There appears to be an interest in porn videos where either the man or the woman is dressed and the other naked.
I mostly enjoy me and my partner being completely naked, however there are times when this is not that practicable. Even when it is possible to get naked sometimes its nice not to bother to undress.
Maybe people are intimidated by your writing style? I do enjoy meeting people, but not many people want to go all night long.
Then again it might just be a process of finding the right people for you? depending on my mood sometimes all I want is a quick meet and then to doze off.
O.K don't know what those legs are about, but they scare me.
I'm still humming the A-team theme tune that Katniss has put in my head though.
Best thing about winter might be an excuse to find something warm and relaxing? - For me a bed and a nice lady :twisted:
Not really had my fair share of unconventional relationships. It was the one conventional relationship I've had that ended up so very "wrong!".
Talking about christening things I was at a supermarket recently and saw a pack of Carlsberg. Made me smile - reminded me of a time with a girl. Have I christened Carlsberg for myself?
The best thing about winter is snuggling up with the TV on with something nice and warming. Maybe Santa will bring me whisky, porn in HD and a hot lady this Xmas? - A fire is always a bonus.
Have to confess I had already seen that vid. Still made me laugh though
After all that chatter I'm not surprised the guy gave up - I'd have gone soft after all that! (Sorry flippant alert lol )
Maybe we think of bases in the wrong order? - 1st base (using just mouths) is sometimes deemed as the most intimate thing we can do.
I can't think of anything nearer that Silverleigh or Eureka's.
Hopefully someone will be able to point you to a closer venue.
I was arranging a meeting with a female in the next town over and everything was going quite well.
She explained she wanted a take away, and I explained I was not that hungry, but she could order one from herself. She then decided to instruct me to buy the chinese take away (since it came with a bottle of wine she liked).
That blew it for me, I'm not made of money, and I don't want to feed someone for a week.
Better just to meet up with mutual fun, without charity coming into it.
Regarding your situation, sometimes people don't know how to phrase things!
"Hi, Are you looking for a fuck?"
In the chat room/instant messaging I always go for "Hi, how are you?". Now why does that not attract people? lol
OP I've had exactly the same experience of women telling me I'm slighty above average, and certainly not small. Very difficult to know.
As for the lables I am likewise sceptical - How many adds ask for VWE only, and how many average sized guys must respond to those ads by saying that they a VWE?
I've been around naked men with erections before and some are large, some are small but most are average.
I also think it's a perspective thing - if you're a tall chubby man an average sized penis will look small and vice versa if you're short and thin. Camera angles on photo's change perspective as lot as well.
One grump you hear from people meeting met is that the men they meet say "I've got a 9 inch cock" when responding to ads for them only to be average in size. I think to solve this we need a conversion table between real life inches and the internet inches some people use lol (The conversion factor could be called the lying index!)
Maybe the best way to respond to inquisitive women and couples is to tell them to stop asking about your size, because it's best for you to show them in person! (I might be being flippant here lol ).
Well....... I am someone who likes pleasuring and taking pleasure with someones wife. The reason I guess it's seen as naughty, and that's something that could be seen as a kink. People get on by all sorts of things, but I think a large part of it is because they can be seen as socially unacceptable or naughty etc - Why do some men like womens underwear for example.
So maybe the turn on for people is playing with the concept that during our swinging lifes we can shed our social inhibitions and become sexually liberated. Whether societies rules make sense is something very different though.
Never had one myself - and I always need sometime to recover after one orgasm.
Still some orgasms are longer and more intense than others, but I think I would be exhausted if they went on for very long!
Oh Phuket!!! I can't think of any names :sad: .
I went to Uni with someone from Cockermouth, I had to stop myself on many occasion from making inappropriate remarkes.
there's a "cock alley" just outside chesterfield.
Reminds me of how my parents used to play scrabble with their friends at Uni many years ago - they had to come up with all the rude words! lol . What else to occupy minds studying PHD's in the mid 70's?
Only 10 out of 15 for me :sad:
Looks like I'm be in the dog house lol
I do love kissing. That is not to say meets without it aren't enjoyable for me, but I prefer it when it does happen.
It's not just couples who don't kiss, I've met a lady before at a swing club who did not want to kiss.
I never knew impotence in the way you defined affects both sexes.
As for myself I sometimes find it hard to climax, and it's not always about the mechanics of the situation, as you have guessed it's about the mind as well.
For myself I sometimes get performance anxiety even with a long term partner - The male orgasm is seen as something just so important to sex (which I guess biologically speaking makes sense) to both partners it can be the sole focus of the sex session. Why can't sex just be pleasurable, and if you feel like cumming then you should, if not why do people care?
Secondly it depends on how I'm feeling at the time. I have had days where I have sat at my desk, feeling horny and rush home to look at some porn, and for some reason just don't feel that horny anymore. The same principal work with actually being with a woman as well! Sometimes imagination and teasing can get you more turned on than the actual thing I guess. At those times I leave it for a few hours and come back to it, often results in a good horny session with a healthy climax. (I have walked away from sex sessions with real people without cumming only to get myself off with porn a few hours later - might be connected?)
Thirdly people might have intimacy issues I have had female partners that say they climax on their own, but don't with other people. These were women I hooked up with in regular nightclubs and then played with (one over several months). Maybe the act of surrender or domination (I'm getting kinky here lol) with someone is something that is impeding progress, and might be cured by being with someone you have a trusting long term relationship with?
Finally (connected with the first point) I find that what works when watching porn (in my fantasy world) does not work in real life. Watching a slutty threesome on the PC turns me on a lot at times, however in the real world I have to be in a specific mood to get a kick out of a threesome.
Anyway these are my thoughts on the matter - it sounds like the physical aspects of your encounter were as you liked them, but as you have guessed climaxing is often the matter of both mind and body.
Man I've writtern a lot lol
Regarding the pastie, I'm sure if the lawyers could hid their smiles at that story the person who burnt his penis would be royally fucked over by them. lol
Regarding out of the ordinary romances people marry cars etc. Trust me I like cars and they get me excited (In the way James May does!), and you can have fun in them - he he, but to marry one? Better off with a pig lol
The crunches statistic is just plain weired - Maybe that could be a new introduction to a porn vid? lol
As for warm feet, just keep your feet under the covers! As for people who ejaculate prematurely (and we have all been there) maybe a bucket of ice for their feet would work wonders?
Thanks for the link flirty.
As for bad jokes there's endless potental lol
Looking at porn there seems to be quite a fetish with cumming on/in food/drink then someone eating/drinking it. Not my cup of tea!
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hi, can you add me to this?
Delphis should be able to vouch for me.
First SH social, but would be great to see people.
Bad - What if you don't like hair down there? - all wool is just hair?
Good - Maybe we can knit awesome patterns in them lol
. The best "invention" that has been created is a woman by far....
despite it's reputation I have received compliments about how nice I smell. Long live the lynx effect?