put ads in the men seeking men section saying they are looking for a nice big cock to suck. they dont want to scare off the women so they bend the truth.
As a bi guy ive had plenty of mails from guys saying they are straight......
Quote by easyease
you do right just to take it as a compliment solofun, any reasonable bi bloke who does try his luck with a straight guy wouldnt need telling no twice. most wouldnt expect a reply anyway because they are aware of just how cheeky they are being in the first place.
So straight guys looking for a BJ are strange...but bi guys trying their luck with a straight guy are just cheeky and paying a compliment?
Sounds like a bit of a double standard doesn't it?
hmmm yeah i take your point, but at least the bi guy is honest to himself about who he really is. A straight guy who wants to suck a cock should at least consider himself "bi-curious". labels are a pretty crap thing regarding a flexible thing such as sexuality but straight guys dont like other mens dicks. Though some straight guys arent fussy who gets them off when times are hard and pussy is scarce. :lol: Orgasminator
Quote by danne-gary
so yet again i fail to make friends on this site, what the heck is it with me that makes me the twat for voicing an opinion?
why do i all of a sudden feel guilty for believing cheating is wrong?
I shared my view point here because its a subject i care about ,but all i get is painted as a troll.
maybe it was the way u said it ......
ok so I regret using bad language . I know the swinging community are a sensitive bunch of souls when it comes to rude words. I dont regret my sentiment though.
Orgasminator
so yet again i fail to make friends on this site, what the heck is it with me that makes me the twat for voicing an opinion?
why do i all of a sudden feel guilty for believing cheating is wrong?
I shared my view point here because its a subject i care about ,but all i get is painted as a troll.
why do i all of a sudden feel guilty for believing cheating is wrong?
I shared my view point here because its a subject i care about ,but all i get is painted as a troll.
Orgasminator
Quote by X_fanny_xfair enough, people like that shouldnt be surprised at hearing a point of view they dont like when they chat about this subject in a someones stupid enough to ask the op's original question then dont be surprised if they get some flack for it.
easyease every man married or otherwise pays his money like the rest of us what they do here is their business as has previously been said it is not just the men but women to
Im realistic and realise the world nor this site cant be full of honest people.
Orgasminator
Quote by plumfabio
the men who cheat on here really piss me off, there's nowhere near as many women as men on this site as it is without a bunch of bastards doing the dirty behind their wives back and decieving the single ladies here and putting them off the honest single guys.
How very dare you call me a bastard, you know nothing about my circumstances
Not eveyone's lives are a simple as you clearly suggest (or you perhaps are!)i wasnt aiming my views at any one in particular but what can i say, if the cap fits......As someone who has been shat on from a great height myself I'm perfectly entitled to hold my point of view regarding liars and cheats.
Orgasminator
you do right just to take it as a compliment solofun, any reasonable bi bloke who does try his luck with a straight guy wouldnt need telling no twice. most wouldnt expect a reply anyway because they are aware of just how cheeky they are being in the first place.
The problem here is as you describe, a lot of the times the guys who profess to being straight are gayer than the ones who admit they are bi or curious.
If i had a penny for every ad i have seen by a "straight" guy saying he wants to recieve anal I'd be very rich, whereas I'm bi but dont want to go near another blokes bum.
You just have to laugh sometimes.
The problem here is as you describe, a lot of the times the guys who profess to being straight are gayer than the ones who admit they are bi or curious.
If i had a penny for every ad i have seen by a "straight" guy saying he wants to recieve anal I'd be very rich, whereas I'm bi but dont want to go near another blokes bum.
You just have to laugh sometimes.
Orgasminator
Quote by solofunvery eloquently put solofun. I do think humans are a judgemental species by default, even cheats make the judgement that their partner is better off not knowing the truth. They cant complain when more moral people judge them.
I think most people on here think cheating is wrong. Some might have mitigating circumstances that cause them to cheat, but the bottom line is their still cheating.
Do you think cheating is wrong? If you can honestly answer NO and that you think cheating is fine, then you have a point, but I’ll hazard a guess that even people who do cheat know deep down its wrong but do it for whatever reasons.
The problem, is that the majority that do cheat don’t even try to communicate with there partners, they just deceive from the word go! Someone mentioned they were in a successful relationship, well if this is the case surely a successful relationship requires communication and trust, so why not talk to your partner, Its proven to work or there wouldn’t be swinging couples here or even singles with their partners consent for that matter.
Although I don’t think anyone on this thread is being judged as such, people are merely giving opinions, and it seems that because it’s a swinging site some people on here think that swingers should be more liberated and less judgemental with people who cheat, from experience that’s far from the truth, in fact, most swingers, see cheating as an even bigger NO NO, due to the fact that their open and honest and don’t see any need to cheat when they can communicate and/or do it together. So I’m not surprised some see cheating as the ultimate betrayal, even more so in this lifestyle.
Isn’t it about time that people recognise that people who swing do still have morals and have a right to like everyone else, are people insinuating that anyone who swings should be in the gutter? That’s what it sounds like, ask any swinging couple on here what’s the worst scenario that can happen in this lifestyle and I’ll hedge a bet a lot will say betrayal, because honest swinging couples have no reason to cheat so why some think they should have no morals is beyond belief.
